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I need advice. My situation is shit.

I don't know what to do anymore at this point.

>live in apartment with girlfriend, three other "friends"(couple and guy), and recently made friend named Z
>apartment is well above affordable range (couple girl's pick)
>two dogs in apartment. Couple claims them.
>dogs arent trained for shit
>everything has been pissed on at least once
>dogs are never taken out and shit everywhere
>couple gets pissed when nobody takes dogs out
>they dont either

>couple girl is literal black hole of a cunt
>everyone, including couple guy, is tired of her shit
>constantly spreads rumors and shit
>gets pissed when she isnt center of attention

>couple guy has inflated ego because of couple girl
>all around okay guy before they were dating
>couple guy is brainwashed shithead now following couple girl's bidding

>guy is literal couch potato
>guy and couple girl siblings
>guy does nothing but sit on couch and plays COD while complaining about how shit COD is
>guy has college degree
>only one out of all of us to actually have degree
>continuously bitches about bills
>continuously bitches about not having gf
>continuously bitches about job
>continuously bitches about being hungry
>bitches about everything while sitting on couch for entirety of time at house

>Z is addicted to weed
>like actually
>Z salivates when he talks about weed
>pretty ok guy besides that
>Z isnt perfect, but he tries

heres where shit gets worse.

>Z is tired of not being able to help with bills
>Z asks for help from house to find job
>Couple girl promises to get him in at restaurant she works at
>gf works at same restaurant
>gf gets wind from manager that couple girl told the manager to never hire him
>couple and guy are planning on kicking Z out
>undoubtedly couple girl's idea
>couple guy brainwashed into thinking Z is devil by couple girl
>guy doesnt like Z all that much (theres backstory to it) but on the "Kick Z" bandwagon because Z called guy out on his shit once.
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>>16884003

Move out
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Cont.

>Previously in december, Z had job in far-as-fuck area
>get up every morning at 6 to drive Z to work while I was out of work
>Help him earn enough to get phone
>Z spends first few checks paying back debts he owed to people from years ago, including reimbursing me for gas
>Couple doesnt like him
>Once, Z walked into couple's room to locate grinder for weed
>Granted, was bad, but he just was looking for the grinder
>couple girl claims that she feels unsafe because Z could "take advantage of her while she slept"
>At the time, both Z and his girlfriend were living here
>After incident, Couple guy labels Z an addict because he smokes resin
>not even 3 months before this, couple guy was smoking resin
>Couple dehumanize Z whenever they talk to him
>Z trusts no one but me and gf

>Couple (mostly couple girl) often talks shit about everyone
>At time, was in process of buying car from couple guy
>couple avoids everyone and stays in their room
>couple specifically calls gf to talk to her about me
>this is a common occurrence
>Couple guy once threatened to take car back because "I sassed him"
>at time, I worked two jobs and was the only person in the house with all bills paid off
>couple guy quit work for three months to sit on his ass
>couple guy regularly gets money from his mom, a full year after moving out, talking about how horrible she is

>a while ago, paid my way through bartending school
>never pursue due to fear of rejection etc.
>guy complains that hes the only mature person in the house
>guy makes snide remark about how i have a license but dont do shit with it
>i simply look at him
>he stays quiet the rest of the night
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>>16884033

Again,

Move out
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>>16884005
Trying to, but even without the other bills rent is 1500$ and none of us make more than 9 an hour

also, me and gf have to fend for ourselves because everyones too retarded to work together
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>>16884039
Have you ever heard of something called living within your means?
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>>16884051

>>16884003
>apartment is well above affordable range (couple girl's pick)

me and my gf alone are doing better than the house combined.
it doesnt help that we don't know if they continuously go into our room when we're gone.
ive already had portions of my rent money stolen twice (most likely by couple girl)
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>>16884063
Tf man, why don't you call her out for her shit man
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>>16884063
I don't understand how that answers what I said. Sure, she picked it, but no one said you have to live with them. Nothing's stopping you from living somewhere that you can actually afford. If you're so much better off than they are, you can afford to live elsewhere with decent roommates.
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>>16884074
shes fragile as shit, her boyfriend is fragile as shit, the brother is dumb as shit, but everyones gonna gang up on me and kick me (and my gf) out.

theyve talked about it before.
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>>16884090
Then find different roommates and live somewhere else.

That's your only option.
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>>16884093
we have a plan to move out just us, but itll take some time.

there was another plan to say fuck it and move to the other side of the country, but my mom, and dogs, are sick, so i cant go extreme distances
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>>16884087
the monthly bills slows progress to a crawl. that and everyday expenses like food, toiletries, etc.

only reason im even here cause i left my moms house cause She was being batshit, but even that was better than this

Cant go back to being with my mom either bcause of my dogs (theyre territorial) and my mom doesnt want my gf around while shes sick (even though we could cut her bills in half. her apartment is 2 bed)
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>>16884109
Then what advice do you want from us?

Every option we give you you come up with bullshit reasons why that won't work.
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>>16884116
I agree with >>16884122. What the fuck do you want us to tell you?
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So, let me get this straight;

>hate room mates
>might be stealing from you
>dogs shit and piss everywhere
>can't go back to parents because of dogs
>won't move out because it's too expensive

Well you've got a few options:

1: man the fuck up, talk to your housemates
2: move. The. Fuck. Out
3: temporally move back in with your mum, gf can go elsewhere on a temp basis Whilst you save for your own place
4: stay where you are, moan about it on 4chan whilst you search for dickgirls
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