So I know my boyfriend has Paraphilic infantilism. Look it up for a more detailed explanation. Here's where I want advice. Instead of him being put in diapers and what not, he actually wants to be the one taking care of ME. Wants me to "mess" myself, wear diapers, suck on my own thumb (or his), call him daddy, and generally let him control me by being the dominant one. He has also referred to his penis as my pacifier cock. I'm totally on board and have no issue with it. I just want to hear from others who actually have this syndrome, have experience with it, whatever. Especially since he wants me to be the baby. I can't find anything like that anywhere. Psychologically, what does this tell me about him? If anything. I like being controlled so there's my end of it. But what would make someone actually want to be the one taking care of the baby..? Many explanations online about what it means to BE the baby.
your bf doesnt have anything
you on the other hand are seriously retarded
>playing along with a pedo
thats gona work great with kids
I'm actually the "little" in my relationship, but I can tell you what I know about the motivations from the other side:
1. Doesn't want judgment/scrutiny, wants to shower attention on someone without focus on their needs or failures
2. Likes to look at/have sex with cute things
3. Finds it sexy or simply more convenient to be the decision-maker in some or all domains
I don't get it either; it's not my thing. If I get to play around and be told what to do that's fine by me, though.
>pacifier cock
Kek. I just showed my wife this post. Her comment was "yeah, right, this girls got serious issues and so's he"
Get help.
Seriously, get help.
>>16926856
It tells me that he really needs to lay off all the porn he watches if he needs something so freaky as this to get off.
>>16926856
> I just want to hear from others who actually have this syndrome
it's a fetish, not a syndrome.
>Psychologically, what does this tell me about him?
probably the same as any dominant in a DS relationship. The baby aspect might stem from guilt feelings, making it cute also makes it innocent.
>Many explanations online about what it means to BE the baby.
yeah that seems to be a more common fetish. many people have it and feel very desperate cause it's hard to find someone who wants to be on the dominant side. also wanting to be on the submissive side is perhaps a harder to understand feeling than wanting to play daddy so it's more being searched and red about. Also when it's a woman who wants to play mommy we don't find it that strange cuz it's a natural instinct or something, yet he might be having something similar.
I think it would be a good idea to do some soulsearching to find out where the fetish comes from. quite often people have some trouble in their past that can be related to it and understanding where the feels come from makes it easyer to deal with them.
Ask your question on an ABDL forum, that's where many AB's and mommys and daddys gather. take their views with a grain of salt though as people in fetish communities are notoriously incapable/unwilling to deal with hard truths and good at coming up with self-affirming stories and pet theories.
off course the most important thing: talk to him about this, there's no point in trying to understand someone based on internet-knowledge without hearing it from themselves!
>>16926872
>playing along with a pedo
ABDL has nothing to do with peadophilia
>>16926885
does your fetish happen to be missionary for the sole purpose of procreation?
>>16926910
>BAAAAW people don't like my fetish! must be having sex that I personally don't like!
>but shaming people's sexuality is SICK and WRONG, FOREVER
Kinksters confirmed for dipshits.
