I'm seeing a lot of sad sacks around here. I'm not gonna pretend that I'm perfect, but I think I can help you out. Ask me some questions.
I'm in love with a relatively famous artist/performer
>>16914641
Consider reality and move on.
>>16914634
I have deep seeded feelings of guilt over the death of a loved one. When the opportunity for something good comes up, I subconsciously try to fuck things up to punish myself. :(
>>16914658
Stop doing that. Talk to someone about your grief.
>>16914661
The last time I saw a psych they couldn't find a problem with me because I sabotaged my therapy :(
I know it sounds funny but It's actually true.. And I sort of didn't know I was doing it.. Like a lapse of judgement or some shit.
So far I've gotten by with overcoming the obstacles I throw myself, but when it involves people, I end up making them upset, when really it's just me who is meant to get upset.
>>16914680
You don't need a psych. Would you tell us about it?
I love big boobed milfs, how can I nail some? I do understand that their frequency in the real world is lower than in porn
you got any tips for staying focussed on the shit you have to do?
>>16914683
I could have spent more time with her in hospital when she was in an induced coma. I could have spoke to her more and held her hand and let her know somehow that I was there for when she woke up. But she didn't wake up..
I've tried to think about it as sensibly and rationally as possible, and the only thing I can come up with is that It might be better if I became someone else, and tried to get him to fulfill some other person in life. At least then he won't be rejecting the good things people give him before he has the chance to fuck it up..
>>16914699
Are you at least 18? If not you need to wait my main man. Otherwise, go hit up some clubs with older women. Works better in big cities. Working out helps, they probably don't want scrawny/fat kids. You just have to go to the right places.
>>16914700
Eat well - lots of vegetables and such. Exercise. I'm not kidding, this helps focus a lot. Also get enough sleep.
Otherwise just plan your day/week/month/year. I have a wall calendar that's good for that shit. Put work before play so it's out of the way.
>>16914703
You shouldn't feel guilty about that anon. I'm sorry for your loss. You can't undo the past, as much as it hurts. All you can do is move forward in live, and sabotaging yourself won't change anything for the better. If you're doing it to punish yourself, I suggest you think of what this person would want you to do.
>>16914711
>Are you at least 18? If not you need to wait my main man. Otherwise, go hit up some clubs with older women. Works better in big cities. Working out helps, they probably don't want scrawny/fat kids. You just have to go to the right places.
Yes I'm 25. I'm currently screwing a 37 year old but her boobies are dissatisfyingly small. Anyway, thanks for telling me that I need to go to the right places, I suppose I also need to do the right things, and maybe even say the right stuff. Really helpful thread you've got going on here.
>>16914714
Well I don't know where you live, nor do I go out specifically looking for these women. Learn your area and find out where to pick up. If you're 25 you should fucking know this shit.
>>16914711
>If you're doing it to punish yourself, I suggest you think of what this person would want you to do.
Thanks. I did this and I started sobbing. I will have to confront the issue more often And will have to find other ways as well?
