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Please help me, guys! Hurry

I'm trying to get out of an abusive relationship, RIGHT NOW.

She prevents me from doing what I want to and from seeing my friends. She hits me when she gets angry. She pushed one of my best friends out of my life. She has access to my facebook, skype, and steam.

I don't want this anymore, I want to be myself, I want to be happy. I just tried to break up with her, I said that we were no longer together and that she should leave me alone, I just changed all of my passwords. I've turned off my phone and communications since I don't want to talk to her, but I think she's on her way here right now (she doesn't live too far away).

I'm scared /adv/, what do I do?
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Just don't let her in, don't respond to her, if she starts going crazy threaten to call the cops, if she still won't leave then call the cops.
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>>16681613
Keep a bitch in line
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>>16681613
have some fucking backbone and enjoy your life
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Jesus, OP, did you do it over the phone?

Anyway, lock the door, tell her to leave and if she keeps it up, threaten to call the cops. If she still doesn't leave, call the cops. It's important that you avt on your threats!
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"We are no longer in a relationship. I would like you to leave. If you refuse, I will be calling the police." (close door in face)
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>>16681792
Or, yell that through the door, if you're afraid she'll hurt you or push her way in.
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call the cops dude
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>>16681735

did he have a choise? this girl is abusive OP has every reason to play safe...

and OP you can handle this, there are restraining orders you know
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>>16681613
Like the others said, call the cops if she escalates it. That way you'll have a police report on the situation, and you'll also be able to file a restraining order if necessary.

Stay safe and don't open the door. Also don't insult her or give her anything she can use to say you provoked her.

Also maybe consider moving if that's financially feasible.
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>>16681613
Hey bro. I just want to add to what theyve been saying. Do not take her back. No matter how sorry she says she is. Call the cops and explain your situation and dont let anyone tell you its ot abuse. Sometimes cops are like that, if you have to file charges against then file them. Most men who are in abusive relationships never speak out about the issue so ure very brave to admit that.
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