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>I've been dating a girl, my age (30s), for five weeks now.
>when we first started dating, I asked if she was seeing anyone else (cause I was and I wnted to be upfront)
>she said nope, not for some time
>things develop nicely, go exclusive
>find out from her she lied about this, had been going on dates with a couple of dudes in between
>at first don't care cause we had not yet become an item
>however I am bothered by the dishonesty
>no remorse, I'm sorry, whatever
>says it doesnt count cause first dates aren't seeing someone
>I still feel like I don't care that much, but maybe I should?
What do /adv/?
Dishonesty does count regardless of when it happens.
I don't understand why, but the red flags which people LOVE to ignore are the biggest, brightest ones that hit them square in the face. You'll lose your shit and not sleep for days if you find her texting habits to be a little suspicious, but when something blatantly rolls right over you you'll actually ask "durrr what should I do?" Nigger she lied to your face. What do you think you should do?
>however I am bothered by the dishonesty
This sort of behavior demands a dumping on principle.
Come on, you asked her directly and she directly lied to you - even though it would have been totally okay if she'd told you the truth (as you did)
Aren't you too fucking old to put up with this shit? You ought to make it clear (politely) that this is why you're ending it, and then don't talk to the cunt again.
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You should. Liars rarely stick to lying about one thing.
Is it worthy of dumping?
I hate this bullshit.
My irl say I'm being a fuckin girl about it.
To be fair I did lie about something as well
