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What age did you man up and get your shit together /adv/?
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What age did you man up and get your shit together /adv/?
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>Implying my shit has ever been together
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I'll have to get back to you on that one OP
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well...i think i started around 21. didnt really feel like it was together till 23.
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>>17002792
started at 23, just now getting some semblance of results at 25
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>>17002818

This, I don't even consider myself fully human before 23, starting to actually do stuff now at 24.
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well I'm 23 now and I'm still working at it. I hope to feel settled by age 25.
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Some fag at school is really trying to get in a fight with me, I'm in split training for the Army National Guard, fighting would probably get rid of my contract. What do?
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>>17002839
ignore him. ignore to the max. honestly, if he assaults you, he gets in trouble and you need to learn how to take a beating anyhow. most likely though he is just talking shit and you need to ignore it.
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>>17002827

Elaborate on why you did not consider yourself fully human until 23.
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>>17002858
not the guy you're referring too but I essentially felt like a kid until about the age 23 (que the blink 182 song)

at 21 you can drink, woo hoo, still in colllege haha turn down for what?

at 22 whatever just another birthday full of fun and carelessness

at 23.... my friends have all graduated college (i'm still pluggin away) all moving into their own place getting internships or big boy jobs, see them very infrequently as opposed to just a year or two ago, had recently quit my shit job at UPS so unemployed and broke, no real hobbies to speak of no gf the whole 9 yards and decided I should probably start doing hard drugs or actually doing something with my life

22-25 are pivotal years for a lot of people. seems to be sort of an awakening period for a lot of people as you realize you're a full blown adult and you're not getting any younger
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>>17002849
I'll do my best bro
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can you ask agaon in 10 years, OP?
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>>17002792
29
about 5 months ago, actually. feelsokman
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>>17002839
>FIGHT ! FIGHT ! FIGHT !
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>>17002939
just kidding. stay away from trouble.
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>>17002792
22 already.
still a manchild
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Around 30. Had gone back to school, finished my degree, and got my first job in a new field.
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>>17002792
More like at what age I started being a pussy and losing my shit. I had my shit together way more as a kid than I do now.
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>>17002928
>>>17002792
>29
>about 5 months ago, actually. feelsokman
28, still feel like in transition.

What did you do ?
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27, still far from feeling like my shit is together. Went through my first breakup as well.

I have no idea what I'm doing. Is i gonna get better?
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>>17003151
This, so much this.
When i was 18 i had a gf, i was happy, i was lifting and i was in school
Now when im 28 im single, unhappy, hopeless, lonely and i switch my time between work and full time "college" studies
The only thing that hasnt changed is my love for sports and lifting
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24, when I had no other choice.
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>>17002878

That's make a lot of sense. I'm nearly 23 and I'm only starting to sort my life out now. I haven't been to college but I have a job in an industry that will always have a labour shortage.
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It's too late to do it now, so I've given up.
>23
>/r9k/ incarnate, friendless KHV hikki NEET
>haven't socialised with people since HS

Living with my mom. After she dies, I'll just end it all once the money ends.
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>>17003317

It's never too late.
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>>17003317
A long time ago I had a similar plan.
The only difference is that I shared an apartment with friends, parents were dead but left me some money.
When I was 27, in one of the rare ocasions when I went out, I met a girl that is now my wife.
She gave me the will to go back to college, finish my degree. Then I did a masters.
Now I'm 40 and still alive, generaly happy.
Anyway, long story short. Try to go ou there anon, what do you have to lose? Do you think it can get any worse? Death will always be an option anyway. I really wish you luck former version of me.
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>>17002792
27-28
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>>17003260
>The only thing that hasnt changed is my love for sports and lifting
And this alone saves your life and makes you a better person IMO
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>>17002792
27
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>>17004178
Indeed it does, whenever im sad i hit the gym
Lately its been working out two times a day so thats...prolly not good but whatever
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