hey people of adv so, I'm a girl who doesn't like

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2015-12-26 02:28:08 Post No. 16604238
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Anonymous 2015-12-26 02:28:08 Post No. 16604238 [Report]

hey people of adv

so, I'm a girl who doesn't like noise, talks extremely loud, has only one friend, has never gone to a concert, gets nervous around people, chubby and is 20.

honestly, all of that doesn't bother me, I feel like I'm normal, but I know I'm not. I'm not NEET or anything. sometimes I get lonely but most of the time I feel like I have more energy when I'm alone.

I don't ask much from my life, but sometimes it makes me feel weird that I'm not out partying and my family says so too.

I never had a bf or anything and I really don't care, but sometimes it bothers me because I ask myself if I would feel different having more social interaction. but I really don't feel as isolated as people say I am.

what is wrong with me? how do I let this not affect me in a negative way? I wish people could just accept I don't like to be like most girls my age are? all having a decent number of friends and dating and all of that?

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Anonymous 2015-12-26 02:41:54 Post No.16604284
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Anonymous 2015-12-26 02:41:54 Post No.16604284 [Report]

>>16604238
embrace solitude, it's like a warm dream, I severed many social relations because of this and I don't regret it a bit

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Anonymous 2015-12-26 02:51:25 Post No.16604302
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Anonymous 2015-12-26 02:51:25 Post No.16604302 [Report]

>>16604238
So are you assuming something is wrong with you cause you think and act for yourself instead of most bimbo women your age or because you want to conform but can't. ... ?

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Anonymous 2015-12-26 02:59:33 Post No.16604323
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Anonymous 2015-12-26 02:59:33 Post No.16604323 [Report]

>>16604302
no, I wish I wouldn't have to justify myself all the time,
"I'm not good with people" and "I just don't like to do this or that" because I come out as bitter but I'm really not, i don't want to be perceived as bitter when I'm really pacific.
my humour is really black and full of things that make people uncomfortable. I just wish I didn't have to be so awkward about myself when people look at me like I'm some kind of loser or something. I'm not the most confident person I know of

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Anonymous 2015-12-26 03:02:02 Post No.16604327
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Anonymous 2015-12-26 03:02:02 Post No.16604327 [Report]

>>16604284
well that's a shame, I wish I could find more people I could relate. more people like me, but I guess it's difficult when we are all isolated. I just like to talk to and joke sometimes, once in a blue moon. and when I can't do that I feel lonely but that's all I guess

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Anonymous 2015-12-26 03:09:14 Post No.16604344
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Anonymous 2015-12-26 03:09:14 Post No.16604344 [Report]

>>16604327
I can relate, the thing is I cant find people like me, I still have my childhood friends though so I have that going for me, which is nice