I haven't talked to my S/O in a few days, and not even for Christmas. We've been texting each other but I miss them a lot. They told me they were sick and antisocial and didn't want to talk but this is really worrying me a lot.
I've been meaning to give them a present but I wanted to do it through a Skype call too but they said we might not even talk today.
I feel so paranoid they don't like me anymore and they are just avoiding me.. Should I call them right now or give them space?
>>16606676
If they want to be alone leave them alone.
>>16606676
follow him
Maybe Christmas is just a hard time for them? I know it can be tough cause you want to make them feel better but some people just need their space I guess. On the bright side - at least they're texting you and not shutting you out completely.
>>16606676
Antisocial guy here,
Judging from your gender ambiguity, I'd say you're a woman. Don't worry about it, the way I see it is;
>he's completely wasted, and worried about saying the wrong thing - which means h cares about you.
>He just needs his space - his issue, not yours. He still wants you to be with him, just not 24/7.
>, or he simple is busy.
Look OP, if it is the worst case scenario, there is shit all you can do about it -0 so it's completely useless to worry.
But if they're as antisocial as me, the christmassy season, filling with family and peers is probably a stressful and exhausting time for them. They want there space because they know they're stressed - they don't want you to see them at their worst - which means they care.
OP, relax, you've got nothin' to worry about, and even if you do - you can't change it, so stressing is a waste of your own damned time,
Fucking captchas and their sea-view cliffs reminding me of old times on holiday - fuck, I'm wasted but shit... Goddamn I wish I could go back in time.
