Let's say you want to learn to be happy or at least glad by yourself (no relationships, no kids).
How did you achieve this ?
>>16959823
You don't. You can't learn to like something you don't like.
I've never wanted kids not because I'd be a shitty mother- I wouldn't be the best or the worst- but because I want that 20 years to live my own life, not raise/pay for kids. I want to explore the world and build a career and do what I want. I don't even like being around kids for more than a couple hours at a time.
As for a spouse, couples who have been married for a few years never seem happy to me. I mean you get the rare one that seems super happy, but that's definitely not the norm. I'm not strictly no relationships, but I just kind of let them come and go with no intent to stay together forever or anything. It puts a lot less pressure on things. Besides, I get bored easily.
I just like being free.
>>16959831
Good luck telling that to your biological clock.
>>16959873
It should technically already be ticking right now.
It's not.
>>16959831
I heard a joke once that the decision to get married or stay single is a choice between being angry all the time or lonely all the time. Pretty accurate.
>>16959831
oh hey it's you again!
Yeah, fuck ever having kids. I never want that shit, ever.
>>16959826
That's just wrong
>>16959823
>Let's say you want to learn to be happy or at least glad by yourself (no relationships, no kids).
>How did you achieve this ?
For the last four years I've been trying to do this very thing by getting high and playing vidya in every spare minuite I have.
Inspite of the superhuman levels of effort I'm putting in to it, it's not really working very well.
>wtb gf 600gp pst
>>16959909
I should tell that to my aunt because being single for so much time is turning her into rage incarnate.
