You can't talk hateful people into not hating.

Yes, start saving up money.

>>16448819
>Save up a lot of money in the next six months and hope for the best?

lots of $$ is always a good idea

giving up on your crappy parents is another good idea but them saying you "stole" the car can be a problem - do you pay insurance on the car ? so you have a policy with your name on it ? the police will wonder why your parents are claiming theft if you have these papers

do you have receipts for maintenance work on car ? get some, see above

good luck

>>16448834
Unlike a pet, "who maintains the thing" is not the question of ownership with a vehicle. The name on the title is where that question starts and ends.

They don't hate you.

- They don't want you to move in with your boyfriend.
- They don't want you to get hurt.
- They don't want you to make a BIG mistake.
- They think you are too young to move in with a boy.

They will have every right to not pay for anything any more.
They will get over it but do not come crying back home in a month.
Do not attempt to ask them for help.

Adulthood is about making big, life-changing decisions, choose wisely.

>>16448834
I don't know much about cars but I know that, out of generosity, my dad gave me the car for college since he lives across the country. My name is not on anything except that our last names are the same. He pays for insurance.

He threatened this once because I wanted to drive 4 hours away once on a trip to take a friend home. I never did dumb shit growing up but that's how I'm treated.

>>16448864

I agree with this Anon. You are too young to move in with someone as if your life was already committed to such a change.

Maybe your folks know best and they're seeing something you miss. Be mindful of your choice.

>>16448864
See I don't expect my parents to pay for everything. It is a super nice perk that I don't want gone anytime soon, but if it happens, it happens. What I don't want to happen is my dad to hate me or threaten to say I stole his stuff. My parents also say I am dependent on their tax forms and shit and it will make being cutoff more difficult. Please correct me if I am wrong though, because I am having a hard time finding information on this. (USA)

I can't go back home. They live too far away, I pay for my schooling, I'm not leaving.

>>16448890
Even if this wasn't about moving in with my boyfriend, it is actually sort of a big deal about being cut off. They threaten me with this stuff if I do something they don't agree with all the time. It makes me never want to try anything that isn't even remotely scandalous.

You sound far too immature to be moving in with your boyfriend.

>>16448819
>>16448828
>>16448834

Can you just not move in with your boyfriend? Is that really so hard? Fuck.

>>16448949
That's what I meant when I said >>16448945

>>16448949
It is not about him. It is about my parents not getting out of my ass for one second to let me mature and grow up at all.

I can't drive an hour away without them threatening me. I just don't know what to do.

If you think I am immature, which yes I know I am, please tell me how to grow up and get them away from me. Maybe moving in with my bf is irrational right now. I am just not thinking straight because of how I cannot do anything 2 years later after I moved out.

>>16448985
>wants parents to let her grow up
>expects parents to pay for her living costs
Your parents will treat you like an adult when you start acting like an adult. Right now you're throwing a tantrum over them not giving you any money despite the fact that you're 19, soon to be 20. Mentally, you really are a kid and I don't blame them for treating you like one. Given how childish you're being, it's fair that they want to keen reins on you