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How does one one make themselves come across as LDR/ marriage
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2016-04-06 16:45:10 Post No. 17003898
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:45:10 Post No. 17003898 [Report]
How does one one make themselves come across as LDR/ marriage material to the opposite sex?

>Be 23
>Used to be extremely overweight, so never really had attention from women until a year ago
>Generally only get attention from women that I know sleep around (live in a smallish town), was having a casual relationship with someone that I started to fall for, and when I told her that I wanted to be more than friends she said no, saying that we wouldnt be ready to have kids at the same time due to her being older than me
>Girls that genuinely seem to want a relationship never seem interested

How do I fix this? Its like this shit was easier when I was fat, didnt get many chances with girls but when I did at least I knew they'd be interested in more than sex.
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:46:09 Post No.17003902
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:46:09 Post No.17003902 [Report]
*LTR, not LDR
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:48:13 Post No.17003908
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:48:13 Post No.17003908 [Report]
>>17003898
>due to her being older than me
have you told her that you, infact Do want all that shabang? how old are you? is her concern reasonable or just an assumption?
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:53:38 Post No.17003929
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:53:38 Post No.17003929 [Report]
>>17003908
She's 8 years older, I told her I wanted all of that but she made it clear it ain't happening. We don't speak anymore.
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 17:17:10 Post No.17003992
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 17:17:10 Post No.17003992 [Report]
>>17003929
well, then that wasn't really the reason, then... i'm older than my bf too, and i was concerned about that in the beginning, but after all it's no problem if you talk it out.

however:
is your main concern that girls don't want anything serious?
it might just be your age. as far as i know are girls aged 23 not really looking to "settle down" yet. i would say your best bet is go for older girls. 27 and up i'd say.
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 17:18:53 Post No.17004001
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 17:18:53 Post No.17004001 [Report]
>>17003992
How much older if you don't mind me asking?
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