As a pretty average and really shy girl, where do I meet guys? I'm doing online dating right now and I'm not getting anything more than guys who want to hook up and I'd really much rather meet someone IRL.
>>16597356
Hobbies that involve other people. Or religious places if your the spiritual type.
Play an MMO, it's where I met my ex who also happened to be shy at first.
>>16597360
I already have hobbies that involve other people, but that produces nothing more than friends
>>16597361
I'm not into games
>>16597356
try meetup.com and couchsurfing
>>16597362
Do you show any kind of interest in a guy you like or do you just not seem interested? A little smile and eye contact can go a long way.
>>16597369
If I like a guy then I can't help but seem interested and smile/make eye contact/get flustered
>>16597379
Perhaps the guys you do this with are not straight.
>>16597385
Why? Because a straight guy would automatically like me back?
>>16597415
Most straight guys are not super picky. If you're average looking with a decent personality...
You're not going to be everyone's type, no one is. Chances are you'll meet someone in time.
>>16597437
How come I'm in my mid twnties and it hasn't happened yet then.
>>16597356
>Average
Literally go to a bar and sit there. Women have to put in almost no effort short of having a pulse and not being fat. Even the fat part is alright as some men like fat women for whatever fucking reason.
>>16597506
That's how you get sex not relationships
What are your hobbies/interests?
>>16597685
Because relationships can't stem from that. Are you fucking retarded?
>>16597486
1. You have standards that aren't being met, likely because:
2. You overrate your own attractive traits and approachability.
"Shy" often means boring. You present yourself as a closed book because there's nothing on your pages but a plot summary and a copyright.
There's no fix for being boring.
