>she has just become more active

How, though? Like does she actually do substantial things to help these causes, or does she just talk about it all the time and scold people for making "offensive" comments?

>>16905592
Both. She goes to more events hosted by groups, asks me to come along, etc.
Shit comes up every day.

>>16905598

Try to work out some kind of compromise, maybe. Agree to go to an event with her every now and then, if she agrees to try not to "bring it home with her" and let politics wreck the mood when you're trying to spend time with her.

I mean, really at the end of the day it's just usual relationship stuff. Your partner has interests that you don't really care about, you go along with it a little bit just for the sake of sharing with them, and ideally they do the same for you

>>16905613
While we do share a lot of other hobbies, my main concerns are that
A) this is her main passion
B) if I tried to discuss it less, she may take it as an attack on her identity.

I'll try it anyway. What have I got to lose?

>>16905618

>she may take it as an attack on her identity

I mean, you're not obligated to devote your life to politics. And you're not obligated to agree with her on everything. If she can't be reasonable about that, that's a problem

>>16905598

>She goes to more events hosted by groups

So that's a "no" to the question "does she actually do substantial things to help these causes," lol

>>16905579
She's been soiled, OP. The deeper she goes, the more extreme her unreasonable hatred of men will become. Run while you still can.