Is there a way to escape
friendzone when you are a girl?
Blow them.
You can't make someone see you differently.
>>16624241
So you told him you would like to pursue a serious relationship with him and he told you he just wants to be friends?
>>16624241
"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pW24ruidvU"
>>16624257
Yeah
Well, it was more complicated than that but yeah
>>16624312
Then his answer was no and the only escape is to cut ties cold turkey. Your intention was romantic not platonic so why are you engaging with him in the latter?
>>16624241
we need the exact details
how long have you known eachother, how did you get into the friendzone, nature of your relationship, are they dating anyone else
>>16624247
possible solution
>>16624248
don't ever listen to one sided pessimism regarding subjection attraction like this
>>16624312
explain once again
also what type of relationship do you want fwb? just sex? bf gf? marriage?
>>16624335
cold turkey never works with dudes if he gets thirsty he might call you,
getting dudes drunk helps and showing common interest
Not even with this: http://www.xvideos.com/video10201932/casual_teen_sex_-_the_art_redtube_of_tube8_seducing_xvideos_a_teeny_teen-porn
>>16624363
Known each other for 4 years. Close friends, he's kinda clingy, almost always messages me first. He asked me out like 3 or 4 times at the beginning of our friendship, but bailed out last minute. We hanged out twice one on one but idk I assumed that's just two buddy hanging out. When I told him last year I'm in love with him he was devastated and said sorry but he has a girl he's interested in (i think that was a lie but w/e) but he wanted badly to stay friends
anyway i went cold turkey last june, lasted few months and after that i got drunk in september and called him but we didn't really talk. i apologised next day wanting to carry out no contact but he started doing weird shit (including me into group convos, adding my dad on fb, idk) so i messaged him and we kinda came back to being friends
He's been single this whole time
>>16624392
Known eachother for 1 hour.
>>16624247
I don't recommend this. Once he's turned you down, throwing yourself at him will just come off as needy and desperate. If he's actually attracted to that, he's not someone you want to spend your time on anyway.
>>16624363
>cold turkey never works with dudes if he gets thirsty he might call you
I've been friendzoned more than once and this has never happened to me. Sample size etc, I know...just saying.
>>16624394
If you can handle being friends with him, give it a try if you want. If you don't want to, then unfortunately you gotta break orbit and move on.
My question for you is, when he turned you down, why didn't you accept his answer at face value?
>>16624411
What do you mean face value?
I tried to be friends with him but it gets tiring because of my underlying crush no matter how neutral i try to be, i end up getting smitten with him over and over again
And i mean breaking orbit is not that easy when he does everything he can to keep me there
>>16624444
What I mean is, why are you still hoping to break out of the friendzone after he told you no?
Or are you just looking for a way to disconnect from him entirely?
>>16624444
Then just tell him, in person, that you wanted to be more than friends and he rejected you so you want to end this charade and cut contact.
>>16624467
At that point I frankly don't care. I just want to be able to get away from it i think
>>16624473
Thing is, i won't see him for next 2 months so I suppose I'll have to wait it out
>>16624494
Then ignore all attempts for him to contact you. And talk to your dad about the facebook thing, let him know that you are not interested in being friends with this guy anymore. Leave it up to him whether to unfriend the guy, it's his fb, but at least let him know so hopefully there will be less online awkwardness.
Get yourself a hot body
hit the gym, get a nice ass.
She'll probably look at you differently one day perhaps, but you'll probably have other men looking at you by then
>>16624507
*He'll
sorry typo
>>16624504
This thing with my dad is sorted out (messaged him when i noticed that and he said it's by an accident and removed my dad so its all good)
>>16624507
Yeah but it will take months till you can see a difference. Plan doing that anyway tho but i need to sort this mess sooner. Not gonna wait till my butt is nicer to do that
