so, some months ago, i lost all of my friends, not in a fight,

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2016-04-06 14:28:40 Post No. 17003479
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Lost contact with hu 2016-04-06 14:28:40 Post No. 17003479 [Report]

so, some months ago, i lost all of my friends, not in a fight, not to enter in too much detail, my mom tried to send me to rehab for marihuana (even when i dont smoke that much), i felt some shame to tell that to my friends, so i ended up not meeting any of them,
fast foward till now, i've lost all of my social skills, almost all conversations are akward and i have become something of a hermit.
(although i work and go to adults highshool, i just dont socialize with them)
and im not sure if i even want to re-insert me in society, i actually planned for the future to buy some little terrain in the countryside, and go live alone a semi-self-sustaining life,as in, ill sell the food exess to pay for internet and electricity and thats it.

as anyone been trough something like this?
i miss the days when i had friends, but im also kind of tired of everyone's shit
and i dont even know how would i start socializing again.
btw, im not sad, im just like, doing what im supposed to do and then coming back home to waste time in different ways until today becomes tomorrow.

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:53:45 Post No.17003547
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:53:45 Post No.17003547 [Report]

i guess no one saw this, im gonna bump it a bit

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 15:27:20 Post No.17003619
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 15:27:20 Post No.17003619 [Report]

Last try? i guess

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 15:38:56 Post No.17003659
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 15:38:56 Post No.17003659 [Report]

All my friends are workmates. Have you tried getting a job?
Don't sweat it too much

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 15:51:37 Post No.17003713
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 15:51:37 Post No.17003713 [Report]

>>17003659
i have one, but i dont have any workmates, i mean, i give people flyers, im not paid much but enough to cover cigarretes transport, weed, etc, and the hour-range vert flexible, so i can go to night highschool for adults :/

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:01:28 Post No.17003750
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:01:28 Post No.17003750 [Report]

>>17003713
If you're that confident to be alone then you are able to put yourself out there without fear of rejection. Whats the worst that could happen? You being alone? You're already prepared for that. Take the plunge! Go out to events and practice socialising again!

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:29:03 Post No.17003830
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 16:29:03 Post No.17003830 [Report]

>>17003479
I'm in the same boat socially, anon. Due to a combination of circumstances I stoped socializing normally for a long time. Became super awkward as a result. It wasn't until recently that I just sorta accepted it and interact accordingly. I'm definitely enjoying my me time, but wish I had a few more friends who weren't in games or a boyfriend who wouldn't mind keeping his space. Sorry I don't have any actual advice to offer. Hope you find out what works for you.