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LDR/Online "how to be sexy" advice needed
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Guys, this girl I've been talking to online, who I have met before IRL sent me a picture, and she looks sooo sexy it in. The problem is, I don't know how to be sexy through pictures and stuff. I don't want to send a dick pic, because it's not that level yet. But I just don't know how to take sexy pictures. Help

Picture somewhat related, but not her
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It's awkward sending pictures of your stupid face smiling. Unless you have a great body, you can't look sexy in standard pictures as a guy.
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>>16673466
Make it that level by sending a dick pic.

Or just ask her for more.
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>>16673477

That's how I feel right now, I was hoping someone could give me tips. But fuck, I guess you are right
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>>16673528
take pictures that don't actually show your dick full on, just tease her. This shit is easy as fuck man
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Reminder that women have a different definition of sexy pics than men.

I hate to use reddit, but it's a good resource.

Take photos like these, if you can.

https://www.reddit.com/r/LadyBoners/top/?sort=top&t=all
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>>16673466
Romantic and sexy in the same picture. Take a pic of yourself like this..
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>>16673762
got a good looking body? if yes then its ezay if not then no clue mate
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>>16673466

Sned that bitch my picture. Attchd.
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>>16673815
>https://www.reddit.com/r/LadyBoners/top/?sort=top&t=all

jfc the Canadian bobsled team
Straight? can you find guys like that in the states?
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men don't have to be sensual/sexy
don't be a faggot OP
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>>16673847
Are you vampires?
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>>16673896

We don't? So I shouldn't send her pictures in return when she sends me some?
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>>16673923
sure send pictures back, but any attempt at some faggot posting on an American Samoan advice table to be a 'sexy man' in images on his shitty blackberry is going to be a disaster.
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>>16673949

So should I just send normal pics of me smiling or some shit then? I'm a autist with this stuff, I literally have no idea
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>>16673949

Or they don't have to take anyone's advice and see how women and likely gay men voted anonymously and independently to see which pictures arouse the most interest based off of the most votes.

>>16673815

Oh, and sexy pictures of me for women revolve around men playing a sexy role, vs women who just show off their body.
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>>16673957
It's all trial and error boy. You should focus on what your goals are with this female and achieve them as fast as possible. You will likely fuck up, become disinterested, or some other variable with this woman. It's alright, she's your "practice gf". I went from talking to zero girls then at 16 I periodically talked to random bitches on the internet, now with what I learned from those I can easily womanize bitches on tinder. Though it's a harsh game I play, as now a woman would need to be truly unique for me to pursue her for anything except sex.

I'm telling you to stop playing games and meet up with this girl so you can either bomb or have sex. Smiling pictures will get you nowhere. Your autism prevents you from learning from the mistakes of others (and yourself a lot of the time I imagine) so keep failing until you succeed due to probability or skill. Determine goals, meet goals.
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>>16673949
Yes, better to be suggestive. Just pictures of skin, possibly closeups of your hand around your dick, but only showing girth, not length. The less revealing the better.

In addition to this, I'd like to lead your attention to the fact that
>men respond to visuals
>women respond to ideas

Protip: You should write her sexy stuff. Things you'd like to do to her, but in a sensual way, meaning using words like soft, warm, hot, pulsating, sweaty, wet, hard, long, deep. A lot of adjectives, in other words.

Not so much
>Erm, I want to put my dick inside you..?
But rather
>I can't wait to stroke myself against your firm thighs, sensing your pulsating skin against me as I discover how warm and wet you are, letting you feel me forcing my full length deep inside you, slowly pushing up against you, rhythmically pushing you down against the mattress...

But you should warm her up before you get to this level, by writing fantasies for her that would lead up to it.
>I can imagine you lying on my bed, feeling my weight on you as I rub your back after a long day.
>I bet you got really soft skin, don't you?
>Her answer
>Would you want me to find out? I'd like to oil you up with my warm hands, feeling the small of your back against my strong palms.
>Etc.

>Inb4 cringeworthy
Last time I wrote a girl stuff like this she told me I got her even more wet than when I went down on her one week prior, no images needed. Women love erotic novels for a reason. It's the female equivalent of visually explicit porn.
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>>16673466
dont try so hard. see some fashion photos and see what fits your way
bUrself, chicks love it ;^)
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>>16674019

Quoted for Truth.

To practice this, just find an anonymous chat groups like omegle. It's the only way to get better quickly, outside of getting lots of girls numbers, which can be a pain in the butt.
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Men's confidence is what's sexy.
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>>16674019
This guy knows what's up. I'm a girl, and that's on point. Also, some tips: rolled up shirt sleeves are sexy as fuck. Your abdomen, or your back, if you're fit are nice too. Specially if you have notizable navel bones. Don't full on smile, tease.
Other than that, learn to write sexy and you'll never need a pic
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