well, post what you look like so we can help you

>>16915218

By taking decision, by taking care of others.

>Short or short medium length hair.
>Facial hair (please note there's a very fine line between well kept facial hair and neckbeard basement-dweller tier).
>Dressing well.
>Having an alpha personality.

Be serious in general. Witty when the mood is light. Good posture. Confidence. Tolerant of others opinions, not bigoted and no large emotional outbursts (except rare occasions). Takes a stand even against the popular opinion when you can rationalize it. Criticizes wrongdoings.

I'm male but this is the traits I see as ultra manly. Aside from looks (arguably posture is looks though). George Clooney in Oceans XI is the most manly character I can think of atm.

>>16915247
How to be alpha ? I'm not alpha, it must not be a dead end, is it ?

I'm a pussy. I'm not assertive. I'm not driven enough to get what i want. If someone slaps my wifes ass, i would be forgiving because i really avoid conflict, i avoid fights, because it would just make me looks stupid, and i'm really really insecure. How to alter me ?

Grow facial hair

>>16915218
LOSE WEIGHT, LIFT OR BOTH.

People will tell you to dress nice and smile. Fuck that.

Lift for half a year and you can be a frowny Fred and wear nothing but dragonball z tshirts, and still appear as an avatar of mandom.