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2016-03-25 15:49:38 Post No. 16956387
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2016-03-25 15:49:38
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Why are women so friendly and forward when you appear sad?
It seems like the only time I have girls approaching is when I'm on the verge of tears. Whenever I look depressed, they seem to be more at ease, comfortable, in my presence. They're more willing to talk and hang out. And sometimes they're the ones approaching me for various stuff.
One recent example was when it seems like nothing was going to work out with a girl I've been spending the past year falling in love with. I walked around campus on the threshold of breaking down. This was also one of those rare moments where I decided not to hide it. If people could tell on my face something was up, so be it.
And as a result, I had a classmate I haven't seen in a year, nor was very close to, randomly say "hi" before heading to do her finals. Another girl, whom I've never seen before, come up to me in the library and introduced herself (got her number right after). Another girl I hadn't seen in a while, but had a crush on before, came up to me to talk and catch up (got her number as well after this). A few women in my classes that I got to know this term were more friendly and snuggling up to me a bit. And some girl who I apparently met earlier this term, but I don't remember, stopped me to have a chat, then gave me a hug before heading off somewhere else.
This isn't the first time I've had stuff like that happen when I go around looking like I'm about to cry. I don't see the appeal, either. So why does it work on women?