Hey /adv/, I'll make this short. Has anyone here ever been «ghosted» repeatedly?
I recently went on a couple of dates with a girl, we had great chemistry, talked frequently, and last time we hung out, we chilled at my place and made out (no sex). I wanted to hang out with her again, but she just stopped talking to me, deleted me off of facebook, and wouldn't answer my texts.
A similar thing happened with another girl I met the next month, we went on a couple of dates, and just recently hung out at my place, we made out and just chilled, when she left we had a very long and passionate kiss. I tried to hang out with her again, and now she's not responding either.
WTF is going on? Whenever a girl comes to my place, it seems to be the kiss of death for ever seeing them again, what gives? For the record, I tried to have sex with the first girl, but she was on the rag, and I didn't try to have sex with the second girl. And I know «Ask them» would be a good answer, but they're not talking to me, so any insight from you all on why this would happen would be great.
They know the next time that they are coming over, sex is what you're expecting and it makes them feel awkward. They would have sex that night, but they don't want to go into it knowing that's what you're expecting. If you get them at your place, go all the way. I don't know what to do though if that's not a possibility. May even just be playful about it?
>>16501880
Sent them a message saying
"Let's talk, I need to know what's bothering you. And I'm sorry if you thought I'd do something that wouldn't make you feel comfortable"
Joke a little bit to soften the situation.
If they reply, good. If they don't, they don't give a shit about you.
>>16502936
Like I wrote, I tried to have sex with the first girl, so she wasn't having it because she was on the rag. The other girl did not seem comfortable going beyond making out, so I kept my hands above sea level.
>>16502964
I would man, but like I said, they're not responding to me. They clearly don't give a shit about me, which is fine, but frustrating because I have no idea WTF they're upset about.
>>16501880
this happens to me all the time, and i'm a girl. would like some advice on this too.
>>16502993
Do you actually ask them to go out again?
>>16502993
yes, of course, but i stop asking/contacting them after being rejected or ignored twice in a row.
>>16503086
meant to quote
>>16503015
To OP
Have you considered the possibility of someone talking shit abou you behind your back? Maybe an exgf or even some crazy stalker bitch?
To thw grill
Did you have sex with said dudes?
>If yes they got what they wanted
>If no they are pissed they didn't get what they wanted
>Yes it's that easy
Oh dear God, did you steal this post from Reddit or was that actually you over there as well?
Listen to the replies you got there.
>>16504268
lmao, yeah, that was me, and I agree with them.
