social retard here
my gf's cousin died.
What should I tell her other than, "I'm sorry"?
>>16565863
"I'm breaking up with you"
>>16565863
"It should have been me op, I let him drive sober. Friends don't let armadillos own speed boats"
>>16565863
try not to say much at all. when shes sad, hug her. put an arm around her. kiss her on the cheek instead of on the lips, bitches love cheek kisses. reminds them that you care. instead of trying to coddle her, hype her up. when shes sad about it, talks about it, and waits for you to say something, just hug her and say 'you're so strong. i wish i could be as strong as you are' even if shes sobbing like a 3 year old.
outside of that, try to cook her meals, general take care of her, rub her back, etc.
>>16565940
>say 'you're so strong. i wish i could be as strong as you are' even if shes sobbing like a 3 year old
How the fuck do one say that without laughing?
>>16565863
>cousin
They probably weren't even that close, if it persists for more than three days say "You're overeating, get over yourself.".
>>16565960
by not being autistic.
you think the crying girl who's cousin just died is going to think its corny? shes a rush of emotional hormones causing her to be a sobbing 3 year old in that moment.
>>16565969
I'm not OP, but that whole sentence was just so fucking hilarious to me.
>>16565974
one day you'll have a girlfriend and realize its good advice. one day.
>>16565978
I have a gf, but saying such an obvious load of shit just cracks me up every time. Anyway. Sorry. Didn't meen to hi-jack.
my condolences
im here for you if you need anything
everything will be alright
if your family needs anything, im here to help
stay strong
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>>16565999
>i have a gf
thats the most autistic response you could have done anon. 10/10 you convinced me. im sure you comfort your 'gf' all the time.
Sometimes just being there is enough
The phrase "I don't know what to say" is the socially awkward man's best friend. No one ever questions it, and people always interpret it in the most favorable possible light. And, as an added bonus, it's true.
