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2016-03-24 23:55:14 Post No. 16954286
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2016-03-24 23:55:14
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>ex-gf insists on me to come and live with her in uk.
>she randomly dumps me without any explanation via facebook which angers me, but i stay calm
>i have to reorganise everything, lost money on tickets and can't get back things i've sold
>week later she asks if we could "leave things as they are, and maybe come back to it someday", to which i disagree
>next day messages me (on facebook) that it she thought about it and it's better to leave things behind.
>tell her that if she has at least a little bit of respect for, she needs to say that to my face
>she ignores
>i'm fed up, write down everything i have to say with calm and cultural manner
>her friend calls me few hours later, acusses me of threating her (which i didn't) and starts to threaten me herself
>month later we have a conversation
>she says that "she didn't mean to send her friend after me, and things went out of hand. If she could, she would change that"
>her pushing the blame from herself triggers me
>i start acting hostile
>she flips her shit at me, starts whining and blocks me
Fastforward 3 months, today.
I left the whole situation behind, but i still get haunted by the question "why would somebody betray me like that?" I started to very often feel that i should talk about it with her even though i know that whatever she would say. I didn't even get a proper apology. I keep on hoping she would finally say "listen, i fucked up, i'm sorry" Hell, i would forgive her, it would make it alot easier to move on. Instead, i keep on clashing with the question "why?"
