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2015-11-14 16:40:54
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Can someone please help me understand my situation.
So I've been talking to this girl. She approached me at a party and then later added me on Facebook and gave me her number. We started flirting a bit but also had some genuine conversation. We hung out about a week later ended up fucking. Before fucking we actually had a talk about how we both enjoy each other's company and don't want shit to be weird after we fuck. We both agree the sex could be a casual thing. So she stayed the night and we fucked a couple more times talking about in between each go. We agreed it was really great and that it'd be fun to do again. So after that we kept texting. Kept flirting but also having real conversations. Then she started telling me she missed me. She would ask if she could come back over soon. She would use pet names like "love" and "baby." I thought it was really sweet so I played along. Then she texted me one morning being flirty so I told her to come over when I got off work. She liked the idea and asked if I could pick her up. I said yeah. Then when the time came to pick her up she started being very flaky and it's been strange ever since. She doesn't ever text me first anymore and when I text her I only get disinterested short responses. I thought maybe she just lost interest and thought that was really weird in itself that she would be all in to me one day and indifferent the next.
But then last night she texted me addressing me as "love" being cute again. We had a short conversation but I fell asleep. I responded to her in the morning when I woke up but she read it and didn't reply. I know she was drunk last night so that explains the text but it also must mean I'm still on her mind.
What is going on? Why did she suddenly stop making any effort to talk to me? I really would love to maintain this friendship even if the sex stops but it seems like she doesn't even want to chat casually anymore.
Is there anyway I can ask her about this without seeming too needy?