Where the fuck do people meet women?
>be me
>20 yo kv
>fit, dress decently, look decent
>good social skills, able to carry on a conversation
>have clear goals in life I'm working toward
>have money, my own apartment, going to school
>talk to qt girls frequently in class but it never goes anywhere
My only problem is I don't know what the fuck to do to get out of my house. I've spent my life as a loner. I don't get invited to any parties. The few friends I do have never introduce me to girls or bring any around. The clubs I'm interested in joining are sausage fests. I just go to class, try to talk to some girls if possible, then get super depressed as I walk home in the stupid November 6pm pitch black darkness and spend 12 hours trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. I can't get enjoyment out of Netflix or shitposting or videogames anymore because I know I should be fucking a girl at my age but I don't know where the fuck to go or what the fuck to do.
/adv/ where do I go to meet a qt gf?
Wow, you're basically me except I'm 21 and not a virgin. I guess I'll just check and and we can try to work together.
First off, do you live near a big city or are you more rural? This is important.
>good social skills
>I've spent my life as a loner
nice contradiction.
Internet. You can meet women on the internet, and discuss where to go on a date. That's why I'm engaged now. Hooray.
Its about taking control of situations. When i first went to college i became social by asking everyone i carried on a conversation with if they wanted to smoke and made a ton of friends. If these people genuinely enjoy conversation and you can tell you just have to say "we should hang out sometime" or "whatre you doing after class?" everything else will come naturally friend
>>16466436
Now, I don't know about all this. I've worked retail for a few years and I can converse with a customer about anything from why they walked in to the team on their hat or their car. I would say I can generally socialize well. Yet, I don't have many friends. Maybe that means people don't like me when they get to know me in-depth, but surely I can socialize.
>>16466447
I'm not OP but I feel like I'm cursed I have like a 10% success rate asking people to hang out and I've been strung along into thinking I would hang out with people for embarrassing lengths of time. It's mostly why I don't bother.
>>16466435
I live in a mid-sized city.
>>16466436
Not really. I can engage in smooth conversation with normies very easily. Last week I randomly approached some dude I recognized in the university cafeteria and chatted him up. We got drunk on Friday night. While I was over at his place I connected with his roommate too and we all went out for lunch the next day. I just don't have a close friend circle that hangs out every week like a lot of people seem to have.
>>16466462
you just have to keep in contact with these people thats all there is to it, i dont see the issue here honestly
>>16466468
The whole time I'm at this guy's house, I'm thinking to myself, I should be with a woman right now.
I go see a movie with my brother and feel his aura in the next seat, and I'm thinking I should have a girl sitting next to me right now.
I go camping with my dad and his friends. I'm sitting by the fire listening to these old dudes STILL talking about girls they laid 40 years ago. I realize I really am missing out on everything, that I only get one life and there are no fucking do overs.
>>16466419
Depends on where you live.
If I were you, I'd go social media blitzing, but let's save that for last.
Have you had a gf before? Do you even know what you are looking for in a gf?
>>16466540
>Have you had a gf before?
No.
>Do you even know what you are looking for in a gf?
A female version of me that's feminine instead of masculine
Fuck if I know. I'd go pick-up artisting and just ask women out, but I'm not attractive and girls hate men who aren't attractive talking to them randomly.
All my friends are just as nerdy and socially awkward as me, so girls I do meet either aren't attractive, already in a relationship, or have someone else they like. That's if I manage to stay out of a drunk argument about how you can't just slap a Greek prefix onto sexual and be a special snowflake.
