Do people really have threesomes, and how do they get started?
>>16453414
I've had two.
Communication.
>>16453414
I had one once when I was 19.
You really just gotta let the girls do there thing and move in on them.
Of course they both have to be crushing on you as well. Also it doesn't hurt if they are horny as fuck.
>>16453414
I've had several... but now that i look back i dont think a single one of them were while I Was in a relationship, usually with other couples.
what kind of threesome are you looking to have, and are you single or what?
>>16453581
Yes, I'm single. I'm not looking for any kind of threesome in particular. I'm just curious.
>>16453594
well if you are single it can be more difficult to find as couples are the ones in control really. there are swinger sites and swingers clubs if you live in a large enough area. if you have a friend who is particularly bro-ish that sorta thing might be open too.
if you want a mff threesome though you'd probably have to date a girl whos into the idea, and arrange that with her.
in all my experiences i was approached by existing couples.
>>16453605
Life must be good as a slut
>>16453606
perhaps. im a dude. though i suppose men can be slutty. i try not to be.
>>16453615
I doubt you tried
Why contain it anyway?
The only threesome you need is you, your hand, and your dick. You're all set bud
>>16453661
because there are downsides to sleeping with ANYONE just because there is pleasure for yourself.
for the record, that is the actual definition of a slut. its not that you just sleep around, so much as will sleep with guys regardless of quality.
>i doubt you tried
i went from sex 3 or 4 times a week, to sometimes just twice a month, ive scaled back quite a bit and focus on quality over quantity.
My then girlfriend now fiance and I had been talking about sex and what we're interested in ,as we are prone to do every now and then to make sure that we are both fully satisfied/explore when we both think it's appropriate.
We talked about three ways, and I said I was interested, and that she wasn't opposed. We agreed to keep an eye out for people who we felt like were good fits for it, because we weren't so interested to just grab someone off craigslist or reddit or something. We wanted to know them and also be able to have an actual conversation with them about it.
So we had a few options within our friends, very few of mine were attractive to either of us so we decided against it, one female friend of hers we knew would be down, as she was bi and wanted to bang her before we started dating. But she was in a relationship, and we knew she would want the other guy involved, and we weren't really down for that because we didn't find him attractive.
With that I had one of my male friends who was pretty down, after some testing with jokes an what not, but he chickened out at the last minute the first attempt because he was in a relationship. We managed to convince him eventually, and we did it. That's how it started, if you want more details than that for curiosity then that's another story. MFF came later.
TL;DR: Carefully, slowly.
I have no idea. Alcohol? Knowing weird swinger couples? Right place right time? My only threesome happened in my early 20s when I would party, drunk-as-a-skunk at an apartment.
>friend bailed on me to go try and bang some chick across the city
>left alone at an apartment with mostly strangers
>knew both girls that lived there, they were always flirty toward me
>some of the guests got a bit rowdy
>helped the two girls escort them out and get them rides
>blurry spots, getting more drunk, playing drinking games
>both girls end up kissing and pull me in
>wind up in a bed with both
Alcohol and conventions nowadays.
well look at all these big dicks....
wish i had a threesome...
doesnt alcohol lessen your erection?
>>16453979
it can. for me it only numbs my erection so sex isnt enjoyable. ive been sober for all my threesomes.
generally speaking though you get them just a little tipsy, not wasted. also, having a threesome is (assuming they are new to it) a NEW sexual experience, its going to make them extra fucking horny assuming they are into it and arent just hopingto bang the chick and ignore you.
