Never had sex/relations, etc. Saving it for marriage. But when I get excited sometimes ans touch my dick, I lose it.
How did you guys gain that ability to not cum easily?
I would heavily consider not saving yourself before marriage because the obvious major question is, what if you two are not sexually compatible in the least?
Not cumming is all about mental clarity and focus. Of course to practice for this you need to practice jerking off and you don't come off as a person who do that.
>>16536220
>Saving it for marriage.
>>16536232
>>16536234
Oh boy here we go. You should have known not to say that on /adv/, OP.
>>16536220
Literally only 2 reasons not to have sex before marriage: medical and religious. No one even follows the last one.
>>16536232
>I would heavily consider not saving yourself before marriage because the obvious major question is, what if you two are not sexually compatible in the least?
I gave up on possibility of sexual relations before marriage. At this point I'm a lost cause and all I can do is focus on myself as no girls are there that I can date
>Not cumming is all about mental clarity and focus. Of course to practice for this you need to practice jerking off and you don't come off as a person who do that.
I used to as a younger teenager (12-13). But stopped since then. I'm 21 now and I don't touch myself because I honestly get severe depression from doing so. This is one of those times were you get so excited imagining something that when you touch yourself; you're bound to blow.
I'm saying how can I prevent blowing off easily if and when I get into sex?
Mfw I'm a guy and have never came from sex before.
>>16536241
Bump
Anyone? Advice?
>>16536353
This thread is just going to turn into an argument about waiting until marriage
>>16536362
Ok, forget I said that
How would I be able to fix this problem? Practice sex?
>>16536378
Yes, practice sex with pretty teen girls.
>You'll thank me later
anyone else want to give advice?
>>16536494
Get in better physical shape, you'll last longer.
>How did you guys gain that ability to not cum easily?
>>16536220
If your not having sex till marriage then it doesn't matter really. If you are just cumming at inconvenient times just think of something that will guarantee you to be turned off, like an autopsy or mouldy dog shit. Find what works for you. Or you can just jack off, but before you cum just stop jacking off. Continue once you don't feel like you're going to cum. Keep trying until you feel more control over your reflexes.
>>16536220
I was doing the same thing (until I turned 20) then I changed my mind. I realized that in this modern day and age I'm not even going to get married unless I have sex with her first, because sex is critical in a relationship. I strongly suggest you just have sex with your next partner, the sooner the better. This is coming from a pretty devout Russian orthodox
>>16536276
Dude im 18 and p had sex at least 800 times, its not everything focus on making money