>Be 24 yo girl
>Go to a club yesterday
>Drink a lot, take a lot of drugs
>Somehow end up making out with this cute shy 22 yo guy
>Invite him to my place
>Drugs wear off, attraction suddenly dies
>I suddenly have no wish to touch him with a 10 foot pole
>I fall asleep, he goes home
>He has been texting me non stop today
How the fuck do I fix this without breaking this guy's heart ? He seems to think we were going to date or something.
Also don't call me a druggie whore. I know I'm a druggie whore.
I wonder if you could fixnit by telling him you are a druggie whore ?
>>16610392
He knows.
>>16610376
>don't call me a druggie whore. I know I'm a druggie whore.
typical druggie whore
>>16610395
Well you're gonna have to just tell him that you don't find him attractive.
>>16610376
Tell him more or less what you just posted.
He obviously won't be happy, but he'll appreciate the honesty and it will expedite the process of recovery from rejection.
Shit, either tell him you're not attracted to him or drug up and fuck his brains out. Not rocket surgery...
Something like "hello, you. I know we had a good time the other day, but I was kinda high and now that I'm not high any more I can see that I'm just not that into you. Sorry if you thought this was going to be something more, but it's not going to be. I don't want to lead you on as I know you're a great guy and you don't deserve that, so I'm being honest here. Move on, be happy. I'm glad we met, but you need to let go and move on. Good luck"
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Being anything less than honest is disrespectful, and cruel. If he gets hurt that's his own fault for building futures in his mind. Be honest, be dignified. He deserves it, and then you'll be free.
>>16610376
Just tell him that you're not interested
Fuck his feelings. If you go out and hook up, you shouldn't be expecting every single girl to text you back.
>>16610376
If you want to lie, say that your involved with someone else and that the drugs and alcohol impaired your judgement and you made a mistake and that while you still find him attractive, you cant do anything, so its probably best to just leave it be as if nothing happened and just cut contact.
At least it wont destroy the guy. a white lie never hurt anyone.