>last had sex a year ago, in context of committed relationship
>0 sexual contact since then, two dates from dating sites that were unsuccessful
How long until I'm officially considered hopeless?
>>16595216
I haven't kissed a girl for 3 years and im a virgin. It will get better man. just go to a bar and get drunk the ladies will fly towards you.
>>16595216
Alcohol is your friend.
I went about five years between sexual encounters. It's only hopeless when you give up on it.
>2 dates
Takes a lot more than that man. That is very low to be giving up already.
>only makes the effort to go on two dates in a year
>complains about a dry spell
This is no one's fault but your own
>>16595216
At least you've had sex.
>got a girl off "a hundred times," in her own words, in one day.
>didn't get anything in return
>2005
Oculus Rift will be done Q1 2016, just make sure you've got a good graphics card. Coming home to a virtual reality harem will be to gen-Y/gen-Z as coming home to football and sitcoms was to the baby boomers.
>>16595425
>>16595446
I have certainly tried. I'm not that attractive m8ties
Well, last time I had sex was 3 and a half years ago, but the hope is still there
>>16595216
>How long until I'm officially considered hopeless?
If you give up, then you are officially hopeless.
>>16595216
13 years and 4 months
Last time I had sex was this last November and before that I had sex in august of 2014 with a stripper.
And before that I had sex with no one.
I haven't had any dates before or after those events.
My first kiss was with the girl I fucked in November.
Im 25 years old
I've tried to speak to girls countless times and I always strike out.
All-fucking-ways.
And I've become hopeless since I was 18 when my father told me that I would never be able to obtain a girlfriend because I'm fat.
You can still keep trying but I gave up close to 8 years now and I don't see anything changing. I've accepted my fate.
You can't give up on two dates though.
I haven't had sex is two years. I usually go awhile inbetween relationships though.
>Haven't had sex in a year
>Given up
Were you the world's most attractive teenager when you were younger? How did you think that just not getting laid in a year was the end of your life's boner parties?
>>16596817
Because I'm no longer in school and not meeting people on a regular basis. Even in college I had only one gf and had no romantic prospects my whole senior year.
If getting laid is the sum of your ambition, then you are a fucking loser.
I haven't been laid in I don't know how long. But I've been having a blast with life. Stop the porn. Do your shit.
>>16595399
>just go to a bar and the ladies will fly toward you
Why arnt you doing this?
Also, OP it's been 5 years since I've touched a girl. After so long you'll stop caring. You won't think about actual Sex. But you will think about girls in general which is a huge pain
>>16595216
I haven't have sex since Oct 2008.
>>16595216
I haven't had sex since 1974.
>have sex
>get aids
>get grill pregnant
>die
Not worth it m8, stress less about it and you'll enjoy the other aspects of your life more.
>>16595216
>>16595399
Fellas ever heard of a prostitute?
A lot more straight forward and probably cheaper than clubbing or trying to date a bitch over time.
>>16596939
Hey me too
>>16595216
Quit your bitching op
Went 6 years without pussy, didnt give a shit, have a nice girl now since 2 years... If u really wanna stick it in, go get a hooker
God almighty this thread is depressing.
What gives, guys? You got the power of the Internet to learn about how to get GF, get laid, seduction, build attraction, get over your fears, own the courage to approach, etc.
I get annoyd if I go more than three weeks. I get worried if I go more than three weeks. But no matter how long I'd go, I would never ever consider myself hopeless.
It's my duty as a representative of the male gender to fuck women, and it's my responsibility due to my self respect to at least try to get better at achieving it.
>>16597186
I get worried if I go more than three months*
>>16595216
>>16595399
Get on my level, 20 year old kissless virgin.
>>16597186
Because not everyone is gifted
>>16595216
Check Craigslist
>>16595216
>tfw almost one year without sex, kisses, or any romantic interaction at all
I can feel the dark times creeping near, and it looks like they ae coming to stay. How many of you became permavirgins again after having lost your virginity?
You're fine. Just get out more.
>28
>had sex once at 21 and never dated anyone
>dry spell and apathy for seven years
>start trying to date earlier this year
>met with frustration and hopelessness
>randomly meet cute nerdy girl at a friend's party during summer
>been together since
You can do it dude. It just depends on how determined you are.
>>16597339
th-thanks anon. You made my day better
>>16597359
Just know that it takes time and effort. Rejection or failure isn't uncommon so don't feel bad. Take what you can away from it and move on.
This seems like the proper thread.
I was in a long relationship (6 years) and now that it's ended I have absolutely no drive to go out and look for someone new.
Even the thought of a casual hook up doesn't really do anything for me.
It's been almost 1.5 years since my relationship ended. How do I get out there again?
>>16596925
+1 This
You don't have to place a high importance on sex if you don't want to. I've turned down more women this year than I've had sex with. Establishing a position of power by self control is much more rewarding for the soul.
>>16598260
Yes, but fucking some hot girl every now and again isn't exactly bad for you.
>>16597225
I've been there, anon. I know what it's like to not have a single clue. But the information is out there. Gift got nothing to do with it. Just do your reseach and stick to the program.
>>16598292
I don't believe scoring hot girls is just something that any person as the ability to do. If I work hard for it, I can get laid. But it's not with girls that I want to have sex with. They might not look "bad", but I don't want to have sex with them. I've only had sex once when I was 20 years old. I'm 25 now. I've had 2 opportunities for sex this year. But I've turned both of them down because I just don't want to have sex with certain girls. I do not believe the whole phrase "pussy is pussy". If I'm going to have sex, then I want to do that with someone I want to fuck. But I don't have a chance with the girls I want to fuck. So I just don't even try to fuck anyone period. Why waste my time.
Sex isn't fun to work for, and quite frankly, it took me a lot of effort to get laid the first time. What I meant by it being a gift is I have friends who don't have to put in any effort at all and can get laid. One of them doesn't work out, but is naturally attractive, smart, has a sense of humor and is just overall very smooth with girls. It was a gift he was born with. It's just the way it is. I don't have that gift, so the way I see it is I'm not suppose to be getting a lot of girls. It wasn't intended for me in life I guess..
