My friend just told me that a qt girl I am interested in had sex with him a few months ago.
He bragged that he shot his cum all over her face. He also came in her ass.
The other day when I talked to her, she said that she will never do anal because of a bad experience she had.
I can't get this mental image out of my head. It is really disturbing and disgusting to know that she let herself be used, but I still think she and I would make a great couple.
Should I still ask her out?
Pic somewhat related, she looks similar to her.
sure, may as well use her while she's still fresh. it's not like you'll ever get a brand new girl anyways. most are busted because of "horse riding". lol what a dumb fucking excuse, can't believe it ever took off.
>should I still ask her out?
You really can't answer that for yourself? Unless you just want to fuck I would stay away.
>>16956505
>He bragged that he shot his cum all over her face. He also came in her ass.
Damaged goods find another
>>16956505
>she will never do anal because of a bad experience she had.
Here's why this is a red flag, OP. If you want to make this chick your girlfriend, it means you will have to let go of her past experiences and move on and not let them dictate the way you treat her, right?
Well this statement basically says "By the way OP I do not intend to let go and move on from my past experiences and I will let them dictate the way I live my life." She's basically promising you that she IS damaged goods and intends to always be that way.
So that's a no-no, unfortunately.
>>16956505
He's lying. Guys always lie about sex. Surely you know that.
>>16956505
>red flags: the post
>>16956505
>Should I still ask her out?
How is it that she is talking to you about having had a dick up her butt one time and how it will affect her sexual tendencies and you aren't even on a date?
Fucking kids these days, I tellya.
So this girl trusts you enough to hear her personal matters and you want to use it against her now? Honestly OP, if you throw away a girl like this just because she had some fun sexually you're a coward. Plain and simple.
>>16956592
Yeah, that screams tramp.
>>16956505
>doing no strings attached anal sex with friend
>letting friend spray his DNA across your open mouth
>letting friend shoot his DNA into your rectal cavity
...Is this the future mother of your kids? Is this the woman who'll take care of you when you're old? Is this even someone you'd want to put your dick into?
>>16956682
>being this much of a fedora over another's sex life
Pretty sad but I'm coming to expect it from the losers on this board.
>>16956684
Not everyone is/wants to be with an emotionally scarred, fucked up degenerate like you, idiot.
I thought her being freaky would be a good thing.
>>16956684
its funny because dating a huge whore is the loser option of the 2
>>16956505
marry her, OP
she sounds like she could really take a pounding.
>>16956726
t.woman
You dont understand men at all.
>>16956729
>Transgendered
He probably thinks that as a cisgendered white male it's OP's obligation to find her attractive no matter how fucked up in the head she is as a result of her own dumb decisions.
>>16956505
>he shot his cum all over her face. He also came in her ass.
>Should I still ask her out?
Do you enjoy cuckold porn by any chance? Ever think about moving to Sweden or California?
>>16956569
This. So much this
>>16956569
>>16956806
>samefagging tramp hopes someday a cute wholesome boy will completely write off her sexual adventures and live happily ever after with her colostomy bag and blue waffle
you gotta dream
>>16956505
OP, imagine if she said "I had a really bad experience with cars, so I'll never get in a car with you."
Or if she said "I had a really bad experience with kissing, so I'll never kiss you."
"I had a really bad experience with having my tits touched, so I'll never let anyone touch my tits again."
You'd say fine, that's your prerogative, but if you expect other people to welcome you into a relationship with them with that attitude you're fucking stupid.
That's what she's saying, and the fact that it's her asshole makes it no different. It's the attitude.
Don't tell me you seriously want to date someone whom one of your friends could only view as a pump and dump...
>>16956505
>He bragged that he shot his cum all over her face. He also came in her ass.
Sounds like lies to me. I wouldn't believe it. He said that to fuck you up.
>>16956957
Either way he doesn't sound like much of a friend. Sounds like a backstabbing loser to me.
>>16956957
>>16956965
>male friend says he did something
>girl corroborates it
>male friend must be lying because male
hows it feel to be in denial, bitch?
Maybe just accept the fact that she had a life in the past beyond you before you had anything to do with her and just ask her out.
>>16956569
Agreed with this. Dudes lie all the fucking time about what they've done with chicks. I wouldn't be surprised if they made out and she like brushed her hand over his dick and he started to brag that he came on her face and in her ass, when she probably just has no interest in seeing him again.
Source? I've done this myself.
Don't trust your faggot friend, he's probably just trying to get under your skin because he knows you're into her.
I'm not saying "sure, go ahead and date her!" because I don't know if she's a sketchy girl outside of what your friend is saying. But don't think she's "damaged goods" because of what one dude says. He knows you won't ask her about it, so he can brag all he wants.
>>16957001
>because of what one dude says
It's like this thread is full of retards who are all trying really hard to ignore that the girlfriend basically said the same thing - she let someone fuck her ass and it was nasty.
Either that or it's all one samefagging retard.
>>16957018
She tried anal and didn't like it. Yes, that happened. Women have had relationships before. They have explored with their boyfriends. She didn't like something stuck up her ass, you might not either.
There's sexual shit you don't like too, I'm sure. If you're expecting every girl to be a pure virginal waifu, go back to /r9k/.
Who cares bro? I dunno how old you are, but after a certain age pretty much every girl's asshole will have been filled with some dude's semen at some point. That's just how it goes. You can either be like BetaBuxx Pegasus and fly across the pond to buy whores, or just come to grips with the fact that girls will have had sex before you.
>>16957028
A) I didn't say that, just pointing out that all the retards saying "his male friend lied" are delusional idiots because the girl said pretty much the SAME FUCKING THING
B) "I had anal sex with an asshole and it was a horrible experience, therefore I will never give it another shot again even if I am in a new relationship with someone I love and trust" is a horrible fucking attitude. That's not the difference between being a virginal waifu and a tramp, it's the difference between being a good sexual companion and an unfixable frigid bitch.
>>16956601
stop im cringing so hard at your cuckoldry
>>16957045
yeah really why would the girl lie too? Guys lie about sex but not enough for it to be the stereotype they're calling to. In fact the lie usually amounts to having done it or not. Anything further is probably just a pathological liar to begin with and you should be able to spot the signs.
/adv/ is a lot more full of fat SJW tier feminazis than i ever thought desu
>>16956965
>backstabbing
kek, I see what you did there.
>>16956505
Ask her out... have your fun..... dump her ass. The first fight you get in will turn nuclear because you will never be able to forget that she's used goods and is already telling you there's something she did with YOUR FRIEND that she will NEVER DO WITH YOU.
>>16957045
I don't understand why people think like this. From my experience most women don't find anal pleasurable and most men don't want to stick anything up their ass, why would you want to make someone try something they've already experienced not liking in the past? Sex is supposed to be mutually pleasurable.
>>16956971
I never said that he was lying shitlord. I said the guy obviously wasn't a good friend.
>>16957122
>shitlord
get. the fuck. off. of 4chan.
you weren't even trying to be ironic with that shit you likely bright pastel hair colored slut
>>16957117
>I had a bad experience
>No matter how different the circumstances may be if I go back and try again, I'm certian I will have the exact same bad experience
>therefore I refuse to give you the benefit of a single try
I don't understand why women think like this.
>>16956505
You will always envision your friend tearing that ass up so magnificently that she gave up on anal.
>>16957122
You said that with no context as to how the friend presented it and no reason to believe he wasn't being 100% truthful.
>but he's a bad friend
You're a complete fucking retard and should get off this board.
>>16957155
Unless you're willing to stick something up your own ass just to try it, I think that being upset that a girl doesn't want to put herself through a painful/unpleasant experience just for the benefit of someone she is dating is somewhat selfish.
>>16957163
For all we know OP fucking asked the friend what happened.
"It was great dude, fucked her ass, came on her face"
>le bad friend
Nope. This just shows that women are terrified that men will actually find out the facts of their sexual histories, and live in a delusional fantasyland where it's absolutely evil to spread truthful information about the sexual things a woman has done.
>>16957169
Someday you will ask a man to go shopping with you. He'll say "I would love to go shopping with you." And he'll be telling the truth, because the fact that you love it means it's something he loves, too, even if he would otherwise hate it.
But because you have no comprehension of other people, you will be completely clueless as to what happened, and will assume he just likes to shop.
>>16957172
tl;dr women are sluts. in other news, air is breathable
>>16957169
I think that a girl that makes it clear that any potentially painful/unpleasant experience is completely off limits is immediately disqualified as a relationship candidate, yes, absolutely. If you aren't willing to even risk a little pain or discomfort for a friend you are not a friend, you just want someone who gives you shit.
>>16957184
Shopping isn't a physically painful experience, and if you hate going shopping with your partner they should go by themselves or with friends. It's called having boundaries. Shopping is a poor equivalent to anal sex anyways.
>>16957196
did you hear that?
Of course not, it was the sound of you missing the point. Oh well.
>>16957184
>>16957193
Not the person you're replying to but you act like someone can't ever change their mind. She's not dating the OP or hooking up with him from what we can tell so far. Should she tell everyone she talks to that she is totally willing to try anal even though she already hated it and it was awful?
She didn't say this on a date or something. Plus, I'm sure there's plenty of shit you don't like and wouldn't do regardless of how happy it would make them. Would you let a chick shit in your mouth just because it got you off? If you say yes you either have a crappy fetish or you're a total fucking doormat.
>>16957169
Honey, I'm gonna put my dick in your mouth after I'm finished in it in your ass!
>>16956505
You have the perfect opportunity to show her the right way to do it.
>>16957478
I'm not the one acting like that - I 100% believe that people can change their mind if they are open to trying. SHE is the one acting like changing her mind is impossible if she really means it when she says "Had one bad experience, so done, not every trying that again no matter the circumstances."
Maybe she'll back down from that if they start dating - if so, great! But I'm not the one saying that shit - she is.
I think it's downright bizarre that she's sharing that with OP when they aren't even dating, but hey, that's just me!
And yep, some shit I will just never do. But that's irrelevant, because anal was obviously in her "sure, I'll give that a try" category at one point.
>>16956682
Who IS this giant fag in the pic? I keep seeing people repost him, clearly for the humor value of what a giant fag he is, but what's the damn context?
>>16957590
Trump protesters were asked by a trump supporter to explain their explicit reasoning behind why they feel Trump is akin to Hitler.
His response was simply
>ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
in the most faggy ridiculous way possible that gave off the impression he couldn't even fathom that someone would actually expect him to back up his claims with facts.
/pol/ created the meme, his name is Carl a.k.a. the "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?" Cuck.
>>16957667
I see! Thanks, broseidon.
>>16957163
Yeah, you are the retard for completely missing my point again. Regardless of whether or not he is telling the truth he is a shitty friend.
>>16957150
haha a word has you so butt-bothered? Fuck off cunt commander!
>>16956505
You're a sure enough cuckold to even consider it. Especially given that your friend conducted a one-man spitroast on her.
>>16957753
youre sjw scum
who the fuck says shitlord
>>16956601
This post just screams female shaming tactics. Cool with it the character attacks.
>>16956505
1) Ignore the cuckold bullshit in this thread. 4chan loves picking up Something Awful's sloppy seconds when it comes to memes like this
2) Ask her out. The worst thing she can do is turn you down.
3) Your friend is lying like a cheap rug. He hasn't fucked her, but he sure as shit is fucking with you.
Good luck, and don't be so goddamn gullible.
>>16958241
>Don't be so gullible
>whelp guess I better go trust a woman
Top kek
>>16958241
you sound so sure of yourself.
you know what, i bet youre the friend and you want to cuckold your friend
>>16957554
Hyperbole, dude. Even if it's not, that's not a fuckin' problem. She tried something sexual and didn't like it. That's it, end of the story. If anal is soooooo important, find another girl, but if you believe that any girl you date needs to completely open her book to you to try everything she already knows she doesn't like, you're nuts.
>>16958251
>>16958256
What's it like to be so predictable?
>>16958273
Not him, but I don't think he is nuts for holding that viewpoint.
You are entitled to your own opinion, however you are not entitled to demonize the opposition's opinion as insanity.
If a girl isn't even willing to try anal sex or even worse, a blowjob. You drop her to curb, ESPECIALLY if she has already done all this before with other guys and you are just the dumbass too stupid to be assertive with your relationship thus are willing to let her walk all over you.
>>16958285
>predictable
>just trust the girl, your friend is definitely lying
>predictable
wew. you are taking me on one hell of a ride
>>16958285
I don't know anon, maybe we should ask a predictable shitposting faggot like yourself whose posts contain absolutely no substance outside of "nuh uh".
>>16958290
I'll gladly call him insane because people like this are just going to end up bitter when they can't get what they want. Sex and relationships should be MUTUALLY satisfying, not just "I want this so you give it to me because we're in some kind of a contract."
I'm more inclined to agree with you on blowjobs, because that isn't something that causes someone pain.
Still, people should be clear about their sexual limits.
>It is really disturbing and disgusting to know that she let herself be used, but I still think she and I would make a great couple.
Women can often be manipulated into doing things if you really put your mind to it, and this does mean that lots of women end up doing things which afterwards they do regret having given the go ahead for.
It means that she at [insert age] wasn't the greatest judge of character. Her ability to judge and make decisions may now be better after having this bad experience to smack some reality into her judgement making capabilities.
Unless you'd think that she's so easily manipulated that she'd just cheat on you, yes ask her out if you still see the same desirable characteristics.
But
>she will never do anal because of a bad experience she had.
Similar to what
>>16956565
Said, but a different conclusion. If she keeps attached to these past problems, and part way into the relationship notable, problem issues aren't being resolved by you... cut it clean. If you aren't having any effect on her then you'd need to be prepared to cut off the relationship. If these are permanent things that will affect her, damaged goods. If you are the one to get her over these hurdles then you will have a really strong bond.
your friend is a douche
>>16957001
Yeah OP's buddy's story sounded like baloney. Maybe the girl had a brief anal encounter with another man (or pegging woman) and not necessarily the other guy
>>16957155
Stick your hand in a fire.
You should keep doing it because even if you had one bad experience that doesn't mean it won't be good the second time around.
>>16959320
>Engaging in an alternative but still somewhat common form of sexual relations with a partner you love and trust is the equivalent of willfully sticking your hand in an open flame and allowing your flesh to char
>>16959320
So sex is now equivalent to sticking your hand in a fire?
Fascinating.
>>16956505
>should I date a whore
Obviously not.
>>16956505
>she says she will never do anal
I can respect that, and so should you
>I can't get this mental image out of my head.
and you never will move along.
>>16959326
No, but asking someone to do something with a high risk of danger and that can damage a part of their body is.
Do anal=possibility of fucking up the asshole, painful (I swear some of you don't know what lube is and spit doesn't count), traumatizing
Putting hand in a fire= possibility of ruining your hand, very painful, eventual disfigurement can cause trauma
>>16956744
The dubs of truth.
I concur anon, she sounds like absolute filth.
>>16959356
>anal
>a high risk of danger
I've honestly baffled, anon. I've never in my life heard someone say "anal sex carries with it a high risk of danger".
You are underestimating the vaginas/assholes ability to heal itself by leaps and bounds as well.
Painful is an obvious side effect of lack of lubricant and excessive force. That doesn't mean it is a standard component of proper anal sex.
>Traumatizing
If you were anally raped in the past maybe? I've never had a girl suggest anal then remark "wow, that was a traumatizing experience".
You are being ridiculously hyperbolic with your absurd comparisons and they should be given no credence because they have no basis in reality.
You are a fucking moron if you genuinely believe the equivalent of anal sex is allowing your flesh to slowly char away in an open flame as your skin melts and your nerves burn away.
You are absurd beyond measure, anon. No woman who has engaged in anal sex has ever attributed the level of pain to being fucking burned alive via combustion.
>>16959356
Jesus Christ, watch less hentai and get your head in the real world.
>anal
>a high risk of danger
Yeah but what about that man who was fucked by a horse and died from internal injuries.
>>16959407
No one told him to do that
Also rip that guy ;-;
>>16959374
English isn't my first language. I didn't know how to convey a high risk without using danger.
my goodness op, looks like yer gearing up to catch the big one eh? oOH OP, yer rod she's a bobbin!!
"she's been used" that's such a beta virgin mindset.
You're supposed to try to get any girl you like, and if you dont like her anymore you move on...
Was in a similar situation with a girl I fell for in high school. I just ended up making fun of her with all my friends to hide the pain I felt from hearing about it lol
>>16956922
Well, maybe his friends are bad? We don't have enough context and don't know his situation/environment.
But I wouldn't be interested in this girl too. If there is already a good relation between them, then that's another question. But it seems, OP don't know her really good or have a strong connection. In this case I don't understand, what she wants to tell OP. Actually she is refusing some "things"/options (with him) without considering him as someone with whom it can end "better". I don't think she know him really but is already making her point. It's not instantly bad, but in this context it seems to fast.
She's talking about and denying things which are not even clear to happen. If she was interested in him, she would act to it and make the circumstance better, so both would have fun and be looking for more fun in the near future. The way she acts is the opposite.
"If she ain't a virgin then the bitch is only average" - Young Thug
>>16959320
If you believe that your sexual experiences will be 100% the same from lover to lover, situation to situation, you are exactly the kind of person who is "ruined" by any kind of sexual history. Go get a t-shirt that says "Damaged Goods" as a warning to your future boyfriends, please.
t. mad cuckold he will never have anything besides damaged goods and other assorted whores
>>16956682
This guy is asking the REAL questions
>>16959445
some people actually want someone they can actually love.
sure you could go out with the village bicycle and enjoy her company probably have sex with her stretched out cunt but the reality is at the back of your head and you will never love her as fully.
history matters, it shapes who you are. if you've fucked up then go find someone else who fucked up. you sound like a good kid who wants to become "alpha", in reality you're probably going to go out with some ex-party girl and get cucked.
>>16956505
Bros don't let Bros commit to a girl with no values, aka a community bicycle
Bros let bros know who they fucked so they put them in the "casual" box and not the LTR box
If you're thinking of being a relationship with this chick, you have issues or a fetish for leftovers
>>16956684
I feel sorry for you, slut.
You will never know what love is.
>>16959798
I do not, but I can understand someone who has aversions to such things. It's a natural human thing and if you can't understand why someone wouldnt want to engage in such things maybe you shouldn't date
>>16960441
nailed it
