I need help, /adv/.
I've been with my GF for about 4 years now. We love each other, but I kinda have a problem with her sexual interests.
For about 3 years now, she has shown exagerated interest in my dick. You may think it's obviously a good thing (And you wouldn't be wrong), but I feel like it's going a bit too far. Here's how it started:
We were doing things that couples usually do when they have private time since the very beginning. Thing is, after a year or so, she has shown increasing interest in my dick.
It started by discretely groping me in public, or dragging me away from people to suck me in a quiet place. At first, I was so happy that I was enjoying it no matter how/where we did it.
But after a while, she started to get more and more obsessed; She kept texting me on how she wanted to taste my semen again, and things like that. I had two mandatory blowjobs; one in the morning, and one before the night. Thing is, we did it so often that I couldn't cum sometimes, and she ended looking really sad when I couldn't.
Lately, I've been waking up during the night, feeling her lips and/or tongue on my dick. She kisses/licks it, while saying to herself how much she loves it.
I pretend to be asleep, but it starts to freak me out, as it happens several times a week.
I know sexuality is very important to her, so I don't want to hurt her by ordering her to stop. I also know that she's not depraved enough to seek sexual activities with other people; I mentionned it once, and she went in a deep depression phase.
So, do you have any advice on what to do? I really love her, and I know it's the sqme for her, but I can't keep living like this. I don't want to loose or hurt her.
nice b8
seriously, if this is not bait then just set some boundaries, you don't have to please someone 100% of the time
if she gets depressed it's not your fault, it's her unrealistic goals that's making her so
>>16442640
I wouldn't define it as goals, I'd rather define it as some kind of addiction.
In the beginning, I was balls-deep into it, but I somehow grew tired of it.
She looks so proud everytime, I can't get myself to crush her thing. She somehow identifies sexuality as love, and the other way around.
I honestly thought this was some kind of deep roleplaying, but it seems that it's deeper than that.
>>16442678
Start finishing on her face or tits
Then say it would better if there's more cum, and hence should only be every second or third day
Everyone's a winner
test
>>16442694
That... is actually pretty smart, and won't hurt her feelings or convictions.
Plus, it won't really contradict her sexual thoughts, and might even comfort them. I know she has some kind of fetish when it involves semen. And it will leave me a bit of a rest, as the pressure will really build up down there. Let's just hope I will last more than 5 minutes when sexy time comes.
Thank you very much, fellow Anon.
>>16442610
>Lately, I've been waking up during the night, feeling her lips and/or tongue on my dick. She kisses/licks it, while saying to herself how much she loves it.
>I pretend to be asleep, but it starts to freak me out, as it happens several times a week
Literally rape since she didn't ask for consent.
>>16442713
It's not like I don't want it at all. We're a couple living together in a stable relationship, after all.
It's just too much. But I was maybe given a solution. I'm open for more advice, though.
>>16442610
as someone eho doesnt get blowjobs ... i envy you, be grateful that you have a girl that obesses over your dick, mine 'just doesnt like it' -.-
>>16442713
Rape culture!
>>16442754
Okay, but it's pretty obvious that you're uncomfortable with her doing that. Just because you're in a stable relationship doesn't mean that she should assume you consent to everything she does. You need to tell her, it's going to bother you a lot more sooner than later.
She does it to feel wanted. She's obsessed with making you hard/cum because it makes her feel good about herselfe. She's very insecure. Try to tell her how much you love her and how beautiful she is a bit more. Fill up her need for attention and validation and it might get better. I used to be like her, so i guess i can speak from experience.
