So , I like to write erotica fiction stories I guess they would be called?
>I suppose it was a mistake to tell my GF I did so , but I did mention it barely when we were on the subject of stuff like that .
> She wanted to see them ( cause some involved her) , but I insisted it wouldn't turn her on . Maybe she thought it was cute to , but today she snuck into my pc and read 'em. Next thing I know she's texting me , callinge a psycho and a sicko and threatened to call the police.
> She quickly said she wasn't calling the police but we REALLY needed to talk .
Im not entirely sure how to approach her when she gets home , but I'm more upset that she invaded my privacy .
Depending on the content, you probably are a psycho and a sicko and need the police called on you.
If it's as fucked up as it must have been for her to say that, I'd just say you're fucked.
What were they about OP? This is important to tell if she's over reacting or if you really do need to talk.
>>16604713
Well I guess its bondage? Stuff like me choking her or cutting her with a knife and licking up the blood. I do recall one was her cutting herself open with a knife and pulling out her entrails. It's just fantasies though, just stuff for me to masturbate to.
>>16604723
And you can't see why she said the things she did?
>>16604723
That's fucked up. You basically have stories about you murdering your gf. I'd want to call the cops too. Keep this kind of shit to yourself jesus christ.
>>16604725
I get it is a bit off color but it's just a fantasy , bondage stuff.
>>16604728
I DID. Until she looked at stuff that was none of her business. No I dont fantasize about killing her , just making her bleed or harming her.
>>16604730
I hope you're prepared to be single again
>>16604741
She knows I love her and id never hurt her. Literally everything was fine until this.
>>16604723
Yeah, you should go to an insane asylum.
>>16604749
>She knows I love her and id never hurt her
And now she's doubting everything she thought. I wouldn't blame her for dumping you, those are some fucked up fantasies you have. You're not the person she thought you were.
>>16604761
Do you guys not understand what a fantasy is???? People have fantasies they do not act on which I do. I will continue to treat her the same el way I have for the past 2 years... This shouldn't change anything we can just forget about it and put it behind us.
>>16604771
A fantasy is something you WANT to do you fucking moron.
>>16604723
>>16604707
>>I suppose it was a mistake to tell my GF I did so
So you can either explain to her that it's in the context of storytelling, and that you hope to market this as erotica and smut fiction on the internet to people who are into that sort of thing--which is actually fairly lucrative and where I thought you were originally going with this incredibly retarded post--or you can explain to her that you have somewhat unorthodox fetishes, and wouldn't actually do anything like that to anybody.
But realistically, you pretty much lost a girlfriend because of your weird self-insert porn. She sounds like she's not exactly open to the thought of bloodplay or other extreme kinks, so never trust anybody else with your PC again, prepare to be single again, and pray that she doesn't tell your friends about your shit.
>>16604771
>>Do you guys not understand what a fantasy is
Clearly your ex doesn't.
>>16604707
dat hyperbeast, anon
>>16604771
We know what a fantasy is. But we're not the ones you have to convince, she is. And regardless, yours are very extreme and I would be just as scared for my safety as she is
>>16604781
If she does , I can say she's lying , she has no proof. People would never think I'm ito that, and I'm a very honest guy, at least people think I am.
>>16604805
What, and you'll tell people she just dumped you for no reason out of the blue? Do you really think people would believe that over her? And what if she's made copies just in case?
>>16604818
Anyone can type a text document.
>>16604824
So? How is "she made this up and dumped me for no reason" more believable than "Anon is a fucked up pervert, here's some shit he wrote"?
>>16604805
What's more plausible:
>>breaking up with someone for no reason
>>breaking up with someone because "I discovered my boyfriend is into some really weird shit AND he also wrote stories about cutting me with knives and shit like that"?
>People would never think I'm ito that, and I'm a very honest guy, at least people think I am.
Never assume your reputation is totally inviolate, especially if a two-year relationship was suddenly and unexpectedly broken off. So unless all of your friends are going to shun her for being intolerant of your secret fantasies, you're fucked mate.
>>16604824
I'm gonna need you to back the fuck up and realize that you're protecting your gorefics fantasies more than your soon-to-be-ex girlfriend right now. I mean, none of us can really judge you for it, because 4chan, but we're not the ones who are desperately trying to cling to the hope of explaining away something that seriously disturbed his significant other.
>>16604863
It's not fair! Like I said they are just fnatasies , but I just don't know how to tell her that. What of I say it's a friend's?
>>16604730
That's gore not bondage dum dum
>>16604875
Your reaction when she texted you outs them as being yours, and why the fuck would you have someone else's erotica with her as a character in it anyway?
Just face it, you're going to get dumped
>>16604887
No, she is not fucking getting away with dumping me over something soo stupid and selfish just cause she's " scared "
>>16604906
There's nothing for her to 'get away with'. She is free to do as she pleases. You can't make her stay, and if you threaten her, she has even more reason to go to the police.
>>16604875
>>It's not fair!
Alright, you had a pretty convincing thread up until this point, man. Had me fooled that this shit was actually happening. You reached too far with trying to claim unfairness. It's too silly to even believe somebody in that position would say something like that.
>>16604923
You tool, its not fair cause its just a fantasy. Why is it that people can get away with wanti g to fuck ponies , animals etc but this unacceptable?
>>16604936
Because they are fucking them, not making them bleed and fucking them while you eviscerate them?
I don't know what social circles you're in where bestiality is accepted, though.
>>16604936
Seriously, man. It's too ridiculous to believe that anybody would attempt to put that situation into terms of fairness.
To say it's not fair that a person has their own personal opinion and standards against something you like is laughable, dude. That's why I'm convinced that this situation is completely made up. It's just so goddamn sad otherwise.
>>Why is it that people can get away with wanti g to fuck ponies , animals etc but this unacceptable?
You wrote detailed stories about hurting your ex-girlfriend as masturbation material, which makes it twice as weird in all actuality, to think that you're getting off on something you personally wrote. It's egotistical, like. But your ex-girlfriend is an otherwise normal person who turned out to be repulsed by the idea of being the fixture of goreporn. The ponyfuckers, I hate to admit, have community; you have an ex-girlfriend who feels like she's been threatened by your fapping material.
So maybe the problem isn't that it's her fault for discovering and having a problem with your fetish, it's that you never told her about it to begin with so she wouldn't be so outright horrified when she found out about the extent of it later. That is, of course, if this isn't just a troll thread.
>>16604707
I empathize with you anon.
Just explain it to her
>>16604723
That's something that you want to talk to her about because some people don't understand that just because you fantasize about something doesn't mean you'll actually do it.
But also reprimand her for invading your privacy, especially when you told her not to.
How many girls have rape fantasies but don't actually want to be raped?
Just talk to her when she's calmed down and explain its just a weird fantasy and you'd never want to actually hurt her.
