So I've got a relative, he's a old guy, 23 yo, never had a gf, doubt he ever even kissed anyone. He's 6'4, light skinned black guy. He's soft spoken, polite, and unfortunately slow. Legit borderline retard slow. He graduated HS. He works, takes care of himself, cooks for himself etc. so he's high functioning. He's a good looking guy, not fat, good shape.
Problem is he is a social dud. He is uncomfortable in social situations, super shy etc. I am considering hooking him up with an escort but I don't know if that is a good idea.
He wants to get married and have a family one day, but I don't think it's in the cards for him, sad to say. So, what I'm afraid of, if I introduce him to what he is missing, and he can never get it again, would I leave him worse off in the end than if he just didn't experience sex to begin with?
most people will gain literally nothing from having sex with an escort.
sex is all about the connection you have with the person you're sleeping with, you cant just skip that and expect to gain the same thing.
>>16912751
This. Leave him alone anon, don't meddle. You'll probably mess him up even more.
Has he actually asked for your help in this matter?
>>16912775
Honestly no, I just kind of feel bad for him cause no woman will ever go for him. He's too slow and awkward and he goes to work and comes home and shuts himself in his room.
>>16912797
>>16912797
don't interfere with his sexual life for gods sake. Rather ask him if he wants to go to the movies, for a hike, to a concert etc if you think he actually wants to do something social.
Hooking up people without them knowing is fucking horrible, please don't do that
Part of me thinks if he just had sex once he'd not feel so awkward around women anymore, and see that it really isn't that big of a deal. Maybe he'll open up and not be such a self imposed exile.
>>16912831
Oh, no, I wouldn't sick an escort on him without his knowledge, I'd offer to pay for one for him and be up front about it.
>>16912836
or it could backfire heavily with him having a horrible experience that scarres him for life resulting him being even more scared of social interaction
don't do it. do normal social things with him, where he has to engage in contact with others, maybe find some groups with people that do the activites or hobbies he likes. putting his dick into a vagina won't make him suddenly able to talk to women
>>16912745
Ask him and if he's interdasted then hook him up. Won't change how he is socially, but busting a nut makes everybody feel better for a little while. But he might not give a shit either if he's really slow.
