I'm pretty sure the initial first series of this were advice threads related to dealing with obsessive and posessive tendencies. Talking about them in an anonymous relaxed atmosphere and all that.
Has /adv/ ever dealt with 'yandere' or 'crazy'? What are your experiences or tips?
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I'd be okay with an obsessive girl as long as she's a virgin and doesn't kill anyone. It doesn't really bother me if she is needy.
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>yandere
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I just got friendzoned into oblivion
So much so that it upgraded me from yandere stalker to friend
I have no idea what to do
>>16771705
You're probably a fedora, but believe me, being needy in a long term relationship is reaaally annoying.
>>16771726
What's the big deal?
>>16771726
I'm actually kind of the opposite of needy, just really obsessive.
That might actually be why he started liking someone else.
I want to get over him but I rarely ever start liking anyone in the first place
Kinda going through this now, I have never got much attention from girls but I have been texting this one girl like crazy. I started thinking she might have a romantic interest in me because we text so much and have so much in common. Although she likes to go out with me I can tell she doesn't want anything more than just friends.
Hurts knowing that when she finds some guy she'll drop me like nothing so I don't know what to do. I really like texting her and talking with her.
>>16771752
Don't stay in a friendzone if you actively want more. It's unfair towards the both of you.
This girl I was kinda with is bi-polar. At least she's been diagnosed with it now, but back when we were dating and stuff at age 16 I didn't know, but I should have. Nearly lost my best friend and I think myself. She was academically successful so people just put off her manic tendencies as stress. It's a bit of a stretch to the traditional yandere meaning but the things she did still keep me up at night. Worse thing is I think it rubbed off on me for the amount of shit I defended her for.
If you think wanting a girl who is 'yandere' or just plain crazy/insane is hot, don't. It's horrible.
>>16772083
I know, but I value her as a friend so much. I'm not sure if I can learn to control my feelings and stay in touch with her or if I'm going to be too hurt by her finding someone else eventually.
I haven't been hard rejected by her so there's still that lingering hope I feel I need to kill off. She accepts dates with me but doesn't reciprocate interest past platonic.
>>16772114
Sounds like you're going to be making a choice sooner or later, don't let it take your views off the big picture
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