Idk what it is with women. I just get really uncomfortable when talking to them. Its like nerves but there are no thoughts going through my head. I can know they like me and still get nervous. It feels like I can't approach them no matter how hard I try to fight it. I'm not gay BTW.
That's just what someone in the closet would say haha. No srs tho, I had the balls to walk up to this fucking giant over 6ft6 guy in my school and talk to him, now we're going on our 3rd date. It gets easier real quick, talk to a girl, maybe go on a date and within a few hours of talking your nerves will just melt away, just don't start jizzing yourself and you'll be fine. Everybody makes a big fucking deal outta talking to chicks but desu we're just people with tits same as u m8
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Women have no idea how to be guys to be honest...
> Everybody makes a big fucking deal outta talking to chicks but desu we're just people
People who like to reject as cruelly as possible. Seriously, half of you don't even treat men like people. Fuck, if you were a guy, you wouldn't be givin' that same advice.
OP, learn to fake it.
Start with casualy smiling, saying "hi" in passing.
If you're stuck in their proximity for a prolonged time, maybe make small talk. About weather or work or some shit. Smile... think of something funny you saw on TV to make smiling easier.
Don't ask anything too personal, don't get too close. The only exception to this is if she asks something personal first, then you can follow up with an "and you?".
Never ask if she's seeing anyone.
Aim for acquaintances rather than friends.
This won't get you laid, but it'll stop you being the creepy guy. It's all about becoming comfortable with blending in around women. Being invisible.
