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Who's the one to blame?
2016-03-09 21:01:45 Post No. 16896029
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Who's the one to blame?
Anonymous
2016-03-09 21:01:45
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Hi /adv/, that's how situation looks like:
I know this guy for ~7 years, commute together to the same university. We have similar topics. Everything looks ok, but there's one problem: I have a feeling that from 1-2 years everytime I say something about - he have to reply like:
>No, it's bullshit
>What? No, definitely
>I would do it like this (Ok, this one isn't that bad in comparison to those two above)
Like I'm the one that is always wrong, and he knows truth about everything. I'm not envy about him, since it's obvious that he's more clever than I am. At least I think so.
Another problem is, that I can't hold a normal conversation with people - I can't OBJECTIVELY say if something is truth or false.
I can't say for how long if he was always like that or not, I simply don't remember. (I want to add, that for some time I had a depression-like state, feeling that I'm not that intelligent like ppl think I am. I often make logical mistakes in conversation, or have a problem with focus on talk. Everyday I try to improve my skills, but sadly - I still don't see any effects.)
(Mostly I'm open for critic, I can laugh from myself, but this one guy makes me irritated.)
>Inb4 throw him out of his life
It's not possible, because as I said - we are in university together, on the same year - also he helped me with some things, and in this case: I'm rather the one who slows him sometimes down. Also, I couldn't not face him there, since in my group there are too few people to avoid him.
Also, from some time we work in the same company. At first, we were commuting together with friend from previous school, which we both know. That second guy clearly doesn't like me, but I didn't do anything wrong to him. The problem appeared after one month, I heard everyday their talk about job, like:
>Yeah, I did X and Y
>I did A but something was wrong with B, so I do it tomorrow
>AND WHAT DO YOU COMPLETED TODAY, ANON?
So, Is it me being fucked up, or he is toxic?
