>>16856689
>not too date-ey
wtf are your intentions? if youre looking for a relationship you need to start acting like it son
if you talk casually and a few times a month she is not going to see you as a partner.
that said, seek out things to do in your city, any recreational activity will work. museum, parks, beach, ice skating, roller blading, mini-golf, etc.
at the end of the day, you can invite her back to your place, watch a movie/show and cuddle, this way youre making it obv youre not trying to be her friend

>>16856697
Well I kinda thought the third date would be the one where it's like "dating". That was my perception anyway. Like I said, I'm 18 and I've literally never dated besides taking a girl to a movie once. I also live in a pretty small area of towns with no cool activities nearby. I was thinking maybe taking her to the boardwalk at night and getting food possibly? Or is that too boring /similar to last time?

Visit a zoo or a museum, if she likes that kind of stuff and get some food or coffee afterwards is also a possibility. Perhaps go watch a movie.
You could go for a picnic or go to the beach together, take a walk in the woods.
It really comes down to what you like to do and what she likes to do.

>>16856697
This. If you keep ignoring your intentioms and acting like a friend is how you get frienzoned.

>>16856697
>>16857040
Ok noted, I'll be more forward then. I'm still thinking the boardwalk sounds like a good idea because that's pretty much all there is to do nearby. And then we could go to my / her place or something.

Miniature golf

>>16856689
Take her to the breastriary. In Nippopolis.