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2016-03-23 22:45:07 Post No. 16950324
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2016-03-23 22:45:07
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>pretty sure a friend i made online has lesbian crush on me
>we have a ton of things in common, similar life experiences, never met anyone this much like me, it's awesome
>but, sometimes she steers conversation to us living together, to how her bf would be okay with us fooling around, to how she admires me
>i just try to steer direction away and tell her things like "my bf wouldn't be comfortable with that", because I value her so much as a friend, but i don't want to break her heart
My boyfriend is actually annoyed with it. And I am bisexual, but I'm monogamous. I'd still consider hooking up with a girl while I'm in a relationship to be cheating. Not only that, but I don't find her attractive. Friends are friends, women I were to date or hook up with are put on a whole different social plane with me.
She's in a place right now where she desperately needs a friend. But it seems like she is clinging to me and I don't know what to do. I get so overwhelmed by this. She's not the first bisexual friend of mine to try to take things further. It's also always in some "moment of weakness" or vulnerable state. To the point where I just desperately need to back away.
But since I care about her and the situation she is in, it's hard to do that.
How do I even handle this?
