My boyfriend has no to little interest in sex and I wish he did. I've tried asking about what he likes and spicing it up but he's not super interested. I offer to blow him but he sometimes refuses.
How do I make him want to screw me?
Hes gay just leave it
Replace boyfriend with new boyfriend.
You'll thank me later.
>>16444296
>unplug his router (no porn)
>hide his vidya controllers (no gaemz)
>hide his phone (no m8's or sluts)
>hide his keys (no fucking off somewhere)
>wear revealing, provocative clothing
>do your hair
>paint your face
>proceed about your day while showing off your body as much as possible
Eventually he will get bored, notice you whoring it up, and pounce on you
>>16444311
I think that is all stuff to get him mad
Just be more intimate with him, like cuddling. If he plays vidya, like mine does, I'd cuddle him in my underwear.
He might be tired if he works a lot, but if you share a bed and spoon together, rubbing your butt on his groin might do the trick. Not too noticeably though, just adjusting yourself with a little bit more movement. Lazy tired sex is nice.
My fb is uncut, so blowjobs are sometimes too much and even the tongue on the underside of his dick is a bit too painful, so try to be considerate. I like to tease and rub him playfully through his underwear and give it little kisses.
But anon is right when he says look more attractive by doing up your hair and makeup.
Anything else?
You can't force sexual interest on someone. If he's hardwired to have a low sex drive that's just how he is, and unfortunately, that's how he'll be.
fkin b8 m8 r8 8/8.
But seriously, if he probably isn't attracted to you anymore and doesn't have the balls to tell you that he's done with your shit.
Or you have a shitload of money and he's busy strokin' his cock to premium pussy on the internet.
>>16444296
why do you think he's not that interested?
some guys arn't that horny to begin with
maybe he is just tired
maybe he isn't turned on by you
don't beat yourself up too much about it
is he sexually active? does he masturbate?
was it always like it is now?
is he clingy and affectionate?
>>16444339
He's clearly not clingy you kek.
>>16444339
>>16444339
Sometimes when I initiate he kind of just...stops. It hurts my feelings.
He doesn't really masturbate. Doesn't watch porn. I think he likes hentai if anything? I don't judge him.
He's not really affectionate, he's very practical and pragmatic and not at all romantic.
>>16444355
I don't know anon, some guys treat their girlfriends like their friends
some treat their girlfriends like their mothers
a lot of older people have sexless relationships, it becomes more companionable over time
so I think it's possible anyway
>>16444363
We're both 18.... :(
I'm a guy with low sex drive. I just don't enjoy the physical contact very much. Some things I particularly dislike. I actually just turned down sex with a girl that I've been testify for the past 2 months just 3 days ago.
>>16444362
well that might just be how he is anon, if he's not very sexually active in general at leas it rules out the worse possibilities
he's pragmatic, so why don't you just ask him what turns him on and see if he can just tell you
maybe he has a fetish he's too embarrassed to talk about, he only has sex on Tuesdays, or only with girls who wear stockings and glasses
that happens
maybe you should try to excite him generally, take him outside for a hike or a picnic or something
failing that maybe he should man up a bit, libido suffers from inactivity
best sex I have is after I've been cutting down trees or doing some physical work
>>16444296
>I offer to blow him but he sometimes refuses.
That is a red fag.
>>16444375
*been talking to
>>16444380
Why's that
>>16444379
I'll try that. We usually do stuff like going on walks and hikes. He exercises a lot, actually.
We've talked about fetishes. I'm very open about that sort of thing. I know he has a minor foot kink. I've tried to play with that even though I don't like feet. I let him suck on my toes and I try to get into it. I've told him I'd dress up in knee socks and put my hair into pigtails as well.. I often ask for what he likes but he just says not much in relation to sex. He'd rather do something else with me.
I guess I should just realize he's not interested in the sexual side of our relationship... its really difficult to accept it. It really hurts my self-esteem even though I know it's not personal and he cares about me.
>>16444397
it's not your fault anon haha, I know a few couples that are the same
one of my friends gf's is like "will you have a threesome with me"
and I was like wtf, I don't want to see my friend naked
turns out she was sexually frustrated because my friend didn't want as much sex as she did
so your problem is actually quiet common
>>16444380
this guy is absolutely right
>>16444390
because receiving a bj is no effort. Sometimes I'm just too tired or whatever for sex, but receiving a bj is very relaxing and basically every guy would accept it all the time, by any girl really. Something is seriously wrong. He might be gay, he might have some issues with himself, but this is going to end badly
>>16444413
>because receiving a bj is no effort
Getting fucked in the ass is no effort either.
Don't listen to this OP, not every dude wants to get his dick sucked.
I've had a tough time getting my dick up before. I was ashamed enough to refuse sex too, maybe that's it?
>>16444413
He still has slober all over his dick which will need to get washed. I'm a guy and turned down bjs before. And I'm not homosexual.
>>16444296
you get a new bf. i had this same problem with my most recent ex- she never wanted to fuck, and i want to fuck 1-3 times per day. minimize the pain and get out now. the sooner you find a sexually compatible guy to fuck, the better off youll be
He could potentially just not enjoy having sex with you. I dated a girl for six months and she was super pretty and had a fucking amazing personality, but having sex with her was one of the most dull and disappointing things you could ever imagine. So, we just never had sex, which left me feeling the way you do. Extremely frustrated.
There's another possibility: he may be on heroin, or another opiate which completely kills your sex drive.
Source: I was the boyfriend on heroin.
kekhold him, he may make a good partner but not a good lover. tie him to a chair, fuck some other dude, send the other dude home and cuddle with your bf.
preferably make him wear chastity as well.
