How sensitive is your clitoris meant to be? I keep reading that direct stimulation is too much for women when they're aroused but even if I'm aroused I can touch my clitoris firmly and it's not overwhelming or painful
Is there something wrong?
>>16456848
it's not so sensitive that you can't push on it directly, but it's not some sort of magic button and so saying it's 'sensitive' is the best way to get men to understand not to ram on it.
I can press on mine directly and it doesn't hurt, even when aroused, but it doesn't feel good to be pushed on that way.
>>16456858
I can ram on it and it doesn't feel bad
It depends vastly on the person. Some people have a clitoris that are so sensitive that any direct stimulation is too much, while others are less sensitive and can tolerate or even enjoy very rough, direct stimulation. And some people don't feel anything from their clitoris.
I'd say that you are average. It's just that you hear the most complaints about a sensitive clitoris because they actually have a problem to complain about. But they aren't the norm.
I'm a man, and I can answer this question. The answer is no, there isn't anything wrong with you. Some are more sensitive than others.
Personally, I prefer your kind.
Are you able to orgasm?
>>16456901
The intensity of my orgasms are very low
The sensitivity of the clitoris also varies with the amount of stimulation it's been through, or how aroused you are. Mine becomes more sensitive the more I touch it. It's like a vicious circle. I'm not very sensitive like for a full minute after beggining continued stimulation. Then it increases, and after an orgasm I can barely touch it. Also, I don't know why, but if I smear my own juices on it for lubrication, it automatically becomes more sensitive than if I tamper with it dry.
It doesn't have anything to do with arousal, it is really the contact with the juices what sensitizes it.
>>16456910
I see. Are you concerned that something is wrong with your body, or are you trying to improve your orgasms? If the former, it's not unusual, don't sweat it. If the latter, I have a clit like yours and the hitachi magic wand does wonders. I can't orgasm without it, which is unfortunate, but before I was unable to orgasm at all until I was 22.
Some girls have that. It's pretty common
