So my parents are getting a divorce, and my Mom is telling me shit about my Dad that she can't prove, and I don't know who to trust anymore. My brother and I don't know what to do, and my parents are letting us pick who we want to live with. Any thoughts?
Well, in the end, the only thing that's going to matter are your and your brother's personal opinion of them.
But as a general rule, be wary of the one that is actively trying to slander the other person : In this case, your mom.
Does your dad also tries to make you distrust your mom, or does he keep quiet ?
Both my parents slander each other post-separation. They say awful things about each other but I chose to ignore everything they said, and I live with my mom because of my own personal experience she is the more respectful of the two.
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Well then, it seems like you might already have made your choice.
And your brother, did he took the same decision for the same reason ?
