Girls.
What do tits feel like
>>16909422
salty coins
>>16909422
Bags of fat
Warm, soft, and better than a pillow.
Fuck off with this SAO shit. I'm going to snipe the next general with a more patrician romance anime.
Girls: How often do you think about your eventual death?
Guys: How often do you think about your eventual death?
>>16909422
Like tuna fish and pennies
Would it bother girls if a guy had breast implants and is basically a trap?
>>16909422
Bags of sand
Girls
So I asked on here last week about button down shirts. I listened to what you said. But this is the first time I've worn nice causal shirts before. So I feel kind of weird..
How do I look? yes I know I'm not smiling, I just got off work and I'm really tired. But attire wise, is this ok?
>>16909521
Looks stiff, but cute.
>>16909521
you arent muscular enough so it looks weird.
Also you need to get the kind with the buttons on the collar
>>16909542
Here is the other shirt I bought too
>>16909550
>you arent muscular enough so it looks weird.
Great, so I wasted my money. I told the femanons here im a slim guy, they said it works with skinny dudes. Damn it...
>>16909553
Learn to smile.
>>16909554
don't do it. Like seriously. Don't do it.
>>16909560
I've tried. But I really hate my smile
>>16909559
Your shirts are too big. Get a tailored fit. Also yeah it probably looks better than what you normally wear.
But the main issue is the barrel body effect. Stick your chest out might fix it.
>>16909553
>>16909521
get rid of the bracelet and get a nicer watch or get rid of it all together, looks like something you time your workouts with. shirts are too long to be untucked, sleeves are rolled up too high, mid forearm is good or don't roll it up at all since you're not particularly buff or vascular. annnnnd get your hair shorter particularly the bangs, and stop staring at the camera like you just murdered a family of five. the angle and position of your mouth makes it look like you don't regret murdering the family of 5
>>16909495
I dont really care
>>16909574
>>16909578
whelp. I'm returning these shirts then.
>>16909495
I look forward to it
What's the earliest point in a relationship where you'd move in with the other person?
Open to both male and female anons answering.
Girls: Why do you make such a big deal about the fact you have a vagina? Why does it affect your actions, behavior and mannerisms at so many levels?
Guys: Why do you make such a big deal about the fact you have a penis? Why does it affect your actions, behavior and mannerisms at so many levels?
Really though why do we act like there is any difference in the end
>>16909609
>Guys: Why do you make such a big deal about the fact you have a penis? Why does it affect your actions, behavior and mannerisms at so many levels?
I don't care. my dick doesn't affect my action in any way
I met some friends today. A friend of theirs was supposed to show up too but she didn't. It's a girl I like but I'm not really close friends with her, I've only met her a few times before and texted her once, and I haven't seen her again since long ago. I still think she's really cool and we got along nice the times we met. She didn't show up today because apparently she argued with our mutual friends earlier.
Can I text her and tell her I missed her or ask her how she's doing or something? or is it a bad idea since she may be mad about the argument she had with them?
>>16909609
>penis question
I don't know what you mean, the only thing that affects me about my penis is how society taught me that women do make a big deal about penis size, and the fact that it's often unconfortable in my jeans (I hate the "tent" issue too).
I actually consider men and women as absolute equals and I'm pansexual. Given the choice I would rather not have a penis. So I guess my answer doesn't really count in your survey, sorry.
Girls, would you say a guy can work his way to make you have feelings for him or is it only something that you consider happens on your side out of pure chemistry?
>>16909578
Not him
But girls say they are "not picky". Jesus Christ...
Girls-
I used to have a nice full head of hair with your generic fuccboi style, then I decided to buzz it randomly and it seems that girls are eyeing me more than ever before. Is a buzz cut a turn on some how, or do I just look like a freak?
I'm wondering if it's just one autist spamming SAO and gutting the OP or if there's a cabal going on.
>>16909494
Patlabor please
>>16909609
>Why do you make such a big deal about the fact you have a penis? Why does it affect your actions, behavior and mannerisms at so many levels?
Wat
The most it does is make me sit with my legs more open than a woman.
>>16909495
Rarely to never.
>i think my best fried is in love with me
>we´ve been best friends for 2 years, know everything about each other
>he asked me to go out to dinner/anything this week
>would it be ok if i kissed him/fucked him???
>>16909495
about everytime i jack off #sadboys2001 :(
>>16909609
i don't, unless my not making a big deal about my vagina is making a deal about my big ol' man penis
>>16909609
>Why does it affect your actions, behavior and mannerisms at so many levels?
>Really though why do we act like there is any difference in the end
At the most general level, women appreciate things that they can feel with all their senses, whereas men appreciate things that they can test their physicality with/against.
It's a beautiful balance that we should all take a moment to reflect on.
>>16909703
Its at least 4 people. I would know since Im one of them. SAO isnt the key point here. Its gutting the OP that we join in on. I think SAO started because someone was determined to make threads before the bump limit was hit.
Guy (or girls?)
My friend asked me if i was going to prom. I told him no. Then he said "even if someone asks you?".
Does this mean he wanted to ask me or am i reading too much into this?
>>16909750
He wants to ask you and he now knows not to. But he will feel betrayed if you leave it at that and go with someone else.
>>16909728
1st off stop green texting. You arent doing it right. Second i wouldnt recommend fucking him if you dont want to change your relationship. Nothing will be the same after that.
>>16909700
Buzzed sounds better than generic "fuccboi"
>>16909601
No sooner than 3 years of serious dating I'd say. Cohabitation is like marriage to me. People don't take it seriously enough.
>>16909774
>3 years
lol what are you a child
>>16909601
When the relationship gets serious and marriage is a possible result. No point in moving in together if you dont plan on having a future. Im not saying that you need to be engaged. But you need to be willing to and thinking about marriage. So it depends on where you are in your life.
If you are actively seeking out someone to get married with Id recommend waiting 6 months. You can do earlier but you need to be willing to move out really soon which isnt to point of moving in together.
If you are just dating around I dont really recommend it unless its been over a couple of years and you just find it easier.
is it stupid if i marry someone if we are both 20/21 but studying in similiar fields and can even go build a home right now?
>>16909786
I would not recommend getting married in college. Wait until you graduate. If you two see your lives moving in similar directions after that then go for it.
But theres no point in doing it in college. College is not the place for that. marriage means a lot of things and you cant really commit to them in college.
>>16909609
Go back to tumblr you fucking animal.
The sex organs are not the only difference between man and woman. The nature of man and woman are dissimilar and even the structure of the brains are different due to the effect of hormones on development. You are what you are and you just have to deal with it.
My gf who lives 4 hrs from me(shes in NYC) hasn't texted me back in like 4 days, but shes posted on facebook once between then and now. Trying to plan on when which weekend we're going to see each other, but she just hasn't replied to anything.
Did I make her mad somehow or is this even worse?
>>16909601
Whenever you are seriously considering marriage or otherwise very kind term commitment. You shouldn't just move in with somebody in order to have them around more. You should move in with somebody as a step in building a life together.
>>16909779
Why would you think that's childish? And just because I don't agree with you, I'm not going to insult you. I think six months is too early to know someone fully enough to move onto steps like living together or marriage.
>>16909786
If you want to be together, just be together. You don't need to get legally bound. You can do that later if you want.
>>16909829
Depending on where you live, you can be legally bound just by being in a relationship long enough.
>>16909824
Because you believe that it takes 3 years to move in together. It takes less than that to get to know someone. Its childish because the only reason it would take that long is if you dont know yourself and what you want. And arent planning on having a serious relationship. The mentality of someone in their early 20s
>>16909866
I just disagree. I believe it takes years of knowing someone to know them well enough.
How would you try to catch up with your ex 4 months after breaking up? How would the opening message read? We broke up mostly due to being incompatible after 6 months, I don't think she "hates" me or anything.
She's in Med school, so I was looking to time it around/after her Midterms to get a sense of her availability. Would this be a good idea? I've been meaning to catch up with her for a while now, just been doing my own work in the meantime.
For what it's worth, I have a pretty good idea of when her study breaks are.
>>16909880
Well enough for what exactly. If you know what you want in life and a marriage it doesnt take long at all to find those in a person.
>>16909883
There's no reason you should need to catch up with your ex. Leave her alone.
>>16909894
There's no need, just a want. Obviously if she's not interested/keen then that's when it ends.
>>16909887
I think to know a person "truly", it takes at least a few years. You see all sides of them, you get to see how they react to different stressors and challenges, you outlast any possible "novel" or "honeymoon" phase.
>>16909880
Similar answer to >>16909887
You should know what you want /first/ before considering dating anyone, instead of waiting three years until you're convinced, because if it takes you three years to come up with a decision-- especially if it turns out to be "no", then you're just wasting both of your time.
Consider that the other person might be doing the same: they already knew what they want /first/ and decided that it was You so they commited, but you had to drag them along for three years till you decided "maybe you're not the one".
>>16909918
Just another mentality of a young person. A person isnt going to be the same person they were a year ago. Part of being in a relationship. A serious relationship is growing together.
>I think to know a person "truly", it takes at least a few years
This is just false. All youve done is observe them. Youre just making predictions based on watching them grow instead of trying to grow with them. the amount of time isnt directly correlated to knowing the person better. If you are actually looking for a serious relationship 6 months is actually a little overkill. But you also need to see if the way you are growing as a person in compatible with the way they are growing as a person.
3 years is absolutely ridiculous. No one makes the same decisions they would have 3 years ago making your knowledge from back then useless. So you dont have a few years of data, only relevant data explaining who they are is recent.
>>16909674
these are basic "im older than 19" style tips
>>16909923
I'm not at all saying the three years are figuring out what you want or figuring out yourself. That should absolutely all be figured out before any relationship. The time spent before final steps like cohabitation, marriage, and children are for figuring out who THEY are. Especially since most people start out dating and not as friends first (which I think is ideal but understandably not realistic for the majority).
>>16909931
I understand what you're trying to say, but you'd really advocate people marry after only knowing a person for 6 months?
Girls: If a girl talks to say a cousin about you, is that a good thing or a bad one?
Background
>work in a chocolate shop
>get in a project group with a qt
>bring some chocolate from work one day
>give her a piece
>we talk more
>only ever give her like one more piece
>walking out of class
>runs into her cousin
>introduces me as "that guy I told you about that works at the chocolate shop who always gives me chocolates"
I found it strange that she'd said that I always give her stuff since I only ever gave her like 3 pieces, and that I had given some to others in the project group. For whatever reason my mind is saying that she probably told her cousin that I'm a shit or whatever but at the same time it might be a good sign in that she was actually talking about me. Any interpretations?
>>16909942
Know because I dont think people know themselves and what they want in a relationship well enough to pull that off in 6 months. But thats mainly because of the society we live in. In a more family oriented society with less distractions and less chances for peoples lives to veer off in drastically different directions then maybe. I wouldnt unless Ive at least known the person for another 6 months before the 6 months of courting. Which is back to my original post, only try this if you are seriously looking for marriage and know what you want from yourself and your other. That doesnt apply to most people.
>>16909946
You're fine, unless she said it in some snarky tone. It's a small part of her day that's significant enough to tell her cousin about. Nothing negative about it, but don't start making any big moves because seriously it's just chocolate. Feel it out a bit more.
girls, if you are on a date with a guy and you're wearing matching underwear are you looking to hook up?
>>16909962
Granted, I've been talking to her for a couple of weeks now, so I thought that would be something. I'm probably reading a bit too much about it but my mind usually jumps to the conclusion that shes talking shit about me for whatever reason, since I automatically assume that whenever I hear someone mention me
>>16909960
So you're saying that if you're interested in her flying over to stay with you what would you do? Depends on if she wants to fly over obviously.
Or are you afraid he's gonna be dangerous.
Describing someone as a hyperreligious Muslim doesn't do him any favors. The Quran is easy to interpret in malicious ways. In many places it recommends deception, 'mercy' (in the sense of not killing everyone you've conquered for being heathens when it's to your advantage) and tons of UN human rights violations.
But do as you wish. The Muslim identity has been thrown up in the air quite a bit. Islam used to be more discussion focused during the ottomans but I wouldn't call that fundamentalist (as many hyperreligious types are).
>>16909977
Not really. Having matching bra and underwear makes me a tiny bit more in control of my otherwise chaotic life. I may not have my shit together, but I can at least have my bra and underwear together.
>>16909995
Thats because part of the Quran is about the art of warfare. What people dont get is that the Quran wasnt written in a peaceful time. Muslims were being crusaded against and its to give them strength.
So I'm really into butt stuff, like I really like watching porno girls do big insertions (cucumbers/dildos) and I love the gaping.
There's nothing I want more (sexually) than to get my girl to gape
IT's my first relationship and we haven't done much more than vanilla shit. How do you even bring up kinks and stuff? During sex, after sex, out of the blue?
Also what is the general consensus on butt stuff, is it weird and gross and just for porn or wouldyou try it ou
>>16910001
>Muslims were being crusaded against
No not really. The Muslim conquests started just after Muhammad died. The Quran is commonly assumed to be written somewhere within a hundred years after.
Regardless me personally I would not take a book that encourages things like that as my moral code. Other religions are also very bad certainly. But I find the fact that deception is permitted to be a most disconcerting idea in religious scripture.
The order in which everything happened is very clear. The Christian crusades were awful and certainly not defensive when they happened (the northern crusades are certainly proof, pagans didn't attack Christians on any real level). But they were in retaliation. That was a large part in the justification that was made because Christianity doesn't advocate their actions really. It was an unholy war from their end.
>>16909883
>>16909895
Anyone else?
>>16910027
>The Muslim conquests started just after Muhammad died.
Try actually reading the quran. It specifically says do not lose faith from the concurrent attacks. I read a fairly literal translation for my uni. But yeah you are just wrong there. Its about fighting for what you believe in and not losing faith and spreading the belief in 1 god for many parts of it. The rest are pretty much about trials and tribulations.
>But they were in retaliation
No you dont know how it all started. When people started saying christians were polytheist the attacks immediately began and then escalated into war. Im not talking about the CRUSADES. Im talking about the things that led up to them.
The deception is very similar to many messages in the bible and that of Jesus teachings. Since they were being attacked, similar to how jesus said to eat pork and drink even though he felt it was wrong, it was to gain the favor of those there. Basically telling muslims to hide until they have an opportunity.
I really hate talking about Islam though because literally no one has read the quran and knows what they are talking about. And come up with ridiculous interpretations without context.
>>16910044
As a Muslim it's cool to see westerners actually doing their research but I can tell you first hand you're wasting your breath. This is 4chan where stormfags are the norm and you're just talking to a wall. I suggest you stop responding to him before we get a full derail.
>>16910044
>I'm just wrong
Yes if you read the Quran and assume it's true I'd be wrong. Their account isn't accurate with the events historians discover though.
I do find discussing the Quran rather annoying too but mainly because the interpretations vary so much among Muslims and they don't separate each other as well as protestants, Catholics etc. At least not in the discussions. It's rarely mentioned. I've only had one guy tell me he's a 'true Muslim' following the true faith. Didn't even mention Shia or anything like that. That doesn't happen with Christians. They say they're part of a group or not part of a group or define themselves when asked. Muslims I speak to tend to avoid that as much as possible. I don't see why at all.
>ridiculous interpretations
Happens to every religion. I think the real problem is that Islam doesn't have as strong official sources like the Pope. Or as (relatively) weak a message like protestants.
I got rejected by a girl for putting a spoonful of sugar in my coffee.
Bullet dodge?
>>16910080
>Their account isn't accurate with the events historians discover though.
So the quran is made up now... This always triggers me so much. It started because of the fucking romans going around spreading and imperializing shit and trying to say they are doing a good deed. What you think a small group of people decided to attack the fucking Roman empire.
Pure historical unbiased understanding of events is that Persians conquered muslim areas (arabian area), Romans "restored christianity" by defeating the Persians and Muslims said GTFO.
The lack of education triggers me so much.
>>16910080
>Happens to every religion
Yeah it just triggers me since NO ONE reads the quran. People at least have a general idea of how the bible goes.
And
>Muslims I speak to tend to avoid that as much as possible. I don't see why at all.
Its fairly straight forwards actually. Muslims will disagree on this because Islam developed in different areas, but the entire point of Islam is to follow in the path of Abraham which is whatever you interpret that to be. So the 'pillars of faith' are just things muslims agree on. Although from reading the quran I do not understand how anyone can not agree with the first pillar. Literally every passage starts with "One true god"
>>16910044
>>16910116
I honestly can't tell if you're serious or trolling.
There's no way someone is this fucking stupid.
>SAO pic.
>Thread about how the other gender feels about etc
Oh the irony.
>>16910131
Blame my liberal education. What did yours teach you?
>>16910131
If you are attacking the quran being made up part, its mainly because you havent read it. Its mainly just lessons and things to do. Muslims are supposed to get there lore from the bible.
Most retarded and idiotic and/or childish reasons to reject/break up?
>>16910148
Its not normally a singular retarded reason anon. People just get fed up of the little things and use a retarded reason to break up. So I could break up with you over a spilled cup of coffee but its really that I was just fed up with being unhappy.
What makes a guy attractive (physically)
Asking females.
For the ladies
Girl I recently used to date is liking my pics. She ended it because she was confused/didn't know what she wanted/possibly still had feelings for her ex.
>we weren't officially together
>up until that point she really liked me a lot
>she made it pretty obvious she was snooping through my pictures when we were dating.
>what do these actions mean? Are they significant?
>>16910152
>unhappy
Because of a small and insignificant phenomenon that can barely affect the entire planet in that particular moment?
I'm amazed you can breathe.
>>16910159
Think of a conventionally attractive guy. Think of what his features are. There's your answer probably about 8 times out of 10.
>>16910167
Im amazed you are able to breathe as well with your reading comprehension lol. Its damn well impressive you can even post here.
>>16910172
>reading comprehension
Is it a problem?
Because I can't help it.
>>16909521
get better posture
>>16909521
>>16909553
They're a little too big. Also are you wearing dad jeans with them? Get some slim cut jeans or chinos.
>>16910180
If you dont count failing to read well enough to be a functioning member of society a problem then I guess not.
Possible to go out on a date without spending a single coin that doesn't involve cooking your own grub?
>>16910200
Do you want to eat?
Take her somewhere adventurous. Do you not have any free hobbies. Go to the park. Throw a frisbee. Take her somewhere secluded in the woods. Do not trust anyone whos literally handing out free food no strings attached. There arent any for a reason.
>>16910169
>just know what an attractive guy is and you're right most of the time
Presumably he's asking because he doesn't know but ok.
Question for girls.
What do you think guys think an attractive girl is?
>>16910116
>so the Quran is made up now
Yeah for the most part. It's a heavily bias document it's to be expected. I don't regard the Bible or other scripture to be more accurate by default (and the Bible is very inaccurate).
If historians disagree you tend to go with the historians because they're at the very least not supposed to be bias.
It's not sensible to call it ignorance when you're not familiar with the historical discussion that's going on. It's widely recognized that the Quran isn't accurate in this but there's conflict on other things.
Really. If you were simply assuming the Quran was correct, with religious bias or not, then you're really not being honest in this discussion because you don't have any footing. Why not assume other documents are correct? It's simply not a sensible position to let your religious scripture paint your view of history because you know they're gonna favor themselves. Exceptions can be the word of God arguably.
>>16910223
Probably very similar to what I consider an attractive girl.
>>16910109
Yeah. She's trying to make you fat so you have to stay with her. Very toxic. She will probably be abusive in the future. If not that she will have a child with Chad, deny paternity tests and cuck you on child support while she's living with Chad.
It's a dangerous world my friend. You're right to be cautious.
>>16910228
Thats like saying Confucian teachings are made up. Just validates that you cant talk about islam because people have no idea whats actually in the quran. Like how all scholars handle it, the events more or less happened but are portrayed from the prophets followers standpoint. Same thing is given to the bible for people that are confirmed to have existed like jesus. That being said you read the very literal version of the bible and not the interpreted mess like the kjv and what not.
Please never mention islam again until you have at least opened a quran up. You dont seem to have any idea whats actually in it.
>>16910200
If you don't eat on the date, sure. Most people like having some form of food on dates though
>>16910246
>opened the Quran
I have. I haven't read it front to back but I've read a lot of stuff with context. Translated of course. And it's my right where I live to comment on whatever the fuck I want regardless of my education level in that matter. It makes no sense to forbid people from talking about things like that because you must recognize that your own understanding isn't and will never be perfect. So the arbitrary judgement you make has to at the very least be substantiated for anyone to take it seriously. Like if I hadn't opened the Quran fine. I see your opinion as valid. But someone who has spent his life studying it could say the same to you. There's no philosophical reasoning for your stance.
>you don't seem to have any idea what's in it
Except I'm clearly recognizing plenty of things which I'm sure you're not denying is there (and assuming you're the anon I started with you also conceded it but excused it)
>the events more or less happened
True. But I'm also more or less a chimpanzee. Doesn't make it an accurate description to base your judgements on. You need more than that. Assuming I was you should stop replying because this is just random shit that the monkey happened to type.
>that's like saying Confucian teachings are made up
No its not. Not at all and it's not even relevant to this discussion. Unless you can make it clear exactly what parallel between historical depictions in religious scripture and the general teachings in Confucian teachings is relevant here. From my POV it looks like you just grabbed a philosophy/ideology and pretended it's an unequivocally true philosophy. I don't think there's a lot of people saying that Confusian teachings are unarguably true. I don't recall all of it offhand but I'm confident it doesn't preach without making reasoned arguments. Which saying that history is as the Quran says it is because it's the Quran would certainly be. Preaching with no argument.
Also enough with the insults. Why even do it?
>>16909409
How shy can girls can be around their crush?
>>16910275
>I have. I haven't read it front to back but I've read a lot of stuff with context.
You havent read it and its apparent because you dont know whats in it
>And it's my right where I live to comment on whatever the fuck I want regardless of my education level in that matter
Lol if you want to be a screaming retard go for it.
>Like if I hadn't opened the Quran fine
Because you havent
>There's no philosophical reasoning for your stance.
Which stance are you talking about. Because no scholar denies first hand accounts. Its just treated like all other first hand accounts. The quran was written recently in historical context so its easy to invalidate things about it when they are false. So to say its made up just makes you seem retarded. The same way its historically proven that jesus existed, roamed around with his followers.
>Except I'm clearly recognizing plenty of things
No you are not.
>Doesn't make it an accurate description to base your judgements on
This is a retarded standpoint in the history department. You treat it like a first hand account. Unless you have contradicting information or some part of it is believable, the main events probably happened.
>Unless you can make it clear exactly what parallel between historical depictions in religious scripture and the general teachings in Confucian teachings is relevant here
LIterally same thing. The Quran is not filled with stories like the bible. Its passages of wisdom and whatnot. The historical events are few and in between and only used when relevant.
Its not a fable like the bible although muslims are supposed to believe in the fables of the bible as well. The fact that you dont know that proves to me you have never looked inside of one.
No one is saying any philosophy is true. Its a philosophy. Calling it true or false is stupid itself. Which is what you are doing and furthermore discounts events that are generally validated and consistent with the plethora of knowledge we have of the time.
Ladies, why can't you seem to follow the logical conclusion of atheism to its end which is nihilism?
>>16910275
Furthermore
>Which saying that history is as the quran says it is because it's the quran would certainly be.
The quran isnt a fucking history book yet you keep trying to treat it as one. It similar to saying jesus, a man confirmed by multiple sources to exist first and second hand accounts, didnt exist. You are being retarded. Im calling you retarded because you dont know whats in the Quran. You say its not historically true yet the details for the most part in it are historically consistent.
>at war with [people]
Oh look, history backs that up.
I ascribe the quran to that of buddhist teaching or confucian teaching because thats how its meant to be taken. Its literally a recording of advice said to be given as mohamed walked around. Not a history book like the bible pretends to be. Thats really my main problem with the three big religions because they all read that book which is mostly fiction.
>>16910324
>atheism into nihilism
Baby's first philosophical thought.
>>16910307
I can get pretty shy. Well im already introverted. I often blush and try to ignore them.
>>16910353
the true step is nihilism to solipsism
>>16910359
>Solipsism
Illogical desu. It's like you never even considered God. Or an objective reality outside of your own senses. Or anything that happened before you were born. Fuck, solipsism triggers me.
>>16910354
I feel like the girl that I like ignores me like this. We work at the same job and she often sees me but doesnt prefer to say hi when we are passing by. I dont know if she is shy or uninterested.
>>16910371
Why I believe in things I have no reason to.
>It's like you never even considered God
You mean me
>Or an objective reality outside of your own senses
This is a bullshit concept. Why would I believe in a world outside my perception. Because I perceived it?
>Or anything that happened before you were born
You mean that facts I made up about the world
>>16910317
>you haven't
I say I have. I've made an argument for why you should believe that and you ignore it. Your loss I guess.
>literally the same thing
Draw a parallel between the history of the Quran and confucius.
>fables Bible [...] proves to me you don't know because
Except we haven't even mentioned any of the historical events except loosely the crusades in general. Not even specifying the first or otherwise even. I never put what kind of text it is into question.
>>16910338
>The Quran isn't a history book. You keep treating it as such
Ok so you say that the Quran has historical shit in it and you now claim I'm not supposed to treat those segments as such when it's just the historical bits were talking about. The accounts in the Quran differ with historians in general (there will always be someone claiming everything is fact obviously, we both know this).
>you're saying that history is as the Quran says it is...
Autocorrect screwed me over. Basically you didn't motivate at all. You didn't even mention what you think historians thought until now. It was a God given truth seemingly.
>the details are consistent for the most part
I find that an odd thing to say. Probably not what you mean.
This is the most pointless discussion I've had in a while. I say historians think sortof the same thing about the Quran for the most part.
>moral teachings
Ok why are you bringing this up? Completely irrelevant. What we were discussing is the history of the Quran vs our non-fictional world.
>Bible is fiction
Yep. Mostly. As is the Quran but as you say (and assumed I didn't know for some marvelous reason) it's mainly not a history book. So alot of the friction in the Quran is just 'oh yeah God said this here's some fairly lose motivations go hog wild or whatever'. Rather than 'this happened this happened this happened you can learn this from that' like the Bible (I still hold that it's incorrect).
I think we could both learn if we re-read this entire discussion.
>>16910377
Could be a mixture of both. Depends upon how she reacts around other people
>>16910384
>oh yeah God said this here's some fairly lose motivations go hog wild or whatever
Confirmed never reading the quran. Its only things mohamed said. This is so pathetic. A book of quotes is not classified as fiction.
You are making assumptions about whats in there which is why you look so pathetic. Try reading an making educated opinions.
>>16910383
>Why I believe in things I have no reason to.
There are many reasons to consider things that aren't percieved by your own senses. Take for example me, i'm writing and reading now on 4chan, just like you are. Considering our vast array of similiarities, don't you think it reasonable to assume that I exist as a part of the world, just as you do?
>You mean me
Yes, You are God, and I am too, and the trees and the rocks and everything. Look around you right now, there are many things in your room that AREN'T you. But still there they are. Look at the trees and the rocks and the oceans. Millions upon millions of things that aren't you.
>This is a bullshit concept. Why would I believe in a world outside my perception. Because I perceived it?
Consider your parents. They concieved you, right? And this was before you were able to percieve things, with your senses? How extremely foolish of you to assume that your parents do not exist when they are the sole reason for your life.
>You mean that facts I made up about the world
So, you've never read a book, i get?
>ITT: Ask the opposite religion anything
Is the big man in the sky a boy or a girl?
>>16910386
She is talkative around ppl she knows at work. I'm kinda new since I started about 5months ago. I once said hi to her in front of her and she completly ignored me. She recently told me that she is the type of person who doesn't like to say hi first.
My wife doesn't seem interested in sex at all... never has been. Is it ok to go to prostitutes occasionally instead?
>>16910399
Why would anyone in power be a woman
Can a girl tell me, why the fuck they ask me to go out with them/meet up then cancel every time?
>>16910394
>don't you think it reasonable to assume that I exist as a part of the world, just as you do?
Of course not. You are no more apart of my world than the people in my dreams. You are as real as they are.
>You are God, and I am too
You barely exist bro outside of my imagination. You arent god. I have 0 reason to believe that.
>Consider your parents. They concieved you, right?
My 'conception' was just a thing I made up. Same as my parents. I have no reason to believe that anything existed before me that I didnt make up details to fill in the blanks.
>you've never read a boo
You mean the books about facts I made up?
>>16910399
Hey dont blame me. It would have never gotten here if some retard didnt try to deny the historically validated context of the war the quran was written in.
>>16910413
Under the strict regimen of your philosophy, i fail to see any proof for your own existence.
>>16910393
>a book of quotes is not classified as fiction
Fair enough, I'll grant that. I find the claims they make to be not much more than fiction in a lot of places. (that I've read)
And we were mainly concerned with history so I don't know how you'd view it as fiction on that front. It's still mainly quotes, but inaccurate (to the best of my knowledge).
>confirmed..
It's pointless to even read this. You're just saying I'm wrong. Just say so every time instead of thinking that phrasing it that was makes your claim legitimate.
>>16910417
I think therefore I am is only strictly a proof that you exist for you to believe. Why would I try to prove anything to you when I dont believe you exist.
>>16910423
I think you are obsessed with the world you create inside of your brain. Your consciousness so to speak. But you fail to see that that consciousness is a part of the world at large. What a narrow worldview you have.
>>16910399
Neither. Xir is gender fluid based on your personal perspective.
>>16910419
>It's still mainly quotes, but inaccurate
You cant call a quote about how to live your life inaccurate. See why I say you havent read it. These are only assumptions you can make when you have no idea what you are talking about. Let me help you out so that next time you talk to someone you have a little education.
Mohamed had a serious of 'revelations' in which he was revealed things by god.
This is an unfalsifiable claim and you are literally an idiot for calling an unfalsifiable claim inaccurate.
Calling a quote about how to live you life, say like the first quote that started this about deception, inaccurate implies you have the accurate answer and that there is an answer. You only sound more and more retarded to me because you dont know what you are talking about.
Girls.
Actually, guys too:
What should I do about the breast/butt fat/flesh? It looks weird and I don't know if I should eat it or just toss it out with the guts and surprisingly beautiful hair.
>>16910424
Oh really, let me just get a quick confirmation of that without my consciousness. Oh wait, I cant. There's no evidence anything but my consciousness exist.
>>16910436
Poorly chosen word perhaps. I want a word that means it has attempts at motivation but they're not sufficient/base themselves on axioms I can't accept. I swear I knew one. But English is my second language so you have to excuse me. (well you don't have to, figure of speech)
Girls
A guy is generally all flirty towards you, asks you out and told you he's interested. You aren't, but you're friends anyway, see each other regularly and hang out every once in a while.
Now this guy meets someone else who reciprocates. They're not dating or anything, but they're very flirty together, almost entangled and most of the time he used to spend with you he now spends with her.
Would this upset or bother you? Or would you not give a damn?
Trying to figure out if it's "okay" to move on. She always sticks to this other friend who acts like her caretaker, and most of the time I'm the only one putting in any effort and feel like a third wheel. Yet she still leans on me sometimes (when he isn't around) and last time I ditched them for the other girl she was full of snark for days.
How much of a turnoff if an otherwise good looking guy is going thin on top a bit (I got on finasteride too late)?
I mean it's completely concealable with styling/toppik so shaving it off is retarded, just wondering if it's as much of a turnoff to girls as guys seem to think
>>16910440
Doubtful. I think that works. I find the quotes claims doubtful.
Girls is doubtful a good word for this purpose?
Would you date a guy who uses this word to mean that?
>>16910439
>There's no evidence anything but my consciousness exist.
Yes, there is. And there are people right now (people with their own consciousness) reviewing that evidence while you are reading this. But by all means, remain in your philosophical dead-end, and pretend that you have it all figured out! It's good for you, then you won't have to face the possibility that the world is more complex than you ever will understand. However, if you want to stop that and do some actual thinking, there are books written by men who did 100x more thinking than you, start with the greeks.
If a girl has a crush on you, is it normal for her to ignore you when there's other people around?
>>16910460
No theres not. Its cute you think you have your own consciousness. When I can observe it as separate from my consciousness maybe I will believe you.
>greeks
Babies first philosophers lol. Start with Humes
You keep making this these grand claims about a complex world when theres literally no evidence of one.
Girls, does it matter if your bf has no friends to introduce you to ?
SJW = Angry idiots that bully people for ego?
>>16910499
>Girls, does it matter if your bf has no friends to introduce you to ?
I'd be concerned if my boyfriend doesn't have any close friend at all, yeah.
>>16910513
No but maybe he's introverted ? Like, no, he's not crazy or psychopath he's just, he can't really blend in but he can be himself when he's with you. Oh come on you're just an 18 year old girl that wants to be introduced to the alpha friends and be a trophy gf r-right ?
>>16910499
Wouldn't think any less of him if he didn't have any close friends because I don't either.
>>16910499
Well, i wouldn't have a problem with "not being introduced" obviously. But i would be a bit concerned about him cause i think everybody needs atleast one friend. Or a sibling they get along with very good. Just somebody...
>>16910536
Well maybe that person is you, he only needs you. Wouldn't that be sweet ? I mean, why not trying to help him anyway ? Why always wanting the problem to be solved magically so that you can enjoy having a normal bf ?
>>16910530
No, I am 23 and I usually try my best to avoid being introduced to friends because I am pretty introverted and I don't like attentions.
But really it'd be a bit of a red flag if my boyfriend didn't have friends at all.
If I am the only person in his life he's more likely to become clingy. He may be really awkward. He may ask me to stop seeing my friends because he has to stay alone.
In similar vein with this >>16910499
Do you guys have a problem with dating a girl that doesn't have friends? Like none at all really. Maybe one long distance.
>>16910540
Not that Anon, but that sounds more like dependency or clingy than sweet. Neither are good things.
>>16910543
But you never know unless you really find out, r-right ?
Guys: is it a red flag if a girl has a lot of guy friends but only a few girl friends?
Girls: is it a red flag if a guy has a lot of girl friends but only a few guy friends?
>>16910546
>>16910546
Okay then maybe he's just very awkward with new people he's very insecure to even socialize. But he's very attractive and interesting to talk to. Would it still be a dealbreaker just like penis size ?
>>16910552
I'd like a girl who has very few or no friends
I can't relate to people into platonic relationships
>>16910552
Personally, I'd like him to have no close friends that are girl. And me no close guy friends. But that's just my preference.
>>16910552
I'm a guy. I don't see an issue with a girl having a lot of guy friends. It's just a sign she's more likely to share my interests. But I have to make sure I'm better than them and stuff. Largely depends on the way the guys seem. If it's full of nerds I'd never see her dating then that's fine.
>>16910552
Girl here.
No, it wouldn't be a problem for me, if his friends are nice people. Of course I expect them both to not be flirty at all.
>>16910551
I wouldn't even bother.
I don't want to be someone's therapist, I don't want to "fix" people. I try to be around people who make me happy. So, no, a person that has just me, that is really dependent on me, that is awkward around people, is a nope.
Girls: do any if you have experience with hormonal iud's? I have a copper one atm and i'm somewhat happy. But my periods are extremely long and it starts to be annoying. Last Two times it went on for 14 days... Now i am toying with the idea of getting a hormonal one.
My question is: do you still menstruate or are you one of those girls that don't even bleed anymore cause of the hormonal iud?
>>16910580
>that is awkward around people
Who would you want him to be around with ? Why does it matter, like okay what if he's not dependant but he's like into some sort of hobbies ? For example music and books, and he doesn't find happiness in getting drunk with guys his age ? Damn you make me hate myself so much.
>>16910582
I have hormonal IUD.
I menstruate every month, for maybe 2-3 days.My period is really short and light. I skipped some months (I had it for a year and half and I skipped maybe 4 months).
The effects of the hormones aren't THAT bad with IUD. I didn't gain weight like all my friends on birth control. My boobs got a bit bigger.
>>16910591
Thanks! That was very helpfull! 2-3 days sounds awesome... I don't tolerate the pill very good (o get rather moody and my libido drops) so i was reluctant and got the copper one. But since the hormones are only local i can imagine the side effects would be lesser. But yeah, getting even bigger boobs sounds not that great. Meh, i think i might give it a try.
>>16910586
Just because I wouldn't date you there's no reason to hate yourself. I wouldn't date most guys. No worries.
It matters because being social makes you a better person to be in a relationship with. Less awkward. More empathetic. More understanding. Plus, I think that people who have long lasting and close friendships are more likely to have long lasting relationships.
My boyfriend has literally 3 friends. He doesn't like partying and he likes being on his own.
But he's really charming and self confident. He is not awkward at all when he's around my friends, they're all in love with him. He's really empathetic. He is
He has two elementary school friends, they go to the gym and go hiking together. And a close friend from work, they usually go out for a beer once or twice a week.
>>16910594
Yes, it is pretty awesome. I had big boobs before too, and it kind of sucked when they got enormous. But, hey, can't complain - I got super short periods in return.
I didn't try the pill, but I have never been moody with the IUD (not more than usual at least, I'd say I am more calm than before) and my libido is higher than before.
I hope it works for you!
>>16910609
But dang, i can't even find cute bras in my size NOW. but everybody reacts differently, maybe it doesn't have an impact on my boobs. This sounds great. I'll ask my obgyn next time! Thanks again femanon.
>>16910607
Well you remind me how i'm never gonna be a quality human being. Now you make me think that i have to go out there, but what's the point, i would still have to wear my mask, i can't be myself around people, if i 'force', i 'pretend'. Sorry for the blog post
>>16910607
I literally can't stop reading this, thinking about ways to be like this guy, also how far the journey would be. Also daydreaming about how my life would be better if i'm like that guy.
>>16910617
There are some girls who won't care about that. I would, some others wouldn't.
If you are going to make a change, you should do it for yourself, to feel better in your own skin.
If you have some sort of anxiety or whatever, work on that with a therapist or just get out of your comfort zone and try. Join clubs, talk to people at classes, or start a team sport
You don't need to force yourself to be different. Most of the people I care about are introverted and a bit shy. We have common interests and I genuinely think that they're good people.
>>16910640
Well you know sometimes i don't care about being a good person i just want to be interesting and attractive to a person that i find interesting and attractive. I don't like socializing and really not interested to do it. And i know that people should socialize. But then i have to force myself to like something that i'm 'allergic' to. I have to be unnatural and bored to be acceptable, to live life the 'right way' and the normal way to keep myself in the 'acceptable range' in the dating world. Uh sorry i did it again
Girls: is a 5'7 guy too short?
Girls, which one is worse : manlet or dicklet ?
>>16910666
No, it's fine.
I am 5'6.
>>16910676
Then let me rephrase: is a guy shorter than you too short?
>>16910669
Dicklet. But we're talking about almost a clit size here
Guys, why won't my crush from school contact me during free time (hasn't even added me on fb) even though he seems kinda interested? We've known for two months.
>>16910682
But maybe you have a 4" clit.
>>16910680
I think I wouldn't be able to date someone much shorter than me, no. My height or slightly shorter, yes. Visibly shorter, no.
>>16910686
have you showed your interess? We guys need some pretty evident sign to understand when a girl is interested.
>>16910682
What about : 5'5" vs 4.5" penis. Which one is worse ?
>>16910692
Yeah I have complimented him a bit and looking at him (he looks back) and we talk quite a bit and he comes near to me a lot. I don't know, it's the last week I will be seeing him and I am so shy..
>>16910699
>Yeah I have complimented him a bit and looking at him
that's not what I meant for pretty evident signs. Is HE shy?
>>16910689
oh, I see, that's unfortunate for me then. Thank you for your answer anyway.
>>16910701
Nah not really, he might be with girls. What are some actual evident signs? ;_;
>>16910705
tell him you are interested. kiss him on the cheek. It would be useful to know what kind of guy he is.
>>16910713
Ah I see. I feel like I am too shy do to those but I guess I should try telling him I like him ;_;
Any tips on making small talk?
I've made pretty good progress working on my social anxiety in the past year, and I'm okay at holding conversations if it's about an actual subject. My main issue is that I can't get a conversation to flow if it's somewhat less structured, like talking to a stranger in a bar, or something like that. I go through all of the normal advice given like, asking general questions, trying to make jokes, etc, and it works for a bit, but the conversation usually dies off pretty quickly.
Girls
I have a very high sex drive that until now has been well taken care of by rosy palm and her five sisters, but i'm in a relationship now. we've been together for approaching 6 months and i'm having some serious doubts. she's repeatedly stated no sex before marriage, but i'm not interested in marriage. sex isn't really the biggest deal, i've had the casual stuff before, but i feel like it's an important part of a serious long term relationship as a sign of real trust and love for your partner. i can 'fill' her sex drive to it's 'capacity' and burn off any extra on my own with no problem, that's not the problem, it just feels like she doesn't have a physical interest in me at all. honestly it's making it hard to feel wanted in the relationship. not to be a bragging little shit but i do have other options where i can be in a relationship and have sex, i just really like this one and wouldn't want 'putting out' to be the deciding factor in a relationship with someone i really connect with on a deep personal level.
living a life of willing celibacy just because of the whims of a person i care deeply for, bothers me just as deeply. the idea of never being able to look her in the eyes and make love to her is just.....wrong on so many levels. i don't want more meaningless fucking, i want to make love to someone i love.
i'd really appreciate some advice from a lady who might have been on the other side of a similar issue. should i bring it up yet again? should i try to let it go and be celibate? should i marry her even though i'm appalled at the idea? should i leave her because she won't make love with me? should i seek my meaningful emotional bullshit somewhere else? should i abandon it?
>tldr:
gf is holding a deeper connection (and hot dickings) above my head until i agree to abandon my own wishes entirely and sell my soul to her, i can get deeper 'connections' elsewhere and am considering it. should i stay or should i go? if i stay, how so?
Girls
I've known/liked this girl since last semester as a classmate (orchestra). I've only ever talked to her briefly as part of a group. Would it be weird approaching her? I mean, thinking of it reverse, I would love it if she approached me, but I'm retarded so what do I know. I don't even know what I would say.
>>16910686
Maybe he's busy. Maybe you're reading too much shit into nothing. There are innumerable reasons and you are giving way too little context to reasonably filter any of them out.
>>16910552
>Guys: is it a red flag if a girl has a lot of guy friends but only a few girl friends?
Not in and of itself. Having a male dominated hobby is a valid reason. But if she says some crap like "guys are so much less drama" odds are she's given half of them a blowjob.
>>16910544
I'd only care if she expected all of my time.
Why do these threads have an anime picture now? I miss the default gender symbols.
Anyway, there's this girl I like. I met her a few times last year and we got along great but I haven't seen her in months. I was supposed to see her yesterday along with some mutual friends (who are close friends with me and her). She didnt show up because apparently she argued with them earlier.
Can/Should I text her and tell her I missed her or ask her how she's doing? Or could she still be mad about her argument with the others?
I've only texted her twice before and we are barely just friends.
>>16910734
Leave ffs
You shouldn't even need a girl to tell you this
Get a girl who's on the same page as you, can't be that hard
>>16910820
>Why do these threads have an anime picture now? I miss the default gender symbols.
Asshurt from rogue thread starters who don't like the long OP for some reason. Shitposting t bh, I pray for them to get b&.
>>16910582
No menstration, but I have the five year one, and I'm nearing the five year mark and just started cycling again
>>16910680
Not for me, I'm 5'2" and have dated guys ranging from 6'5" and 5'0".
To both genders:
What is your take on Polyamory?
To be honest, it seems to be polite cuckoldry, if that even makes sense. It appears that it's more common than ever now as an 'open' relationship. It feels 'off', knowing that one guy has two girls or vise-versa (Maybe even more). It seems incredibly balance breaking.
>>16910734
Does she know? Sex drive can vary from one relationship to another, if you have compatibility, your sex drive will align naturally. Like, I have this intense ongoing chemistry with this guy that never leaves, I mean seriously, if your sexually and mentally and intellectually fulfilled and all that deal, then keep it I suppose. Unless you don't feel that and need to move on. Of course great sex is important and you can do marriage later if it suits you both
>>16910734
>sex isn't really the biggest deal, i've had the casual stuff before, but i feel like it's an important part of a serious long term relationship as a sign of real trust and love for your partner.
Why should she trust you when you're pretty much lying about your intentions, have no respect for her beliefs and you're already considering other people you can stick your dick in?
>>16910879
Actually, following on from that, if you feel deeper connections with others, then you're not right together, I was talking about someone you feel the whole thing with, like I was told I shouldn't be having sex before marriage, but that's because there were some religious traditions in my family that made me feel guilt for not conforming to their wishes if you like. Work on it
>>16910873
I personally could never be in a polyamorous relationship, but I have friends in one and it feels about the same as any other relationship except with more people involved. They actually just had a kid.
Here's my thinking: most relationships are doomed to fail, if a polyamorous relationship makes people happy, then who am I to judge?
>>16910889
>Who am I to judge?
>I've never had a strong opinion in my life!
>In fact, my motto is, if it'll make it easier to get along with people, I'll believe it
>I guess you could say I'm just a complete bitch
>My name on my birth certificate is even Cuck McCuckerson
>WHO AM I TO JUDGE?
Fucking faggot
Female here.
>>16909700
Too subjective to answer without pics. Some people look good with it, some don't.
>>16909786
I mean look at it this way, you guys could easily have 60-70 years of life left. If you're gonna stay together that long anyway, why bother rushing? May as well wait until you're 100% sure it's a good idea/have more money to start your lives. No point rushing into something when you're young only to get a messy/expensive divorce a few years later.
>>16910017
I generally try and ease the topic of kink in as casually as possible. A favourite tactic of mine is to ask what kind of porn they like, then wait for them to ask you back. Or, say you had a dirty dream about them in a scenario that includes your kinks and see how they react.
As for anal stuff, yeah I've tried it but like I said, I'm a fairly kinky/sexually open person anyway, so if your girl is fairly vanilla she may not be open, it's subjective.
>>16910159
Super subjective from case to case, but I've found generally: tall, confident, sense of style, good hygiene, has ambition, in good shape (not necessarily bulging with muscle), at least somewhat intelligent.
>>16910223
I tend to assume it's subjective.
>>16910444
eh, thicker hair is more attractive I suppose, but it's definitely not a deal breaker to me.
>>16910873
I'd be open to trying it.
My gf finds sexual things very embarrassing and can't talk about them. She's not religious and neither are her family, but she went to christian schools and most of her close friends are religious. She's never masturbated. She obviously enjoys it when we're physical together, a lot of the time she initiates, but she won't admit to it. I'd like advice on getting past her shame and shyness so we can talk openly about sex and maybe she wouldn't see it as something bad.
>>16910444
Shave it off anon. I really hate the images of me when I first started balding. I refused to accept it and I look terrible in them hiding it. Was also in my early 20s which made it really awkward for women. You dont have to go bald. Just a hair cut low enough for it to look even.
>>16910831
>/adv/
>anyone getting b&
>anyone doing moderation
As long as frogs and feels are on the front page, I call mods a myth
>>16910442
Bumping.
tl;dr girl friend who shot me down and keeps me at a distance gives me shit for flirting with someone else, what do
So here's one:
I just got a job recently, and it was through playing chess with someone in the state library where my Ex-gf first taught me how to play.
It's been 4 months since we've spoken, and we didn't really end in the best of terms, but I'm actually super grateful to her because of this.
Is there any way to sorta catch up with her about this, and just catch up about other stuff in general?
>>16910992
Your attention is a commodity to her. Ignore the bad behavior, reinforce the good behavior with your attention.
>>16910997
Why is it important that you catch up with her about this? Why do you want to speak with her instead of a closer friend?
>>16910873
I could never. I'd just break up if my SO tried to introduce me to this.
I agree. It just seems like polite cheating/cucking. Plus, it feels like a breeding ground for drama, STD's, and hurt feelings. Even if one person is 100% okay with it. I'm sure something could easily just set them off.
I was watching some strange sex reality show. Possibly on netflix. Of a polyamorous relationship in the works. The woman has two boyfriends. The men only have her. She has a baby with one of them. One guy just takes care of the baby most of the day, while she lounges around with the other guy. The guy who cares for the baby said that he and the girl don't have sex anymore, and their relationship is more friend/parent-like than anything else.
Like, that's not polyamory. That's extreme cuckoldry and a cunt getting the best of both worlds. Pretty convinced she is a narcissist.
CALLING ALL GRILLS
>Short Preamble
I am 23, I live at home, and I have nothing going for me. I have a comfortable bank account from lucrative under the table work and am about to graduate from college with a BA in History to no prospects. I just dumped my girlfriend of six months.
>Situation
I am being relentlessly hounded by more than a dozen girls from my high school. Most of them are from Facebook but a few found my phone number online and started texting me. They’re all he-he-ha-ha joking about marriage and children. The joking is absolutely universal among them. A few of them have sent me Facebook relationship requests as “a funny joke haha nothing serious.” They are all severely focused on family, they talk about marriage, kids, and how I’d love their fathers, and one particularly clever Jewish girl said that she’d give me “strong sons.” These are girls that I haven’t seen or spoken to in five years, and I never even dated about half of them in the first place. I moved out of state but that hasn’t stopped any of them, they all say something roughly like, “so I’ll road trip to you haha.” I’m so shaken because I truly don’t deserve this kind of attention, see preamble. I’m only moderately attractive but not attractive enough to inspire this insane outpouring of romantic attention. This all literally happened overnight, I woke up a week ago to my usually dead inbox being bombarded with conversations, and I’ve never seen this level of interest in my entire life. What the fuck is going on?
>>16911006
It's not really important, I just feel a compulsion to tell her. I guess it's because I owe it to her (the job I mean), and it's a pretty good story. I've already told a couple of people and it just seemed weird that she wasn't on the list.
>>16910399
The Bible refers to God as a He and He created man in His image, creating Adam first. However, we refer to Him with the He pronoun only for simplification. None of us can really comprehend God, and He is not bound by something as simple as gender.
>>16911018
>What the fuck is going on?
thy smell money. you DON'T get involved with any of them!! Do not even fuck them! Those are the type of crazy women that poke holes into condoms to get pregnant then pressure you into marriage or atleast collect childsupport from you.
they prob saw that you are single now and somehow know that you have some money.
anyhow, what the fuck is up wit girls wanting to get married at 23? i might be biased, but isn't this a bit too young?
>>16910873
A guy can have two girlfriends and it can work fine if they all treat it like it's NBD. A girl can't have two boyfriends though, I don't mean this as some moral judgment, it just doesn't work in practice. Guys aren't designed to share, just biology.
Anyone who actually uses the term polyamory or makes any kind of ideological thing about it though: they're fucked. It'll never work out for them and they're also retards, not to mention drama fountains. Give 'em a wide berth.
>>16909578
>vascular
Try to find ONE girl that will say: "that dude is so cute, look at his vascularity"
>>16911277
kek
>>16910694
i had to convert this and i actually got out the measuring tape to get any idea of how big 5'5" and 4.5' is.
i can safely say that neither would be a deal breaker
>>16911255
>the type of crazy women that poke holes into condoms
That's the sort of crazy that prompted my breakup in the first place, I am well aware of the tells and habits of crazy chicks.
>somehow know that you have some money
This is my most guarded secret, I want everybody to know me as a broke layabout who lives with his parents so that I don't have to deal with those problems. Again, these are all out-of-state chicks who wouldn't have had any opportunity to find out. It's not even a ton of money, just enough to keep me afloat for a while if I ever want to check out.
>married at 23? i might be biased, but isn't this a bit too young?
Too young for me at least. I want to get married in my early 30s if I can avoid pregnancy until then. All of the girls my age are club sluts so there isn't exactly a healthy pool to choose from anyhow. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with being a club slut, I just wouldn't ever marry one, active or retired.
It's not like I talk to a few girls on Facebook and I'm overthinking things, things went from 0 to 100 without explanation, it is the suddenness of it that shocks me, the "all-at-once" factor. Still very strange.
both:
my bf is always saying sorry for the most unnecessary shit.
he also says thank you ALL THE TIME. i get that he might be awkward and have low selfesteem, but how do i respond to that?
>>16911337
maybe you just are a decent guy and words have spread that you are single again? but that over the top "marriage" stuff is really weird... is it common in your social circle to get married at that age? iow have a lot of the people you went to school with and soon been getting married lately? might be that they feel social pressure to find a husband to "one up" the other girls. might be that they hear their biological clock ticking. however, proceed with caution. if one of the girls catches your genuine attention consider going on a date, otherwise, just act friendly and distant.
>>16911339
he's secretly canadian, I'm sorry
>>16911368
beat me to it. might have to do a genealogy check now.
>>16911339
thank you for sharing
>>16911388
no advice for dubs? come on anon
>>16911350
>maybe you just are a decent guy and words have spread that you are single again?
I'm a known and admitted racist so that doesn't exactly bring in that universal appeal.
>is it common in your social circle to get married at that age?
Yes, people started getting married and having kids immediately after high school. The students were mostly poor to lower middle class though, and the regular middle class kids didn't get married right away. I suppose its about the same as anywhere.
>they hear their biological clock ticking
I've never seen a female deny the biological clock, not once. They've literally mentioned it to my face before, "this is my optimal time, I'm the most fertile right now, this is the best time to have kids, just saying."
>if one of the girls catches your genuine attention consider going on a date
No fucking way, this last relationship was a total catastrophe so I'm going back into recluse mode for long while, and I'll stay there until the grass becomes greener on the other side. Things generally are so much more productive and positive when I'm single, I don't know why I even bother dating, but again, I'm sure I'll miss it after a while. I'll never understand females or dating desu senpai.
>>16911339
>>16911393
He might have just been raised with good manners. He may also just be awkward or have low self esteem, but don't rule out the possibility that his sorrys and thank yous may simply be the result of upbringing and that they may not be indicative of some underlying personality flaw. Again, he could just be awkward, or you could be overthinking it.
Regarding your own responses, consider talking to him about it outright. I've discussed this in the open with several girlfriends who would over-apologized. One answer is that they don't want to seem like they're taking liberties or that they're otherwise unappreciative. Another answer is that they're intimidated by you/are afraid to make you mad, which is certainly a bad sign. This is a broad topic, so the best way to get to the bottom of it would be to come out and mention it to him directly.
Is it weird to tell a girl you like that you are barely friends with that you missed her/she has been missed if you haven't seen her in a few months?
And specifically if you didn't see her recently because of some argument she had with your mutual friends?
>>16911399
>I'm a known and admitted racist so that doesn't exactly bring in that universal appeal.
certainly not...
>"this is my optimal time, I'm the most fertile right now, this is the best time to have kids, just saying."
what the... i never came around SUCH thirsty girls. you must be quiet something to get them to soak their panties like that.
>going back into recluse mode for long while
good call
i honestly have NO idea what is going on with those weird girls you know...
>>16911339
>says thank you all the time
Never 'thanks'? Dump this sissy.
Seriously don't see what's wrong about saying thanks when appropriate.
>you got something for me
>thanks
>did me a solid
>thanks
>had a great night
>thank you for this nice evening
That's how you go places unless you're close to the top.
>>16911432
>come out and mention it to him directly.
yeah, it's surely uppbringing too. but he's also generally shy and anxious, so i thought that would be a logical explanation. i might have jumped to conclusions thought.
but come one: yesterday we ate dinner at my place and he poured some water. i said thank you like a normal human being and he said "thank you too". i mean w-what? this is fucking weird and not even the first time it happened. if he appologizes for unnecessary stuff i do call him out on it and tell him that this was uncalled for or whatever. i don't think i'm intimidating at all. but this
>come out and mention it to him directly
might be the best course of action. i just don't want him to feel even more awkward becuase i mentioned it...
thanks anon.
>>16911445
well, we don't speak english, so there's that. but he does use the more lengthy and formal version, which makes it even weirder. i felt as if we are at a royal dinner or something. we were just eating some cereals, kek
however, rever to this post >>16911458 to see why i think his habits are weird. i'm not making things up here. i say thank you too. i have manners. but he is just seriously overdoing it.
>>16911458
thanks for sharing and sorry for the trouble
>>16911458
You have to ask yourself "is this worth mentioning or would I rather continue on with this secret resentment/curiosity/etc.," and you also have to have the will to actually mention whatever you deem mention-able, and honestly, not everything is always worthy of mention. You mention whatever you declare fit and you accept whatever you aren't willing to mention and thats it. Unacknowledged conflict, innocent or serious, is a huge contributor to resentment and instability.
Basically, either bring it up or ignore it, but make a decision and follow through with it. This is the solution to 99% of all non-subjective relationship issues btw.
>>16911465
>felt like a royal dinner
Wow yeah we have phrases like that in Swedish too. But does he do that all the time or does it seem like a joke? I could see how it's a joke that he's telling straight faced. I got that kind of humor too. Probably a bit lame.
>>16911487
makes perfect sense. nah, it doesn't bother ME but i don't want him to weird out other poeple with this without being aware. i will continue to call him out when he appologizes for not mention-worthy stuff or things that he had no doing in. this isn't healthy in my opinion and i don't want it to become a habit in our relationship. i might turn that excessive sorry thing into a lighthearted joke. maybe i go, "no, no kind sir, the honor is all mine" next time.
>>16911489
no. he's death serious about it. i could tell if he was joking around. he does that very habitually. it seems really ingrained.
but i might try to turn it into an inside joke, see >>16911498
>>16911502
Sounds like a plan. Not a sure thing he'd get that it bothers you though. If he thinks enough about it he should realize but it's not obvious.
>>16911468
oh fuck you anon. the honor is all mine, good sir. sorry for my foul language
>>16911507
i could live with it. i just found it odd. it doesn't really bother me. if he doesn't get it i would not continue joking about it. but it's worth a try.
>>16909495
guy:I am not an atheist, so my soul never dies and Valhalla awaits.
>>16909609
have dick
conclusion: male
conclusion: be masculine and get a girl
further conclusions: be brave, be strong, have a clear mind, care for women etc.
>Really though why do we act like there is any difference in the end
you fucking serious? #equality and #tolerance ? you are brainwashed af
woman and man compliment each other perfectly because they are different.
>>16909750
he >>16909752 is right
>>16909779
>3 years
>what are you a child?
that is called sexual freedom btw, but I dont understand why this anon is sharing his opinion about that like its a fact...
>>16910324
how there can be any nihilists? why dont they suicide?
>>16910399
there are a lot of gods, even gendershifters.
>>16910504
Yes
>>16910544
I like wierd girls, as long you are not sucidical or something its cool
Girls: How do I get my girlfriend to not be on her phone so much? She's on it for literally 7 hours a day, and I'm growing concerned. Should I leave her alone, or do something?
>>16911599
Bump need an answer to this
>>16911599
yeah, what is she doing on that phone? is she still on when you are around?
why does it take me so much effort to text back? why do i hate it so much? what the hell is my problem?
>>16911599
Do something fun together, and ask her to not bring her phone with her.
Girls: Why do you follow/stay with men that treat you like shit?
>>16911811
Maybe they don't exactly treat us like shit.
We tend to just complain about our partners. I don't know the nice things that my friend's boyfriends did for them, I know every bad thing they did. And everyone does stupid shit sometimes.
So I know that my best friend's boyfriend is indecisive and overly attached to his mom and wants to fuck all the time, but before we met I didn't know how smart, funny and sweet he was.
Or maybe we think we could change them. Maybe we love them too much to let them go. Maybe they're interesting, like if I had to choose between a nice but boring guy and an interesting asshole, I'd pick the second.
>>16911811
Why do you treat girls like shit?
>>16911854
I don't. That's why I've always been told"your'rs doing it wrong"
>>16909495
Guy here. All the time. Not so much if I'll be remembered but more so if there is anything after death. Not heaven but any sort of conciseness.
Females: As a guy, does paying for porn permanently stain my soul to the point of undateability? I'm talking about like $10 for a ten minute video.
>>16911919
Are you commissioning it or some shit?
>>16911936
Nope, not commissioning it.
In his movies Adam Sandler is always a chick magnet who pulls in 10/10s at least once a week. So girls, how attractive is he really?
To girls (or guys who know what they're doing):
Why can't I find a girl who hasn't been with tons of guys before? Do virgin qts exist or are they myth?
>>16911987
Sure they exist. They're just uncommon. Be patient.
I mean, really, don't you see how the one quality that's guaranteed to scare off an inexperienced girl is an impatient guy?
>>16911987
Catholic girls don't usually have a ton of boyfriends when they are in their 20s.
>don't give me anti religious bs, do you want a virgin/near virgin or not?
