I think my confidence correlates with how my hair looks.
If my hair looks like shit, I feel like shit, but if it's looking great, then I'm more confident and I think people can notice it. My hair essentially makes or breaks my confidence.
Is there a way to fix this? I can get regular haircuts, but it's expensive and my barber doesn't always get my haircut right which makes me feel like shit again.
Wear a hat.
>>16614714
That guy does have cool hair. Dresses like a retired gay man though.
>>16614719
Hats look like shit on me, must be my face shape.
I know what you mean. I've been bald for a little over a year because of male pattern baldness so... yeah I guess that was about the time I lost the last shreds of confidence I had
>>16614714
Try remembering how you do your hair when you're feeling great vs how you do your hair when you're feeling like crap. Remember what you do to your hair when you feel good and do that every day so it can be a normal habit.
Also, if the appearance of your hair pretty much decides whether or not you're confident or even feel good, you've got some insecurities you need to work out. Confidence shouldn't come from hair alone. It should come from inside, you know like your personality and your outlook. The world isn't going to blow up or become marginally worse if your hair doesn't happen to look good every day (everyone gets bad hair days). What will make you feel like things suck is if you let the appearance of your hair dictate your level of confidence. A negative outlook and attitude usually draws more negativity into your life. Not saying being positive all the time will get you a very positive life because sometimes shit just happens, but you know what I mean. Stop focusing on the hair so much and focus on yourself.
I used to have the same problem. The solution is when you look at the mirror dont look at your hair just look into your eyes. And say "Im cute Im cute Im cute" trust me
