How do I get over knowing that my GF's ex had a huge dick? I'm below average and now I feel completely sexually inadequate. Like I feel like I lost my sex drive completely and I can't even look at her or myself.
We were really drunk and talking about random things and pregnancy came up. My mom is a labor and delivery nurse so I've heard some horror stories and I said "I can't believe a vagina can recover from that." and my GF laughed and said "A vagina is pretty resilient, I mean if I can take a dick almost the size of my own wrist and walk fine the next day" then she realized what she said and kinda trailed off and we kinda awkwardly laughed it off.
But now I'm just dead inside. How do I get over this. I have a fucking pencil dick.
Forcefully fuck your girlfriends ex boyfriend is the ass to assert your dominance over him and show them both who the real boss man is.
>>16920126
Sex God Method book, don't ask me how to get it. That's all. If she thinks about him while she's with you then it's time to find a new girl; as the problem is way bigger than dick size. It's a mental issue she has that is her problem, not the shape of your dick
Maybe you shouldn't be dating someone who drinks enough to let her tongue get that loose. Your mom is an educated and respected member of society. I imagine the fruit did not fall far from the tree in that respect. Pencil dick or not, can you not do better (and more respectably, for the sake of your upbringing) than a girlfriend who gloats about another man's dick to her own boyfriend? I know she was drunk. I've been drunk too. I've also managed to respect my responsibilities and dignity by knowing where to stop drinking and stop talking.
>>16920126
you get over it.
i'm above average in length with okay girth (could be better, whatever). i made the mistake of asking the girl i'm with fairly early on if she has been with bigger guys. she told me she has (tip to the femanons: just lie and say the guy you're with is the biggest if this comes up) and it ate at me for a bit.
but yeah, you get over it when you realize that she's not running off to find the biggest dick she can since that's not what she wants. what she wants is you and to be intimate with you.
sucks about the below-average needle dick doe senpai.
>>16920126
>he thinks a wrist sized dick is huge
She took an average cock. Get over it.
>>16920126
YOU HAVE A GF. fucking christ. Think about that.
If she didn't like you, she wouldn't be with you.
Now you're giving her a reason not to like you, so she's gonna leave, you're cucking yourself
Take it from me, a khv with an 8x6, it's fucking pathetic to think that if I'd been with your GF I would be causing her future boyfriends to do what you just did by coming here crying about this LMFAO
>>16920200
Detected the landwhale feminist
"If she didn't like you, she wouldn't be with you" -- This can only come from a feminist.
>>16920238
Why else would she be with him if he has a small dick and an insecure personality? If he had money he wouldn't be posting on 4chan so it's not that.
>>16920295
Not the Anon you're replying to, but plenty of people stick around for attention, even meager resources, companionship and other such things simply because they don't yet have a better place to find them. It's not even some big conspiracy. Rather it's quite the opposite. The simplest solution to bad feelings is the most convenient way of resolving them. Take the first (or potentially only) person you can and then upgrade later when the landscape improves.
Of all the measures for a person's sincere interest in you, their mere presence is among the most useless.
I dumped a girl for this same reason and Im pretty large. Like 8x5.5. She said large dicks hurt and I noped out.
>>16920313
This doesn't refute looks/moneyģstatus theory, it only supports it. OP has enough of something to be valuable enough to his GF to be worth her time, i.e. she still likes him, in some way. Why would she date down just for attention? Attention doesn't mean anything if it's coming from someone of lesser value.
My dick doesn't look anything like the one in photo.
Is that why I can't into girl?
>>16920155
This is correct. I guess I would have said something when it came up if it bothered you at least to try and get it off your chest. I've had similar things happen to me like that in the past where it's something that seems small and maybe off topic, but god damn is it disrespectful and makes you feel like garbage.
>>16920336
It's 2016. You need to have a bbc
she also dated someone better looking than you, more athletic, a better artist, someone who made her laugh more, etc. you're inferior
>>16920333
>This doesn't refute looks/moneyģstatus theory, it only supports it.
Okay OP is ugly, poor and irrelevant to society. She's with him because she gets depressingly lonely and just wants attention from another human being, regardless of how little she respects or admires that person. There's your clear hypothetical refutation.
>Why would she date down just for attention?
Because that's something literally millions of people do all the goddamn time.
>Attention doesn't mean anything if it's coming from someone of lesser value.
I'm sorry Gorblax of Omicron Persei 6, but your understanding of how us earthlings operate needs a lot more work. I know it might be hard for you to believe, so this is a huge waste of time on my part, but I just want to prepare you for a lesson that you're going to learn at great length over the rest of your life. People do this shit all the time.
>>16920336
>>16920354
My god.. This engrish..!
>>16920368
wow, it's almost like your extrapolating and adding some bullshit to the story
>>16920380
well it's true. why is the cock the only thing that bothers you? you're deficient to past lovers in numerous ways.
>>16920126
You get over it by sexing her so good she can't live without it.
You eat that pussy like a bacon cheeseburger, you fuck her so good she can't even stand. You foreplay so well she'll want to cuddle for hours.
Big dicks are overrated, mostly because the average girl can only really feel/fit four inches. Yes, there are some who are deeper than Wells, but this is real life. Life is not a hentai/brazzers video
>>16920375
So you're saying white knighting is actually a successful strategy?
>>16920126
Well you could start by accepting the fact that the most important sexual organ is actually the brain.
Once you learn what makes her tick, she will be all over you and your pencil dick.
Personally after learning about Karezza I've embraced a way more passionate approach to sex. There's a lot more cuddling, kissing and caressing along with slow and gentle loving intercourse. Doing so even the smallest movements start to feel divine for both of us and I can sometimes be half flaccid inside her while staying completely still and it still feels magical for both of us.
I hate to throw gas on your fire but I have a pretty good sized tool and chicks always ranted and raved about it. Esp when I was young. Shit even recently. I'm black (hold off on the stereotype stuff I know there's blacks with small tools but I ain't one of em) the only reason I'm bringing my blackness up is because my first love was a white girl and she was like wow that's pretty big. I thought she was just saying that because of the stereotype and she didn't know any better or have any real experience. The second girl I slept with didn't tell me until way later in our fling that I was the second biggest she'd ever had, which is impressive because yes she's a skank. My 3rd sex partner was experienced but not skanky and she said I got the big dick. My 4th and serious girlfriend whom I was in love with and was a good girl and had only seen one other dick in her life pulled my pants down to give me head (after I sucked the shit out her titties and pussy, goddamn I wish I could relive that day). No lie on my kids she actually gasped and covered her mouth. I was like what's wrong? I need to wash (I was a pretty musky teenager) again? She was like no, Oh my god that is so big. I never knew they could get that big oh my god. She gave me head and it could barely fit in her mouth (she had thin lips and a small mouth for a black girl). We tried sex but I just tried to put the tip in and it made her scream. She said she didn't want me to feel bad but she could not do it and be screaming because her brothers were in the house and it was bad enough they knew what we were doing but she knew they'd feel some type of way if I was in there tearing their sister up. Pleasant memories. On my final note I've had a hooker charge me extra for my dick being so big and I've actually had another hooker lower the price because it was "extra fun" for her. I'm not going to be the guy to tell you size does not matter at all clearly it does. I hope y'all enjoyed this I'm bout to go beat off now.
>>16920478
Oh if it makes you feel better. My first love the white girl married a white dude. When they were dating she complained about his dick size to me and even wanted to get back with me but she grew up she matured more and stuck with him and they seem happy enough. They own a house, a business, nice cars. No kids though he shoots blanks (lucky fucker). Why is he lucky you say? I'm married and have two kids now and most of the time I'm too goddamn tired, anxious, stressed, etc. to fuck. My wife is also very tired most of the time. Thankfully my kids are not cock blockers so when we do get in the mood we have our fun. I've actually positively reinforced them for being brave and staying in their rooms when they have bad dreams. Such is married life.
>>16920126
think long and hard over this anon (pun intended, sorry m8). if it's going to be an issue for you, you're better off getting out of the relationship, because it will always be on your mind even if it's not on hers. it will eat away at you, and i know the feel because my very first girlfriend, age 17 when i was 17 too, had several partners before me while i had none, and she even had photos of her ex (with the 8 inch dick) on her wall still. one day a week or so into our thing she asked to see my dick and literally went "oh" like she was unimpressed. we didn't even do anything, i put my pants back on and she never did give me a handjob, blowjob, nothing... later on i talked to her about it and she said she sensed i was insecure or whatever, which is true, but i still feel badly about it whenever it comes to mind and it's been years.
keep that in mind, man. you don't want to be holding in this feeling and letting it destroy you, you'd be better off finding a girl who hasn't had 55 monster cocks in and around her holes.
>>16920509
to clarify: she didnt have pics of his dick on her wall, lol, just pics of them together. she had stars in her eyes talking about this douche and judging by what i knew of him it could only be because of his dick size.
>>16920126
Honestly man, yeah it sucks to think about, but in the end, what does it really matter? Why do you let it get to you?
I dated a girl for 3 years who acidentally mentioned big dicks her. When i asked her about it, she said it was a manlet who unexpectedly had a big dick. Yeah, i didnt like hearing about it BUT:
1. It was years ago
2. Shes with me. Not him, not anyone else. Shes with me, so in the end, i win...right?
You gotta have that mentality because there is always gonna be someone bigger better and stronger than you. Thats life.
>>16920544
big dicks hurt her*
>>16920155
i feel gross agreeing with this anon but hes also ass-backwards right. there's a decent chance this is on her mind not just randomly bc you were talking about mom being a nurse. therefore its already a bit of a problem for her.
>>16920417
this is good advice and you should at least go for this for the practice even if you can't (or don't want to) get past how bad that comment hurt your feelings in the end
Just think about it, she's with you, not him. So you're doing something right at least.
>>16920126
>>16920126
If she likes you it doesn't matter. If she's a giant whore, it does.
That's really all there is to it. Think of it this way: My girlfriend has large tits. She has a perfectly normal pussy that I enjoy quite a bit. she doesn't really like taking it in the ass that much, but I get it maybe a couple times a year.
My girlfriend knows that A: I had an ex with the most fucking perfect tits I've ever seen in my life, just as large as current girlfriend's but stood straight fucking up like they were fake (they weren't), B: I had an ex-girlfriend with the most amazing, tightest pussy I've ever been in. Like I had to mentally will myself not to cum in the interest of getting her off and not blowing my load in 3 minutes. It was just incredible. C: I had an ex that deepthroated, took it in the ass whenever I asked, and a lot of times when I didn't, ONLY ever wanted me to cum down her throat (not in her mouth, completely down her throat) and just adored my cum. Loved tasting, it, rubbing it on her, wanted the biggest load she could possibly get. I, in turn, know that my girlfriend had one boyfriend with a really huge dick.
(cont)
>>16920126
Why am I not with those girls? Cause big tits was an immature fuck, tiny pussy was a loser, and porn star was fucking insane.
Why is she not with big dick? Cause he was an alcoholic asshole that treated her like shit.
Beyond that, Big tits had a big pussy as well, tiny pussy was lame after a while cause I had to try so hard not to cum and it was distracting and I felt like I wasn't doing a good job, and porn star made all those things I really liked kind of less exciting cause they were just "there" all the time. Big dick made her pussy hurt and she didn't like it very much and there were positions they couldn't do.
So we work, cause it's a happy medium of all of that, and we love each other. As long as your dick isn't micro, it will do the job just fine, and while at times I think about porn star girl, and I'm sure at times she thinks about giant dick, it doesn't matter. She's fucking me and I'm fucking her and we're happy.
>61% "Yes, it was way too small"
TROLL DETECTED
>>16920727
Ya, but imagine if big tits had a tight pussy and wisdom beyond her years. You'd probably still be with her.
>>16920828
You mean if she was a completely different person but had the same tits? Yeah, probably. Your point being?
>>16920126
Overwhelming majority of women simply don't give a shit about dick size. Otherwise women would ask guys all the time about their dick, we'd put it on our dating profiles, etc. Women would love dick picks.
Here in the real world, women don't ask about dick size, because they don't care about dick size (for the vast majority).
Gay guys and women with mental issues are really the only ones that care about dick size.
>>16920126
This is the greatest, most beautiful bait picture I have EVER seen.
It's so perfect. It plays on every guys insecurities.
Oh my god, it will be of such great use in the future.
>>16920126
I hate toxic shit like that image. No good reason for it to even exist. If you have a big dick you are golden and wouldn't want to change anything anyway. If you are small you are fucked, but you still can't change anything really. Learn to accept what you can't change and play to your strengths. Images like this are really unproductive. They don't do anything for anyone.
>>16920853
Source: misterpoll dot com
LOOKS LEGIT
>>16920836
Not sure how you didn't grasp the point.
All else being equal OP's gf would probably drop him for a guy with a bigger dick. She knows that's what she likes. He should feel threatened.
>>16920883
That's why they made it. To bait people. lol it's not that hard.
>>16920885
>google misterpolldotcom
>make your own FREE polls online!
hue
>>16920155
you must be a perfectly boring person.
>>16920853
This so much, oh man. This picture's gonna crystallize so much salt. It'll be beautiful.
As someone with a big ugly grotesque cock I love these threads, thanks op
>>16920333
>Attention doesn't mean anything if it's coming from someone of lesser value.
Read up on borderline personality disorder. These people crave attention and actually prefer to be with people who have nothing else going on and are infatuated with their every move.
>>16922940
Pretty sure you're thinking of histrionic disorder, since borderliners are commonly known as bipolar people.
>>16922940
>>16923266
If changing my view means tolerating dysfunctional attitudes then count me out
My current bf isn't as big as my ex either.
He likes to say he's hung, but not so much lol. I'd never bring up the size of my ex though. first it'd be awkward and second, I don't want to hurt his feelings. Even though my ex was above average in that area he was a jerk, and emotionally abusive. I would take an average sized dick attached to a sweet, caring guy over my ex any day.
Besides, just cause a guy isn't hung doesn't mean he's bad at sex. And on the plus side, I can comfortably give my bf head lol.
>misterpoll.com
>>16920375
>Gorblax
Top kek
Contrary to what one may think if you don't have a big penis dating isn't for you. You simply can't trust any women to not seek objectively better sex, so it's best to have one night stands or avoid very short term relationships. She'll cheat on you sooner or later.
There aren't many catch 22's in the world of guys and girls, but this is one of them.
Is my girlfriends pussy the tightest I've ever had? No. Does my girlfriend give the best blowjobs I've ever had? No. My girlfriend isn't the hottest, or best in bed, or anything. But, she's mine, and we're cool.
I'm not even going to read the thread.
Git gud at oral and fingering and your dick size will become pretty irrelevant. If you can make a girl cum hard with your tongue and fingers she'll be happy with you. There are SO many other ways to satisfy a girl than with your dick, put in some effort!
Besides, a big dick isn't everything. If all you have is a big dick and you fuck a girl, cum, and you're done, she's gonna hate your guts. Skill > dick size
I couldn't give a fuck what my GF thinks about my dick cuz I know women are expendable and mindless drones. If she says anything ill just leave her as a single 32 year old washed up bitch.
Hit the gym.
Raise your SMV.
Women are nothing but temporary cum receptacles, eventually you will get bored of her, so who cares what she thinks?
Reminds me of this song
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DVEeZ7jjHyA
Grow up though.
OP here.
I dunno I just feel like less of a man. Like sure even if I can give her the best sex she's ever had and all that other stuff. I picture her blowing some pornstar hung dude and it makes me feel inferior as fuck. Probably media brainwashing since childhood and porn but I don't know how to not feel that way. I can understand all the things people in this thread are saying but it doesn't stop me from feeling like absolute shit.
Like all it feels like is girls saying "So what if you are objectively inferior sexually, I'm ok with that so its no big deal!" but no, you just said I am inferior sexually, its not no big fucking deal if I said you were ugly but I'm ok with that you would feel like shit too.
>>16920126
install gentoo
>>16920126
Here's a hint: she's with you, dumbshit.
jelq my man. you like you got the fire to keep doing it.
I'm having a crush on someone and I can relate. Should I kill myself?
>>16920133
>>16925177
I have these same problems honestly. A female friend who I was fucking for about a year told me openly often how much she was lusting for 8+ inch dicks. She told me how she would be very conflicted if she fell deeply in love with a man that didn't have an 8 inch penis. When I talked about it with her all I get was "oh you made me cum just fine, yours is fine". can they not understand that no guy wants to be just "fine"?
