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Dwelling on the past, how do you cope?
2016-02-11 18:39:44 Post No. 16795340
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Dwelling on the past, how do you cope?
Anonymous
2016-02-11 18:39:44
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Hi /adv/ I was wondering if you could help me.
I have an issue that I've been suffering with for a long time.
The problem I have is that I think too much about mistakes I have made in the past.
If I make a mistake, I will zone in on it and dwell on it. Thinking of how I went wrong in this way and that way.
I will try and resolve and undo anything I feel I have done wrong but I will never feel 'complete' so to speak. At least not for a long time.
Sometimes there are things that can't be undone, and they sting the most.
The things I dwell on aren't something specific which I can't get over. I can generally combat the larger things in life as I feel there is more to learn.
Really it's the little things that everyone goes through on a daily basis that I struggle with.
Losing money, forgetting something, saying the wrong thing at the wrong time, making a bad impression, things like that tend to build up.
I will say though my main concern is money. A struggle we all have sometimes, I understand that.
The problem I personally have is that if I go and lose some money for whatever reason it will pain me mentally.
I sometimes feel like money is the only thing holding me back in life (and the reality is, it may be)
How do you guys cope with these feelings?
