Yesterday I was in a small college party, there, I made out with an African beautiful black girl. I am not here looking for judgement about that.
Anyway, she was really nice to talk to, however, it was really hard to make her kiss me. We would dance, rub our pelvises and i'd suck the shit out of her neck. However, when it came to kissing, she didn't allow that much, we kissed only for some seconds and that makes me a little mad.
At one point, she just wanted to go home, i offered to take her there, she refused it, I insisted and she still refused. I just said "so, next time we meet in college, let's have a talk, okay?" and she agreed.
I just want to know wether I should keep on talking to her, if I still have a chance and what I should do.
What do you think about, /b/? I would give anything to have the chance to have sex with such a woman.
Pic related, she looked a lot like that, with a shorter hair.
One, if you don't want attention brought to the fact she was black, you wouldn't have mentioned it. Not that there's shame in being black, but you have established with your words that it matters to you. Therefore, prepare to be ridiculed.
Two, no - she probably is uninterested. It was a party. She was probably just looking for some fun at the party.
Three, this is /adv/, not /b/.
Four, I can't stand when otherwise attractive black girls style their hair like that. Just an opinion though.
>>16991551
Really? This hairstyle is literally the best thing about black girls. It's breathtaking.
Maybe you shouldn't talk to her if it's just about sex. She obviously isn't that kind of person when she didn't even let you kiss her.
You sound like an idiot.
>>16991545
>However, when it came to kissing, she didn't allow that much
The reasons women have explained to me or shown me for this are:
>She's not that into you yet
>Kissing is too personal/intimate atm
>She has an std
>She feels guilty about something
In order, girls need time to warm up and get attracted. They might be attracted to you to start off, but you can easily turn a girl off. Kissing is a lot more personal to women. Who cares about necks? It's a body part. But your tongue forcing her lips open to explore her mouth? She's getting penetrated. She might not be ready to get penetrated like that.
She might also have herpes or be cheating on her boyfriend lol. Again, kissing is intimate and full of gifts.... like herpes.
Either way, you fucked up by not making her come to you.
>I insisted and she still refused
Noooooo. You make her want you. It shouldn't even be a question that she's coming (you already know she is) because of how into you she's been. Be aloof as a man OP. You don't need pussy. And if she wants you to want her, she has to work for it. Make her earn it.
You were just really into her really quickly and she wasn't there with you. She could have gone home with you that night, but you did play the game right. You can save it, but be a little harder to get man. She needs to think you're worth chasing.
>>16991545
didn't it ever occur to you she might have a fucking bf? That's my guess
You sound pushy as fuck. I would have tried to get away from you as well, creep. Maybe next time try not to put so much pressure on someone the first time you meet them.
Maybe you thought because she was black that she didn't have as much self-respect as you expected. Just leave her alone you already fucked up.
>>16991557
This. Girl in OP is stunning.
