1/?
>start job three years ago
>a couple months in I cover someone for an early morning shift
>notice 8/10 girl works that shift
>extremely quiet and soft spoken
>I've never met someone more quiet in my life
>doesn't seem unconfident or timid though
>start working morning shifts
>get assigned a two-person project with her occasionally
>over time, get really good at said project and get paired with her for 3 hours every morning
>she listens to her ipod and works in silence each day
>I tend to mirror people and don't talk to her as well
>an entire year passes with limited conversation
>I'd crack a joke or try talking to her in the breakroom now and again but the most I'd get would be a smile
>pay little mind to her
>just workplace eyecandy
>she has a boyfriend and I had a girlfriend at the time anyways
a year passes
>in the middle of our morning project
>girl stops working
>takes out headphones
>"what music do you like anon?"
>completely caught off guard
>answer her
>"so you like the same music as me"
> talk to her here and there to this day about music and albums but conversation seems one-sided
>not only is she quiet but I find it hard to read her expression
>>17300208
So basically this is another "does this girl like me?" thread?
At this point, you might as well be friends. Nothing wrong about that.
2/3
More time passes. I work with her sister who is the complete opposite of her, socially, and I find out she not only likes the kinds of music I do but likes the same sports, movies, books, political views, games, clothing etc., and it's very specific. I could go on and on; it's almost scary. I start developing a huge crush on her.
>another female coworker (landwhale) at the time had been "pranking me"
>keeps putting leftover Halloween decorations in my work locker
>out of nowhere, the 8/10 starts doing it
>stuffs random crap in my locker every day
>I do it back to her
>becomes daily occurrence for months
>she puts all kinds of garbage, food and junk into my locker
>puts raw pasta in my coffee when I'm not looking
>got to the point where we were wasting so much coffee that she called for a truce
Broworker asks me if I'm going to her show one day
>she plays bass in a girl band
>attend show with broworker
>not my crowd at all but enjoy myself
>her boyfriend is there but mostly hanging with his own friends
>broworker and I hug her goodbye
feel like I'm getting somewhere
>I find it a lot easier to talk to her but still get limited responses back from her
>Most of our conversation is based on her teasing me
>She teases me about our other landwhale coworker liking me all the time
>she'll even message on facebook sometimes
>notice one day she deleted me from facebook
>straight up ask why and if I crossed a line with her
>"I'm using Facebook strictly for band stuff"
>ask why she still has everyone else from work on there
>"They have my band paged liked. Don't worry, Anon, you'll know if I'm mad at you"
>feel like she's bullshitting me
>she's never added me back and I won't let my pride suffer to add her
Other coworker is talking to me about gaming one day 8/10 is in the room and chimes in
>"hey anon, how come I don't have you on Steam?"
>sass her back playfully about not even being facebook friends but wanting to play online with me
3/3
This all hasn't stopped me from getting laid and having other relationships. I'm not sure if this exactly is a "does this girl like me?" thread because I'm a pretty confident guy and I'm getting a vibe she does.
I might want to fuck her but she has a boyfriend. I don't know how their relationship is. I guess I'm asking how I should approach her? I have an easy time making friends and talking to people but she's just so quiet. Broworker says I should start pranking her again because that seemed to be my "in" with her, though I'm not sure if that would make me seem desperate
