Bumping for my sad soft dick

Surely some input..

Pills. It doesn't mean you need to use them forever. Use them as temporary aid until your anxiety is gone. Speak to a doctor.

>>17007224
I ordered some through online pharmacy.. Feels bad man.. 25 and need dick pills..
But has anyone else specifically had this issue after a breakup?

>>17007235
ED is much more common than people realize. Even young men have it. Don't feel bad. It's good that you are trying to do something about it, many get depressed and give up.

I had issues when I first started. Pills helped me get over anxiety, and with practice I gained confidence and stopped needing them.

>>17007191
Yeah I hear you, familiar. In my experience it's due to the strangeness of a new person and the touch of her body. You used to do this type of stuff with someone else, who you probably cared for a lot, and now you're supposed to do the same with someone else, and part if you just doesn't gel with it. I went through a similar thing a couple of months ago, and decided early on that I would just do a reverse psychology thing on myself, telling myself that fucking wasn't important, perhaps even something I didn't care to do at all, and just enjoyed eating her out and fingering her until she came multiple times and was happy with the situation. I told her I'm a slow beginner, but that she should be patient with me. After a couple of weeks with this, lying next to her smoking hot body felt much more natural and I was able to go for long periods. I did however lose my erection quite a few times with this chick, and eventually realised I just wasn't that into her, due to her personality, so Idk whether that was the problem to begin with, or if I actually do have a problem with being sexual with new women because I admittedly still love my ex.

TL;DR Don't be in a hurry to fuck, just get used to her and relax and you'll get a boner when you are ready. Don't force it, don't get frustrated - just laugh about it and have fun.

>>17007245
Thank you.
I read quite a few guys saying that taking the pill once helped them overcome their 'mental' block and after that they were ok. I hope that this will be true for me.
How are pills btw? I ordered them but never tried... Should I take one at night at home just to see how it is?
Like will I get an uncontrollable boner, or do you just feel hornier?

>>17007246
You are completely right. When I'm on my way over to the new girls house I feel like it's wrong, and the next morning I feel dirty or something like that.. dunno. I feel like I'm cheating on the ex who dumped me, which is probably the most beta thing I have ever written.

It is great being next to her naked and fingering/eating her for a few hours.

I think It is too early for me to have sex, I don't feel comofortable or ready. but I have to try. I know my ex is getting laid and I have this stupid male instinct that if she is getting some I better get some too... Otherwise ill sit at home thinking of her.

Still, ready or not, I need to bang this hottie, so hopefully the pills will help me!

Thanks

>>17007191
Similar situation here, also I don't know if I am the only faggot or not but the idea of kissing or touching another girl feels weird as fuck.

>>17007274
Weird cos you love and think of the ex?

I don't find kissing and touching weird. In fact it's great and I enjoy it.

>>17007269
Depends on the pills. They are not all the same, they have different effects. Different people also have different reactions. Only way to find out for sure is to try.

>>17007283
Yeah, perhaps it's because it happened last week and it was so sudden, I mean there were signs but I just ignored them and she end it trough messages, I think that in my mind it didn't ended, it's just a weird feeling.

>>17007342
I'm the same. Cannot accept that it is over and still hope to get back together with her (its not gona happen..). I love her and only think about her.
However the best thing to do is find a new girl. Get Tinder or something. Trust me, it feels weird, but it will keep your mind occupied and you won't think about the ex as much

>>17007372
Thanks breh

>>17007191
Yeah it's almost certainly just due to the depression over the breakup, still hasn't left your system.
Like others have said, you can see your doctor and get medication so you can perform in the meanwhile, it's a simple and easy way to deal with it.

Also, you said it's been about a month: if it lasts longer than 6 months, you should go see a psychiatrist at that point. Hopefully that won't be the case. Good luck.

>>17007235
>anyone else specifically had this issue after a breakup?
Yes, it's a common symptom of depression. Depression is normal after a breakup.
Only a medical problem if it doesn't go away.

>>17007494
Thank you! :)

ED is rarely a psychological problem, if it is in your case you can easily pretend the girl is your mother and get hard as diamonds.
Your problem is likely physiological. After your teens, erections don't just happen for no reason, you have more control over it.
An erection is when the penis is filled with blood. High blood pressure can cause ED.
Poor diet, drugs, alcohol can cause ED.
Go see your doctor, and eliminate physical causes before you jump to conclusion that this is psychological.

Some time ago I was just browsing on the internet and I came across the following page.
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/erectile-dysfunction-question
I know it might sound weird, but porn could be the cause. Much people share their story in which they say that they struggled with ED. They used many pills, went to doctors and were very frustrated that they didn't know what caused the problem, but when they stopped with porn all their problems were disappeared.
Maybe you should give it a try.
I hope it helps!