I want to break up with my gf. She's so sweet and kind,

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2016-02-27 19:07:15 Post No. 16854670
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Anonymous 2016-02-27 19:07:15 Post No. 16854670 [Report]

I want to break up with my gf.
She's so sweet and kind, joy and funny, but quite childish.
She's never done anything bad to me. But I don't want to be his boyfriend anymore. I want to break free and focus on other things I can't do with her. We're pretty different. I think she will be a problem in the future (or I will be). Anyways...
How do I do? I don't know what to say. I'm a coward. I don't want to hurt her, but I want to focus on me and be happy.

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Anonymous 2016-02-27 19:11:50 Post No.16854680
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Anonymous 2016-02-27 19:11:50 Post No.16854680 [Report]

>>16854670
Why do you not see her in your future?

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Anonymous 2016-02-27 19:18:09 Post No.16854689
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Anonymous 2016-02-27 19:18:09 Post No.16854689 [Report]

>>16854680
Because our diferrences. She's doesn't have any aspirations, she's not organized at all, she's just having fun. If I would like to stay with someone, it would be near and adult and responsible person. I really enjoy my time with her, but not all my time is holidays.

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Anonymous 2016-02-27 20:22:06 Post No.16854891
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Anonymous 2016-02-27 20:22:06 Post No.16854891 [Report]

>>16854670
How long have you been together for? Also have you talked to her about this? If not it's probably a good thing to do so, because maybe she can have the capacity to change and be better (if she is willing to).

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Anonymous 2016-02-27 22:13:53 Post No.16855209
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Anonymous 2016-02-27 22:13:53 Post No.16855209 [Report]

>>16854891
We've been together for 19 months.
I think I'll talk to her about that without contemplating the breaking up option. Thank you.