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2016-06-12 02:33:41 Post No. 17246259
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Anonymous
2016-06-12 02:33:41
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Specifically men that are in long term relationships and are happy. I'm having a hard time dealing with my girlfriend past sexual encounters. I have never mentioned it to her or let her know how I feel about it but I feel like things would have been ideal for us. We both have our history and it doesn't make me think less of her as a person but it is something that plagues me. When she tells me details about her encounters it makes me sick to think about it. I've always been of the opinion that transparency in a relationship is preferable to ignorance or denial. I know that she never orgasmed before me so I'm not insecure about my performance. I think it has more to do with the thought of another man with my girl.
My question:
Is this an error of judgement on my part on a subconscious level causing obsessive and neurotic images that if I had a clear understanding would make me feel indifferent? Do the feelings fade away with time? Or is it one of those things that will always bother me on some level and I will just have to learn to put up with it for as long as we are together?