>>16783224
>How do you deal with humilitating need to reach out and apologise and beg them to take you back?

Block/unfriend them on all social media. Go running, play video games, watch tv, see other friends.

Then just wait

>>16783252
How long do you reckon it lasts?

Ask them to take you back. People always seem to suggest blocking, but that's just hurtful and unnecessary

>>16783269

awhile. there is no time limit. emotions cant be measured. everyone has rules. half as long as the relationship, one drink for every time you fucked, etc.

its all just BS to say, awhile. just focus on life, realize she isnt the center of it, and if she WAS its time to build a life that centers on you.

>>16783277
I would, but isn't it pathetic? I told them myself to gtfo from my life because they were shitty friends but now I can't deal.

>>16783224

It sucks man, I'm right there with you. One of my long term best friends dropped me because he doesn't like another guy I associate with, and this has been the issue for nearly a year. It's a very "him or me" situation (which is kinda gay, let's be honest), but it doesn't hurt any less that I don't get to be a part of his family's life, our friend group is splintered beyond repair, and it's just awful.

I wish I could tell you how long it lasts, but I don't know yet.

>>16783269
It can last a fucking long time, especially if you keep re-opening the wound.

I was hung up about a girl when I was 18, messed up and she didn't want to talk to me. I couldn't stop thinking about her for years. Mostly cause I kept looking at her posts and trying to reach out to her.

I'm 21 now, and I'm completely over it. It would have happened sooner if I just cut her out entirely.

When this happened to me, I didn't get over it. I just need him back

>>16783369
and did you reach out?

>>16783363
it's not about romantic thing, I'm a female and the guy is my friend. I have other friends as well but I miss him anyways