Has anyone broken up with someone they love due to lack of sex?
Did you regret it?
>>16454096
I don't think this is what you're looking for, but I couldn't get hard for my ex. She just wasn't good looking enough for me, although I think most people would think she was wonderful.
I dunno, maybe it wasn't her looks. And, she would have done anything I asked.
I regret nothing.
>>16454096
whatever the answer, just remember that being single can lead to less sex for an even longer time. just think about it.
im pro independence but if this si the issue try to think about how big an issue it is and where its going.
though if you've already settled into a sexless routine and the good sex portion of the relationship is over, i do advise you move on if you cant et her going
>>16454314
It's good that you broke up with her.
My boyfriend refuses to break up despite our shitty sex life.
I am so bored with it and considering a break up.
>>16454321
He watches too much porn and masturbates daily. When I get home from work, he's already done for the day and not in the mood.
>>16454329
bummer. tlka to him, try to work it out if you think its worth it. try to consider the worth of people andr elationships and trying when you do that.
but if hes not worth it, move on.
Sort of... but, no regrets.
>>16454340
I have tried to talk to him too many times now.
He said he'll see a therapist but it feels like it's too little too late. I just want a normal relationship with a normal sex life.
>>16454329
But, WHY is he doing that?
>>16454096
Yes. He had a micro penis and phimosis. Essentially, he had no dick. I dealt with it for a year because I was young and naive. Sex is critical to a healthy relationship. I would never put up with a relationship where I'm not sexually satisfied. That's like living life consuming only bread and water. Yeah, you'll survive, but you won't live.
>>16454329
>masturbates too much
I've never been able to relate to this issue.
I masturbate >1 daily, and still have mindblowing sex and go more than once each time. This argument just baffles me.
>>16454345
Well he opened up to me and started to cry about 2 years ago when I discovered he spent all our money on pornography. He told me he has stolen money to pay for porn, he is addicted and he is trying to stop. Since then, I have urged him to seek and also trying to help him along the way.
Nothing has changed but a few weeks every few months when we get into a big fight about not having sex.
>>16454351
It baffles me too anon. He just feels no urge to have sex or initiate it. When I initiate, he does it like it's a chore, it's very boring.
>>16454347
Thanks for that input. Did you still love him when you broke up with him? Was it hard moving on?
Most people cannot be satisfied with only a single sexual partner. A few can, but they are the exception. Don't be surprised when desire wanes and eyes wander.
>>16454355
Patience level: Shaolin monk
>>16454355
>Since then, I have urged him to seek and
Seek help*
>>16454362
Yes I have asked him if he would like to open the relationship up and he strictly refused and told me I was insane.
I feel so trapped. I know this relationship is wrong because it's missing this crucial aspect. I don't know if I can hold onto this anymore.
>>16454361
Yes, I still cared for him. That was ten years ago. I can't tell you if what I felt was love or not. It was love at that period of time, perhaps. But it hurt to leave then, because at the time, it seemed so shallow. I realize now that being emotionally and physically compatible are essential to a proper relationship. So in retrospect, I do not regret leaving that person at all.
>>16454366
I am not usually a patient person but I do try with the people I love. I tried for 2 years with him now and I just don't know what to do.
I love him but it doesn't feel enough to stay, yet I can't seem to just leave him either.
>>16454373
Thank you for this. It gives me hope that maybe if I move on, it's for the best. It's hard to do when you feel like they are the only person you will ever love.
>>16454355
>>16454361
Okay, i didnt realize this was full blown porn addiction. I would run, and let him deal with this solo, but I'm also not interested in being in another relationship where I'm helping someone deal with their psychological issues day in and day out.
>>16454372
"I wont fuck you and nobody else can either" "insane" starting to sound abusive.
>>16454378
Sexual compatibility is important for a happy and healthy relationship, as is financial stability. Save yourself.
>>16454384
I know that feeling, love. It's impossible to know what your future holds. All you can do is trust others, who have been years down the road from you, that there are always opportunities. There is never just one person for you. There are many. You have to be free to find the right one, out of those.
>>16454392
I don't mention it or help him daily, but it's like the big neon elephant in the room. We'll be watching tv and I'll kiss him, touch him and he's just dead down there.... then I feel hurt and frustrated and he wonders why I am being a "bitch" or "cunt". I tell him why and he says things like "You are always negative"..."try being nicer so I actually want to have sex with you" Even though I am always nice to him but in these moments , I feel rejected. It wouldn't be so bad if we had a proper sex life, but we don't, so when I initiate and he acts disinterested, I feel really upset.
Yes, no. Next gf was better.
>>16454399
Thank you Femanon. I know what you say is true, this break up can only make me stronger.
Tomorrow will be the day I end it when I see him.
I'm terrified but it has to happen. I can't live like this anymore.
Sex is an important part of the relationship and when you get with someone else, you'll realize what you've been missing
>>16454096
yes. i do not regret it. people have differing sex drives, its just another facet of compatibility.
>>16454351
Not everyone has the same libido you dumb fuck
>>16454696
Then maybe fag boy should stop fapping and fuck his girl instead of try impregnate his hand.
>>16454709
Maybe she should try being sexually appealing in at least some aspect.
>>16454719
Don't do that man. Dude has issues clearly and nothing she does is gon change it.
